A happy marriage is not a simple material exchange or simple interdependence. Rather, it is deeply caring, considerate, and mutually fulfilling, forming a stable, healthy, and energetic relationship. This relationship, in my opinion, contains a strong spiritual motivation that motivates us not to give up easily in the face of difficulties, to keep improving, and to become a better version of ourselves.
Pampering is undoubtedly an important part of a good marriage. When our choice is cherished by the other half, that deep touch brings us endless happiness. These subtle gestures, such as getting up in the morning to prepare breakfast for me on a busy day, and always greeting me with a smile after work, are true manifestations of love. This kind of happiness is largely due to being respected and understood by loved ones, and being taken care of by them. On the other hand, being overly pampered is not a good thing. Over-reliance can lead to a loss of independence. We should continue to pursue personal growth and become a better version of ourselves. At the same time, we must also know how to be grateful and reciprocate, and respond to the love of the other half for us with the same love.
Of course, marriage is more than just love. Any perfect relationship requires tolerance and understanding, and only then can you get practical help and support from the other person. Every careful care given by the other party contains incomparable care for us;Every time you listen patiently to our troubles, you are deeply considerate of us. These ubiquitous warmth are essential elements of a good marriage. In such an environment, we can not only enjoy the happiness of being noticed and cherished, but also overcome obstacles and move forward bravely on the road of growth. Without each other's support, our lives may become incomplete, but as long as we have the courage to work together and the determination to move forward hand in hand, we will not be afraid of any great difficulties.
In short, a happy marriage is built by treating each other affectionately, which allows us to find strength in supporting each other and find direction in each other's growth. We must learn to appreciate each other's strengths and tolerate each other's shortcomings, so that our relationship will be long-lasting and stable. I hope that every elder can enjoy the happiness of being cared for by family members while caring for their families. Even though life is long and tortuous, with the family affection that you and I share, we are no longer lonely. I wish all of you can cherish your family, cherish your lover, and cherish the precious friendship between each other. Thank you!