Hunan Satellite TV's reality show "Love's Study Trip" sparked heated discussions on the Internet, among which Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei were the most topical.
Zhu Dan said that her original intention to participate in the show was to break the misunderstanding and rumors that the couple was unhappy.
In the pilot film of "Love's Study Trip", Zhu Dan's performance caused heated discussions among netizens. She once publicly praised Zhou Yiwei's "step theory", saying that when the two quarreled, Zhou Yiwei would take the initiative to give her the steps, but if she didn't accept it in time, she would lose the steps.
Originally, the audience was looking forward to seeing how this unfriendly couple got into trouble, but they didn't expect them to get sweeter and sweeter. What's going on here? Is Zhu Dan no longer humble?
Or have we never really understood her? First of all, we need to understand that Zhu Dan shows a very strong little femininity in the show, she always seems very humble and even a little helpless.
Even though she would be given steps on Monday, she always seemed unable to accept it in time, which made her seem a little passive. However, this does not mean that she is no longer humble, but that she is trying to change herself and become more independent and confident.
Therefore, we should not only see Zhu Dan's surface, but also deeply understand her inner world.
She asked one after another, "Who is she?" Zhou Zhou Wei was indifferent and urged the program team to move on to the next link. The sitting posture of the two is also very peculiar, Zhu Dan is facing the camera head-on, while Zhou Zhouwei is facing her back to her and maintaining a 45-degree position.
In stark contrast to the intimacy of the other guests, the distance between them frees up enough space for another person. When Zhu Dan tried to get close to Zhou Yiwei, Zhou Yiwei looked a little impatient, and even warned her not to rub his white shirt.
During the location shooting, Zhou Yiwei refused to take pictures of Zhu Dan, and he reluctantly agreed until Zhu Dan kept begging. When Zhu Dan's shoelaces were scattered, Zhou Yiwei said in an arrogant tone: "I can help you tie them, but don't be so deliberate, okay?"
His attitude was obviously forced, and he didn't seem to want to cooperate with Zhu Dan, let alone perform with her. As a pillow person, he not only did not cooperate, but also directly poked Zhu Dan's sore spot.
When Zhu Dan was worried that he would make a slip of the tongue, Zhou Zhouwei said lightly: "They will forgive you." The live broadcast mistake 4 years ago brought Zhu Dan's career to an abrupt end, and it is still a pain in her heart.
Hearing Zhou Zhouwei's understated "comfort", Zhu Dan instantly burst into tears.
Zhou Zhouwei looked a little tired in the show, looking weathered, obviously this marriage is full of exhaustion and consumption, and Zhu Dan is wishful thinking trying to portray it as good.
With the broadcast of the show, the couple inevitably received a lot of negative comments, and some viewers even bluntly said: "You should go to "Goodbye, Love". ”
Although the criticism from netizens poured in like a tide, Zhu Dan insisted on cheering for Zhou Yiwei, firmly believing that he was cold on the outside and delicate on the inside. She made no secret of her admiration for Zhou Yiwei, and successfully created the image of a "fanatical fan" in the show.
Zhou Zhouwei simply opened the lid of the can with a knife, and she immediately showed adoring eyes and praised repeatedly: "It's so cool!" "Great! "My husband is so handsome!
Zhu Dan showed a humble attitude in her marriage, just like in the show "The Man Who Does Housework", she praised Zhou Yiwei's excellent performance in cooking for the first time. She was touched by Monday's patient inquiries and loving ravioli during her pregnancy.
Although Li Dan questioned this, saying that she showed a humble gesture, Zhu Dan thought that during his wife's pregnancy, a husband who could cook was very rare.
Li Dan was surprised by this and said that Zhu Dan, as a well-known host, should not be so humble. However, Zhu Dan looked at Li Dan innocently and asked him if he planned to destroy her happiness.
Li Dan mercilessly pointed out that Zhu Dan's happiness was built on ignorance. After the show aired, Zhu Dan received a new nickname "Humility Dan".
Zhu Dan, the former "first sister" of Zhejiang Satellite TV, has an annual income of 15.5 million, ranking fourth among the hosts. However, in her relationship, she became the one who loved humbly.
People even suspect that she was "PUA" without knowing it. Why is she so passive in love? Perhaps, her fate has long been written. Zhu Dan was fostered in her grandmother's house after she was born, and without her father's protection, she often felt helpless and lonely.
After her father died, she and her mother lived a very difficult life. However, Zhu Dan did not give up, she was determined to be self-reliant and self-reliant, so that her family could live a good life.
After graduating from Zhejiang University of Media and Communication with a major in broadcasting and hosting, she lived in poverty, with only 250 yuan per month for living expenses, and ran around to earn tuition. When she is Xi, she is full of passion and rushes to do the work that others are unwilling to do.
This fighting spirit was noticed by a TV teacher who recommended her as a Xi student to broadcast a one-year weather forecast on Zhejiang Satellite TV. After officially joining the company, because her appearance was not serious enough, she was transferred to the entertainment channel after broadcasting the news for a period of time.
However, in the several shows she hosted, she could only sit on the cold bench. In 2007, the fate of 26-year-old Zhu Dan began to change. Zhejiang Satellite TV launched a singing program "I Love to Remember Lyrics", and Zhu Dan, who has a soft spot for singing, became one of the hosts.
