Mr. Yang Jiang, a wise man who has gone through vicissitudes, her every word embodies the wisdom of life.
Below, let's listen to Yang Jiang's most profound 9 sentences, feel the summary of her life's thinking, read these, maybe you can live more clearly.
1. The biggest sorrow of a woman is that she has never understood a simple truth in her life: this world is you alone all her life. Sooner or later, the child will grow up, the prosperity will fall, the love will disappear, life will be dull, the husband just lives under the same roof and is a collaborator who raises the child together, it turns out that you are still living alone. Many women devote all their energy and time to their families and children after marriage, and gradually, they neglect themselves. In fact, this is the greatest sorrow of women.
The greatest sorrow of a woman is that she has never understood that the world is always just her own stage. The child will grow up, love will disappear, and life will be dull. Only we are the whole of our own lives. At any time, you must learn to love yourself and live your own life, so that you can bloom on the stage of life.
2. There is no simple happiness in the world, happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries, and there is no eternity in the world.
There is no such thing as simple happiness in the world, and happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries. The road of life is full of thorns, we must learn to find happiness in pain, cherish the moment, and embrace every beautiful moment. At the same time, we must also learn to bravely face the impermanence of life and continue to grow and progress.
3. Judging whether a man can live with you for a lifetime is not based on how many gifts he usually gives you, nor how many love words he usually says, but what kind of attitude he has when you are angry. If he starts to run away when he gets angry, and only reason with you or even lose his temper, then he must not be your lover. He can only enjoy the sweetness of love in you, but he can't accept the bitterness of life.
Whether a man is worth entrusting for life cannot be just superficial. Gifts and love words, while sweet, don't necessarily stand the test of time. And when you're angry, his attitude is the most genuine. A really good man will not only give you sweetness in love, but also face difficulties and challenges with you in life. Therefore, when choosing a partner, we should observe and feel with our hearts, and not be fooled by the superficial beauty. Only by finding the person who can really be with you through thick and thin can you have a truly happy life.
4. The best dowry gift a man can give a woman is: a lifetime of accommodation and pampering. The best dowry a woman can give a man is: I understand and worship. True love is not to change each other, but to revise and improve each other's thinking concepts, grow together, become better together, and make yourself better than before.
Mutual accommodation and pampering in marriage is the best interpretation of love. The revision and improvement of each other's thinking concepts is the cornerstone of growing together and becoming better. In marriage, we need to learn to understand and support each other, face the challenges of life together, and grow and progress together. Only in this way can we become a better version of ourselves in love.
5. No matter what age a woman is, she must remember that those who speak slowly are expensive, those who are soft are rich, and those who are virtuous are prosperous. Allow yourself to be yourself, allow others to be others, live in the moment when you are in the moment, don't cultivate yourself in the hearts of others, don't force others in your own hearts. One day you will understand that what can be ** you is never time, but the relief and pattern in your heart. You love yourself better than many people love you. Don't look for security in others, only you can give you security.
No matter what age we are, we have to learn to love ourselves. Learning to let go and magnify the pattern is a sign of our inner maturity. Don't put your security in others, but learn to give yourself a sense of security. Only we can make our lives better.
6. If others say two words about you, you can't stand it, and you can't eat or sleep well if you are disturbed by two sentences, then think about it, how fragile you are, why bother?You don't have to accommodate everyone, in the world of crows, swans are all guilty, there is no need to argue about the same cognition, why argue if the cognition is different, the thoughts are not at the same level, there is no need to conquer each other, the three views are not at the same level, just smile, just respect. When someone says something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you can tell yourself, "I know who I am, and I know what I'm after." ”
In the face of other people's evaluations, we must learn to maintain inner peace. You don't have to care too much about what others say, because there is no need to argue about different cognitions, and it's good to smile if your thoughts are not at the same level. We must learn to stick to our beliefs and values, walk our own path bravely, and not be swayed by the words of others.
7. Flowers have a flowering period, people have luck, and they must work hard, but don't worry, flowers are blooming and fruitful. The years are long, the mountains and rivers are far and wide, I wish to cherish love and sincerity, be affectionate to fireworks, be obsessed with the distance, write down the world, and the paper is short and long. For spring flowers, autumn moons, summer rains, winter snow, friendship, and all the good things in the world, I still can't really feel it. For me, that's a great thing.
As the years go by, we must learn to cherish the beauty in front of us. Every bit of life is worth our sincere feelings. Whether it is to treat spring flowers, autumn moons, summer rains, winter snow, or all the good things in the world, we must feel and cherish them with our hearts. At the same time, we must also learn to continue to grow and progress in the baptism of time.
8. When you have a belly in your heart and want to find someone to talk to, you will suddenly find that some people don't want to find it, some people can't find it, and some people want to find it but can't bother. The adult world is the rest of the life after the catastrophe, and only if you can survive the life that no one cares about, can you be worthy of poetry and distance.
When our hearts are full of stories and we are eager to talk about them, we find that the world is so big that no one can talk about it. In the world, everyone has their own pain and joy, and their own suffering. Those silent days are the time for us to have a dialogue with ourselves. Only by surviving loneliness and loneliness can we welcome the beauty of poetry and distance. Let us learn to precipitate our own emotions in the long river of years, interpret our lives with true feelings, and let our souls be truly released and grow.
If one day, we are estranged, please don't say, I have changed, it is because you have also faded. In this world, all relationships are mutual. This is true for husbands and wives, for families, and for friends. Any relationship needs to be maintained together, smile together, treat each other sincerely, there is no departure for no reason, there is no love for no reason, everything is about whether you cherish the person in front of you.
If one day, we drift away from our friends, family or even husband and wife, don't easily say that the other person has changed, maybe the relationship between us is gradually fading. The relationship is mutual, whether it is a husband and wife, family or friends, it needs to be maintained by both parties. There is no leaving for no reason, and there is no love for no reason, everything depends on whether both parties know how to cherish it. So, if you love, love deeply;If you don't love it, please let yourself go and let go of it.
These words of Mr. Yang Jiang are like a bright light, illuminating the road of our life. She told us to learn to cherish ourselves, cherish the people in front of us, and cherish every beautiful moment. At the same time, we must also learn to bravely face the challenges and difficulties of life, and continue to grow and improve. Only in this way can we truly live a clear life and live our own life worth.
In the days to come, let us use Mr. Yang Jiang's wisdom to guide our lives and strive to become a better version of ourselves.
It is recommended to read "The Biography of Yang Jiang", listen to the story of Mr. Yang Jiang, and learn the wisdom of a hundred years of life.