Why do some people think that letting Sister Rong marry Mama Chang's grandson is an insult to Minglan ?It doesn't have to be married to reflect her value, and there is no need to marry to show the benevolence of the heroine.
Sheng Hong's two favorite daughters, Hua Lan and Mo Lan, have very different marriage arrangements. Hua Lan married into the Earl's Court because Sheng Hong was about to be promoted and needed his daughter to pave the way for him in the capital.
And the fiancé I found for Mo Lan is just a promising scholar from a poor family. Why didn't Sheng Hong advocate Mo Lan marrying?Because he knows that as a concubine, he may not be happy when he marries, and he doesn't urgently need his daughter to help him in his career.
Low marriage has more say and can better protect Mo Lan. He never thought that his daughter, who was well-married, would be happy.
Besides, when Mrs. Sheng talked to Minglan in her hometown, she persuaded Minglan not to marry into the Qi family through Shulan's affairs, because the door is lower, and the problem will be easier to solve in the future.
Mrs. Sheng herself once married low, but she chose to persevere. What she values is to keep her own life, teach the children in the family well, and become the ancestor of the family. She has never agreed with the notion that her daughter will be happy if she marries high.
Minglan didn't look for Sister Rong'er for the same reason.
Some people may think that Minglan can record Sister Rong as her daughter-in-law, but Sister Rong is an outer room girl, and her name is just a form of deceiving future generations. Moreover, if Sister Rong marries highly, it is likely that she can only choose something that others don't want, it is better to marry someone she likes, especially if she is a good match for competitiveness and prosperity all year round.
The criticism of the master's marriage to the subordinate is really too strict with the ancient concept of hierarchy. Although Mama Chang used to be a slave, after she became a good citizen, she was not incompatible with Sister Rong.
Even if Wei Qing was Princess Pingyang's manu, Princess Pingyang married Wei Qing in the end, but she was not humiliated.
This controversy reminds people of a sentence that they are satisfied, and the other party is also satisfied, but they are dissatisfied by the Internet.