"Those who seek great things are the first priority. "What is a pattern?Grid is the inner position, and the bureau is the external situation. Pattern refers to a person's vision and mind and the external state that is embodied.
The big picture is a kind of wisdom, and the great wisdom is like foolishness;The big pattern is a kind of realm, and great courage is cowardly;The big picture is a kind of depth, big sound;The big pattern is a kind of character, and the big trick is clumsy;The big picture is a gesture, and the elephant is invisible.
The most important thing that determines the pattern is the view. When we were on the second floor, we would see garbage all over the floorAnd on the twenty-second floor, you will have a panoramic view of the city.
Different floors will have different visions and mentalities. People are the same, when we step into a new height, reach a higher realm, we will have a different vision and mind.
The books you have read, the roads you have traveled, and the people you have met determine your vision of life and also constitute your life pattern.
1.Be kind to others
A person with a pattern in his mind has a good heart, does good deeds, and can understand the difficulties of others.
People have their own difficulties in life, some people are willing to take a hand, and some people choose to turn around. As everyone knows, good causes produce good results, and being kind to others is to perfect oneself.
The so-called pattern means that no matter how difficult things are in the world, you can be kind to the people around you.
People with a pattern, with kindness to all things, with tolerance to others, good fortune is already on the way.
2.What has passed is gone, and there is no longer any lingering
I like a piece of clothing, I looked at it for a long time, compared it again and again, bought it back, but the next day, I found that ** was a little lower again, and the originally good mood seemed to be hit again, falling to the freezing point, and I was very disappointed all day. We may all encounter situations like this often, but in fact, it is not cost-effective.
When you live to be 100 years old, you will have more than 30,000 days, and every day in the past cannot be repeatedThe rest of the days are approaching death, if we are always haunted by the past, we are doomed to not be able to grasp every moment, let alone enjoy the happiness we already have.
3.People with a big pattern are never afraid of the future
A few days ago, I learned that actor Hu Ge also chose to study abroad at the peak of his career, which immediately impressed me.
remembered that a few years ago, because of a sudden car accident, he saved his life but ruined his face, and he was only 24 years old that year.
Later, he also thought about giving up, or even committing suicide, but then he survived those dark days, devoted himself to improving his acting skills, and finally returned to the public eye with good works in the past few years, even more popular and stronger than before.
The so-called pattern still depends on whether you have the vision of not being afraid of the future, but you are just taking one step at a time, depending on whether you are afraid or hold your head high.
Back to reality, a person who really has a pattern knows what he wants in his heart and what kind of path he should take, and he will work hard to correct his mistakes and improve his cultivation.
If a person does not have a pattern, he will only see the immediate gains and losses, but not the long-term benefits.
If you want to have a good development, you must first improve your own pattern. When you don't know how to improve the pattern, the first thing to do is to read more books, how to add your knowledge in the books, will improve your pattern.
This set of practical wisdom books that open up life's dilemmas will help you very well, including a total of 5 volumes, namely "Insight", "Vision", "Pattern", "Emotional Intelligence", and "Strategy".
Pattern" book from the cultivation pattern, from the thought, action multi-faceted exposition of the importance of the pattern, interspersed with a variety of interesting cases, very readable, practical, want to achieve great things people must first have a big pattern.
Vision》The vision determines the world, opens the way to broaden your horizons, and takes advantage of various opportunities to see more and better. In this book, we will teach you the importance of vision, give practical methods, and lay a solid foundation for a brilliant life.
Emotional Intelligence "Emotional intelligence determines the source energy of your life's direction, improving emotional intelligence can allow us to obtain a broader space for development, this book teaches you to face family, work and unexpected time, to maintain positive combat effectiveness.
This book tells you how to increase your knowledge and improve your pattern, the more well-informed people are, the more humble they are, because they know that the world is big and the individual is small, so the more understanding and tolerance they can be towards others.
Strategy》Knowing strategy will allow you to do more with less. This book tells you that in order to achieve one of your goals, you need to make corresponding plans according to the situations you encounter in advance, and finally achieve your goals, open up your life pattern, and move towards a brilliant life.
Vision, insight, pattern, emotional intelligence, and strategy are all compulsory courses in your life, and only by learning these 5 points well will you move towards a better future.
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