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We say that pursuing girls is a deep science that requires skill and strategy, and one of the most important skills is "mind reading".
The so-called,Mind reading is not true telepathy, but rather understanding the inner world of a girl through your observation and understanding of her actions, words, and emotions.
I will simply help you analyze from a few aspects, how to use this "mind reading" to pursue the girl you like.
A girl's words and deeds are the most direct way to reflect her inner thoughts.
You can observe her daily behavior, for example, she likes to go shopping, play, sing K, and watch movies with her friends, which shows that this girl has a relatively large spiritual need.
Maybe you need to spend more time with her for playing with this, or she's a clingy person.
If she is usually busy with her career and work, and always has no time, it means that she is a career-minded person, then after you are together, she may focus more on her career.
When girls are in love, they usually like to share their thoughts and fun things, including their feelings.
You can get to know what she really thinks in her heart by listening to what she says.
For example, if she tells you that she is not feeling well and does not want to go to work, you should not think that she is really uncomfortable. Many boys don't understand and ask others to drink more hot water.
In fact, her subtext is telling you that she hopes you can care about her, accompany her in the past, and give her warmth.
Therefore, we need to listen carefully to what she says about the meaning behind Hua, so as to understand her thoughts.
Girls' emotions are usually not expressed directly like boys, and girls are more pretentious.
Therefore, when you usually get along, you should observe the changes in the girl's mood to comfort her in time.
Let's say you're out playing and something provokes her, and then she gets angry and lets you go.
At this time, don't really just leave the girl there alone.
Her subtext may be that she wants you to apologize to her, or she wants you to comfort her, anyway, don't leave directly.
Girls, a lot of speech is duplicitous, you have to look at her expression, emotions to judge her inner thoughts.
Of course, in addition to understanding the psychology of girls, if you want to maintain a relationship for a long time, it is more important to meet their emotional needs.
So, what are the emotional needs of girls?What should I do to make the right move?
What a girl needs is your company, comfortable and happy with you, she feels that you are reliable and reassuring, this is a sense of security.
Of course, this material, it is only one aspect, more of a spiritual security.
You can make her feel loved and respected by providing a stable environment, a good job, and giving her enough care and companionship.
In fact, men and women are the same, and they all need to be understood. Everything must be discussed, and think more from the other party's point of view, which can reduce a lot of contradictions.
Sometimes, listen to her thoughts more and try to understand her position and point of view so that she can feel understood and accepted.
In a relationship, girls need their own value to be recognized. We can do this by complimenting her on her abilities so that she will be happy in her heart.
At the same time, support her dreams and goals more so that she feels capable.
In this way, your relationship will also be more dependent on you because of your recognition of her self-worth.
It's important for a girl to have a sense of trust, for example, if she's had dinner with a colleague of the opposite sex.
You have to trust her first, you don't have any other ideas, it's just a matter of work, just understand it clearly.
In life, there are some things that are good to ask clearly, don't be too careful, otherwise it will be difficult for the girl to continue to walk with you, because she will feel very tired.
Finally, I would like to say that whether it is in love or getting along, it needs to be constantly explored and learned.
Everyone is a unique individual with their own thoughts, feelings, and needs.
But as long as you can understand correctly and adjust in time, and use mind reading skills to discover the inner thoughts of girls, you can better make her interested in you.
In fact, it is through observation, understanding and respect to understand her inner world, so as to better pursue her.
Author: Zhang Zaihuan.
Pseudonym: Zichen.
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