Writer Sanmao commented on his lover Jose:
"Jose has a great advantage, that is, anything Sanmao does, in the eyes of others, may be crazy behavior, but in his eyes, everything is taken for granted. ”When a man really cares about a woman, he will think that all her actions are so cute.
In order for her to be comfortable being herself, men often have the following 3 performances.
A man who really cares about you will not always be self-centered, but will fully consider your wishes.
He is willing to put you and your relationship in an important position when there is a conflict of opinion, and put his own feelings behind.
In a relationship, if you always have to fight for the highs and lows, then you will eventually win the debate, lose the relationship, and even lose important people.
A man who knows how to love will put down his face, choose to accept different opinions, and maintain a relationship of seeking common ground while reserving differences.
I saw a sentence in the book that was:
"Love, this is not one heart beating another heart, but the spark of two hearts hitting together. ”A truly good love is that you are good to me, and I will be better to you. If only one person pays stupidly, and the other person will only enjoy it with peace of mind, then this kind of love is destined to be difficult to go away because of psychological imbalance.
When a man really cares about a woman, he will pay more attention to your feelings and think from your point of view.
He will understand your concerns and will do his best to provide support.
He will listen to your grievances and communicate with you patiently.
A man who knows how to empathize, he will work for a common goal, not just pursue his own interests.
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will want you to be better and better version of yourself.
He will help you overcome difficulties, develop your self-confidence, and pave the way for you to succeed.
In "Xiaoman Life", Tian Dong learns that he is ill and that his days may be running out, so he makes a difficult decision.
He hopes that his wife and son, who have always been under his protection, can grow up quickly, and not always stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food.
For this reason, he did not hesitate to lie that he was bankrupt, and then let his wife and son be in the mountains, with more contact with real life, hoping that they could be self-sufficient.
In this way, in the future, without him, the mother and son can also support their lives on their own, rather than having no ability to live.
After his wife Tian Tian accepted Tian Dong's "bankruptcy", she began to think about how to survive independently with her son.
She used her interest in baking to open a dessert shop, which not only sells finished baked goods, but also teaches interested mothers how to Xi baking.
Although this incident ended with Tian Dong gaining the vitality of healing, Tian Tian has this experience, and she will no longer be a person who knows nothing about the hardships of life.
A man wants you to be better, he will not think about keeping you by his side all the time, but will let you grow, and he will be behind you, silently supporting you and genuinely helping you.
In the movie "Wu Wen Xidong", when Wang Minjia was discouraged, Chen Peng, who grew up together, said to her:
"I'm willing to be the one who stands up for you. ”What touches people's hearts in love is often the heart of a child. If a man really cares about you in his heart, he will offer you his sincerity and leave no way back for himself.
Of course, true love can only be called love if it matches someone worthy.
Emotion