Someone claimed: "When a woman reaches a certain age, her desire for affection gradually weakens." ”
In fact, there is some truth to this statement, many women have long lost interest in marital life after middle age, because they have been in charge of the family for a long time, busy with work and taking care of children.
In general, older women tend to focus on household chores and develop their own hobbies, rather than having to be stuck with men all the time.
They have become more and more mature after going through the trials of their feelings and lives, knowing what they want and eager to live the way they want to be.
Therefore, they do not get caught up in the relationship, but return to reality and work hard to achieve their vision, which is the biggest difference from young women.
So, after the age of 50, do women still have "physiological" needs?The two women told the truth.
1. Ms. Zhou: No, I want to do something more meaningful Ms. Zhou is 52 years old this year, and she has been married to her husband for more than 20 years.
In her opinion, she missed out on the best of times, put all her mind on home, focused on trivial matters, and did not live a life that really belonged to her.
Therefore, she hopes to have her own hobbies and do more meaningful things in the future.
In order to enrich herself and improve her inner cultivation, she enrolled in several interest classes, learned to write, draw, and often traveled to broaden her horizons.
When talking about marriage, Ms. Zhou made it clear that she has reached this age and does not have much energy to cope with married life.
Moreover, she does not want to be bothered by her husband and concentrates on doing her own thing and living in a happier way.
It can be seen that after the age of 50, women's emotional needs have been diluted, and they no longer have the same expectations as when they were young.
In addition, they have delayed too much time in their long-term marriage, and in order to make their old age happier, they will inevitably actively plan their lives.
At this stage, their focus is not on feelings, but on finding their true selves and hoping to live the way they want.
As a result, they take up their favorite hobbies and do the things they are most interested in to make their later years more meaningful.
They understand that in the life of women, knowing how to live for themselves is the real vision.
Therefore, they will not wronged themselves for the sake of men, and will pursue the most meaningful and happy things with the greatest enthusiasm for the rest of their lives.
2. Ms. Wang: My husband is powerless, so I don't force Ms. Wang is 55 years old this year, and she has been married to her husband for almost 30 years, and her two children are also married and have children.
When talking about marriage, Ms. Wang said that she does not reject intimate contact, but her husband has long been unable to do so due to his age, and she no longer insists on it.
Over the years, her husband has been very busy and doesn't care enough about her, and he doesn't take the initiative to look for her when he gets home, which makes her feel a little disappointed.
Especially after the child was born, she put all her thoughts on the child and rejected her husband many times, which led to her husband getting Xi used to it later and no longer approaching her when he came back.
Ms. Wang said that although she felt depressed, she also understood her husband and did not contradict him, but when she wanted to take the initiative later, her husband was not interested, and his health was not as good as before, so she had to give up.
Therefore, in the marriage, Ms. Wang and her husband have long been separated, although the relationship between the two parties has not been greatly affected, but neither of them has taken the initiative, and the marriage is already in name only.
In fact, in marriage, women still crave the love and care of men.
If there is a lack of care and companionship for a long time, it will inevitably make them feel disappointed, even chilling, and will also make their emotional needs less intense.
Of course, most women will understand and be considerate of their husbands like Ms. Wang, and there will not be too many conflicts between the two parties, although they are no longer physically close, the relationship is still harmonious.
However, there are also some women who fail to do so, and are disappointed when they don't feel loved, and when they see men snubbing them, or even physically rejecting intimate contact.
Moreover, some women will wonder if their husbands have extramarital feelings when they see that their husbands are no longer intimate, leading to a crisis in their marriage.
Therefore, although women after the age of 50 are no longer too demanding on their emotional needs, men should not be indifferent and alienated from them, and timely care and companionship can make them feel happy.
In general, whether women still have emotional needs after the age of 50 depends mainly on their own mentality.
If they feel happy in their marriage and are cared for by men, the relationship between the husband and wife will be harmonious and they will naturally desire to live as a couple.
However, when women ** to men don't care about them and make them feel wronged, over time, they will be cold-hearted, and finally adapt to life without men and spend it alone.
Of course, there are also women who have their own ideas, they do not focus on feelings, but have their own pursuits, and will do more meaningful things.
No matter what kind of mentality women have, they want to live a happier life, which may be the deepest desire of middle-aged women.
Therefore, men must pay more attention to the women around them, and married life, whether it is dull or not, is an effective way to maintain relationships.
In general, if conditions permit, couples can strengthen communication, increase intimacy, and believe that the relationship will be sweeter and the relationship will be stronger.