In a relationship, men expect to find a woman who truly loves them, does not leave easily, and can spend their lives together.
However, in order to earn a woman's unwavering trust, a man needs to have some specific qualifications. Only by making a woman feel stable in her life and not having to worry about all kinds of variables, will she firmly choose to move forward with you.
In fact, women are not too realistic, but expect happiness after giving, and do not want to be disappointed and hurt.
After all, for women, love and marriage carry great importance, and they really can't afford to give it lightly.
As Joe Byron said, "Love is only something external to a man, but to a woman it is the whole life." ”
Therefore, whether a woman will choose you or not is definitely carefully weighed, if you can't give her a sense of security and don't have certain conditions, she won't be hasty with you.
At the end of the day, whether a woman can't live without you or not depends largely on these "hard conditions" you have – do you have them?
1. A better economic foundation is the premise for women to choose youWhen women choose a partner, the economic situation becomes a point that they are more concerned about. Only when you have a good economic foundation can you develop a relationship smoothly.
Love is not just a romantic love story, it is a part of real life. Only if you can provide a woman with a stable life, she can get along with you with peace of mind.
It can be seen that men must actively work hard to plan for the future in advance, so that women can see hope.
When a woman sees your plan and has a certain amount of savings to ensure the smooth running of life, she will definitely be impressed with you. Once she identifies you, she won't leave easily.
My friend Xiao Ning once said in the office that the person she is looking for must have good financial conditions and be willing to pay for her, otherwise she will not want to date.
In her opinion, a man has a plan for work, is enterprising, has a certain amount of savings, and can express his love for her with practical actions, so that she can let go of all her worries and firmly devote herself to love.
Previously, she had two boyfriends who broke up for financial reasons. The main reason is that her boyfriend's condition is not good and she is unwilling to work hard, which makes her feel hopeless.
For example, her first boyfriend, with a monthly salary of less than 5,000, is not aggressive, does nothing when he comes home from work, likes to drink with friends, and almost spends all of his monthly income, which she really can't accept.
For another example, her second boyfriend, although his monthly salary is about 7,000, he is very stingy and reluctant to pay. Every time I go on a date, I always choose the cheapest place, and I don't care about her at all.
Therefore, after Xiao Ning experienced two love breakups, she put forward higher requirements for mate selection, requiring men to have certain economic conditions before they can consider dating.
In fact, women pay attention to the aggressiveness of men in love. They believe that men can only achieve something if they work hard. Only with an economic foundation can they not worry about life, and naturally they will not leave easily.
2. Excellent character and character are the key to impressing womenEvery woman wants to find a man with excellent character and character when looking for a partner, and only with such a man will they not be wronged.
On the contrary, if a man has a poor moral character and a bad character, it will inevitably bring a lot of pain and harm to the woman.
Therefore, if you want a woman to be inseparable from you, a man must improve his inner qualities. When you have excellent character and gentle character, she will definitely favor you more.
In fact, in real life, many women leave men, usually because they see through the differences in men's qualities when they get along, and they live very painfully and finally can't bear it.
It can be seen that men with good moral character and character are more likely to touch women's hearts. They are gentle and considerate in getting along, can care for and accommodate women, and bring women a great sense of security.
On the contrary, some men never compromise when dealing with women, and no matter what happens, they have to argue with women about the merits of the matter, even at the expense of hurting women, which can make women feel extremely indifferent.
Moreover, men are of poor moral character and are prone to excesses. It is also difficult to achieve in work or career, unable to provide a woman with the life she expects, and she will not be at ease with you.
In addition, a man has a bad personality, is too aggressive, and is impatient with women, which damages a woman's self-esteem, which can make her feel completely disappointed.
Therefore, to truly capture a woman's heart, a man must have excellent character and character, and only if you care about her, respect her, always think of her, and accommodate her in all aspects, she will choose not to leave.
In a relationship, once a woman decides that you are a man worthy of trust, she will be willing to spend the future with you.
3. Being responsible and responsible can bring the future to women Women choose to follow you firmly, and it depends on whether you are a responsible and responsible man. Whether you can take on the heavy responsibility and become her strongest backing, she will truly invest in you.
Therefore, you need to have a certain ability to know how to take care of her so that she does not have to worry too much.
If you behave negatively in the face of difficulties, have no sense of responsibility and responsibility, and are not able to overcome difficulties, she will definitely be disappointed in you.
Once she feels that you can't give her enough protection and follows you insecurely, she will deny the relationship and eventually choose to leave.
Therefore, it is important for men to take responsibility and maintain a strong sense of responsibility. Even in the face of difficulties, you must be brave and move forward, so that women can feel at ease with you.
In addition, when a woman sees your responsibility, she will see hope for the future. Once the doubts in her heart are dispelled, she will firmly choose to follow you.
In the days to come, only if you can provide a stable life for a woman and take the initiative to take responsibility for the future, she will go with you to the end of her life.
To sum up, whether a woman can't do without you or not depends largely on these "hard conditions" you have:
Better economic conditions are the premise for a woman to choose you;Excellent moral character and character can touch a woman's heart;With a sense of responsibility and responsibility, women can only have a future if they follow you.
Therefore, men need to constantly improve their overall quality in ordinary times, have a clear plan for the future, and become a truly outstanding person in order to attract women's attention and win beautiful love.
Of course, it also reminds women that while they have certain criteria for choosing a mate, they should also constantly improve themselves and become equally excellent women. Only when both parties work together and the conditions are matched can they create a beautiful love and marriage.
May both men and women in reality find a true compatible partner and share a happy future.