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Human emotions are complex, inexplicable, and inexplicable.
The most helpless thing is that we didn't hurt each other, but the other party regarded us as enemies and opposed us everywhere with hostile emotions.
However, we feel speechless about such people, as if we cannot resolve the other person's grievances even after trying our best, and we will even suffer from their blows and injuries.
When we feel helpless, full of grievances, and only think about how to get revenge on such people.
In fact, the best revenge is not to treat him in the same way, nor to hurt him at all costs, but to keep the same pace and live their lives well in the face of his approach, so that they feel that their actions have no effect on us.
01: Living a good life is the cultivation of endurance
Life is like a marathon, everyone is running hard.
Some people work their own, and some people stumble on others.
During this long period of time, we need to learn to develop our endurance to cope with life's challenges and unwarranted disasters.
Living a good life is a kind of inner tenacity and strength, which allows us to be indomitable and move forward bravely in the wind and rain.
In this age of speed, we are often plagued by all kinds of pressures and worries, and we are so exhausted that we almost give up.
However, to live well and train endurance is to let ourselves persevere in this marathon of life, no matter how many demons and monsters lie ahead.
To cultivate inner endurance is to adjust one's mentality.
When encountering criticism from others, we can always remain calm and rational, and do not let other people's words have a significant impact on us.
02: Living a good life is the perfection of ability
To live a good life, you must not only have inner tenacity and endurance, but also have the ability to improve and improve.
In today's ever-changing society, we need to keep learning and learning Xi in order to keep up with the pace of the times.
The perfection of ability is not only to learn new knowledge and skills, but also to have Xi the ability to discern and examine.
Continuous learning Xi and practice is the key to enhance core competitivenessScreening and questioning are the skills of active thinking;Self-improvement is to constantly tap potential.
In this process, we will resolve all the hardships and setbacks into grinds and tests, from fear of change to expectation of innovation, from rejection of lessons to accumulation of experience, and constantly reflect and improve ourselves.
When we always surpass ourselves, it is the best revenge for those who have complaints.
Their blows, indifference, and hostility will turn into jokes at this time, slapping them in the face, exposing their little belly and bad intentions to others, and becoming the laughing stock of others.
Moreover, when we become a better version of ourselves, their objections are not to be feared, because we and they are already two classes of people, and we don't have to care about the opinions and behaviors of these people.
03: Living a good life is the embodiment of strength
Living a good life is not only the inner tenacity and the perfection of ability, but also the embodiment of strength and value.
In this era full of opportunities and challenges, we need to add value to our lives through the improvement of comprehensive strength.
When we continue to dig deep in our own field and perform well, the blow of the other party will turn into fear, and we dare not make mistakes in front of us.
Only by becoming a strong person can we block the mouths of the people and make them incomparable to us, which is the most hearty means of revenge.
In addition to performing well in the career, if we can also take into account the quality of life and family relationships, and assume certain responsibilities to the society, and make corresponding contributions, it will be more admirable and admirable, so that those who have hurt us will regret it.
Living a good life is a manifestation of inner tenacity, ability perfection and strength.
In this time of fleeting opportunities, we can't stop running in order to be angry with others, that will only keep us from retreating.
When we are treated unfairly, we will definitely feel resentful and dissatisfied, but how to deal with these emotions divides people into three, six, nine and so on.
Not only to take revenge on those who bullied us, but more importantly, to fulfill their dreams, is to live up to this life.
Therefore, do not argue with others, those pale words will not help us in any way, but will only hold us back.
Going your own way according to your own wishes and not staying for anyone is the most ruthless revenge for them.
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