Today, I will list some of the things that will disgust your ex after breaking up, and you will see if you have committed it.
The first one is the simplest stalkingThis is the most talked about, and the most common mistake everyone makes.
Here are two tips for you:
Now many people know that stalking is wrong, but they just can't control their emotions. So if you find out that your behavior is stalking, you may not be the first to blame yourself for making a mistakeInstead, divert your attention first and make yourself not want to break up first.
There are also some people who don't feel that their behavior is stalking at all, they always feel that they are not doing anything, and they do not show that they particularly want to get back together, and they control it well. The advice I give here is: you don't feel good about yourself, the pressure is generated by the other personIf you're always brushing up on presence, we can also put it down to stalking.
The second is to constantly write small essays, which happens as often as stalking
To be honest, I have seen many small compositions posted by many people, and some of them I was moved when I saw them, and I couldn't wait to obey her on the spot.
But you ignore one point, that is, your ex's negation of you at this time is equivalent to being moved, but the determination to score points must be scored for a breakup.
There are also some people's small essays, posted one after another, and it is easy to have a problem here, that is, your small essays seem to be touching, but the logic is not smooth, and I don't know what you want to express, one will say that I accepted the ending, and the other will say that I love you forever, and will always wait for you and so on.
At the end of the day,The small essay is just a simple emotional venting, and has nothing to do with the correct direction of redemption.
The third is to be willing to degenerate and indulge oneself
On this point, I don't actually object to you venting your emotions appropriately after a breakup, but let's be more demanding, relaxed, polite and polite.
If you're really upset, find a time to cry and vent, or play cards with your friends and have fun with you.
But I really don't advocate that you indulge in a health-destroying way after a breakup, after all, the relationship is gone, your life has to go on, you can vent appropriately, and at the same time, you must keep cheering yourself up.
Fourth, coercion and inducement, so that the other party will reconcile with you;
In fact, to put it mildly, if you use coercion and inducement to make the other party reconcile with you, then I have to persuade the other party not to reconcile with youYou are a person who behaves and does things without principles, you definitely don't love each other, you just want to have each other.
Because you rely on threats to get the other party back, you obviously don't consider the other party's feelings, do you think you love him, I can't see it, you're just selfish.
But if you do these things on the spur of the moment, and you sincerely repent afterwards, then I also want to tell you that your actions have made it a lot more difficult for you to recoverIt is likely that the other party will really be afraid to contact you again, and you will need a long time to let ittaWilling to reach out to you.
There are many kinds of behaviors that will make the other party disgusted, such as publicizing the identity of the victim everywhere, flattering the other party without a bottom line, etc., I will not list them all here.
You just need to know that when you find that your actions are not advancing for your recoveryThe direction you have to consider is not how ruthless the other party is, but whether you are rationally redeeming and whether you are using a way that the other party can accept.
If a person rejects you, if a person reverses you and looks down on you, you feel that they hurt your self-esteem. In fact, I hope you can deeply realize that it is you who gave the other person the opportunity to hurt you, in other words, it is you who disrespect yourself, although I say a bit cruel, but it may also awaken your inner self-awareness.
In love