Originally, there were only 7 episodes of the program, and the market response was not optimistic. However, the program caused a sensation as soon as it was broadcast, and after the weekly broadcast, it took Zhejiang Satellite TV out of the encirclement, keeping pace with Hunan Satellite TV, which has many entertainment programs.
Under the promotion of Zhejiang Satellite TV, a series of singing programs were born, breaking the waves like a fleet. Zhu Dan, as one of the helmsmen, has also changed from an obscure little transparent to the focus on the stage, becoming the undisputed "first sister".
From a penniless rural girl to becoming the high-profile "National Best Host Newcomer", Zhu Dan felt both excited and uneasy. She worries that as the times change, she will be forgotten by the audience.
Therefore, she opened up another path, releasing records and starring in film and television dramas. However, she excelled on stage and on screen, but her life gradually became difficult.
Standing in high heels for a long time seriously injured her knees. The high intensity of work stress made her anxious and more emotional. Once, after a week of live broadcasts, she dragged her tired body and barely finished hosting the New Year's Eve party.
At the celebration banquet that followed, she could no longer feel the joy of victory, but cried all night.
She found that she could no longer say words with depth, and even what she had just said, turned around and became blank. She is proud of her line skills, but when filming the location of "China Dream Show", she actually forgot the words.
Faced with her no longer good state, she began to have low self-esteem, began to question her professionalism, and was afraid to go on stage. In the end, in the eyes of people's regret, Zhu Dan gave up the "golden microphone" and left Zhejiang Satellite TV.
At that time, everyone only saw that she was the queen who controlled the whole scene, but they didn't know that what she was hiding in her heart was a lonely little girl with no sense of security. Physically and mentally exhausted, after experiencing a failed marriage, she just longs to be able to unload the burden of the big heroine and live the life of a little woman who is loved.
Finally, after a long wait, Zhu Dan waited for the person who could see her soft side. 03 The pressure cooker couple was tightly knit In 2013, Zhu Dan had a 1-minute fight scene in "Embroidered Spring Knife", and she practiced for a week, but she could only last more than 40 seconds.
That day, she continued to practice for another hour, refusing to rest again and again, and had to carry it hard. In the end, the martial arts instructor insisted on interrupting the practice Xi. At this time, Zhu Dan dropped three words "wait a while" and hid in the corner and cried bitterly.
When Zhou Zhou was practicing swordsmanship, he witnessed Zhu Dan's weakness and couldn't help but feel protective of her. So, he took the initiative to invite Zhu Dan to watch a movie together. In the middle of the movie, Zhu Dan was sleepy, and Zhou Zhou put her head on her shoulder domineeringly, making her feel at ease.
At this moment, she found the big man she could rely on. Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei became acquainted with "Embroidered Spring Knife", and then cooperated with "Gold Medal Lawyer", and their relationship quickly warmed up.
After four years of long-distance love, they entered the palace of marriage. In another four years, they realized their dream of having a family of four.
In their marriage, Zhu Dan always shared the bits and pieces of life alone, and Zhou Yiwei rarely responded to her joys, sorrows, and sorrows, which seemed to have become a kind of one-man show in their marriage.
Recently, even though the news of Zhang Ziyi's divorce has attracted widespread attention, Zhu Dan has still become the focus of **.
Originally, because of Zhang Ziyi's appreciation of Zhou Yiwei in the show, netizens thought that they had similar aura and were attracted to each other. So a large number of netizens ran to Zhu Dan's account to ridicule her, telling her to be optimistic about Zhou Yiwei and not to be abducted.
But as "Love's Study Trip" unfolds, people begin to realize that the relationship between Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan does not seem to be as bad as imagined. Outside the venue, Zhou Yiwei became Zhu Dan's personal assistant, holding a large bag and a small bag, while Zhu Dan walked leisurely.
In the venue, Zhou Yiwei became a loyal fan of Zhu Dan, and whenever Zhu Dan spoke passionately, although he sat quietly, he revealed his inner joy from the deep crow's feet at the corners of his eyes.
Netizens found that Zhou Yiwei's love for Zhu Dan is reflected in every detail of his life. He watched Zhu Dan resume his role as the host on the stage of the "Hundred Family Banquet", and his eyes were full of admiration.
When he looked at Zhu Dan** he photographed, he would smile with satisfaction. He felt that Zhu Dan was in a bad mood because he was assigned to the worst room, so he immediately took action, tidied up the room, arranged the dresser for her, and took the trouble to follow her command to cook together, and finally said: "The person who cooks is the hardest, and I am not hard."
As more evidence of love was **, netizens sighed: "It turns out that you have always been like this." At the beginning, he did not use public resources to speak out for Zhu Dan, who overturned the live broadcast, but in fact, he had comforted Zhu Dan through text messages for the first time.
He is not good at expressing love, but he uses his actions to pass a special love letter to Zhu Dan. It was when Zhu Dan visited him, and the words he wrote on the message were carefully framed by him.
When Zhu Dan saw his message again, his heart was filled with a sense of security. In a recent program, Zhu Dan shared that the director and producer of "Gold Medal Lawyer" looked for her and Zhou Yiwei ten years ago, and only found out that they were lovers after joining the group.
She recalled that time, and felt that her fate with Zhou Yiwei was really wonderful. However, Monday gathered around and laughed at the "demolition", and asked her directly: "Do you really think so?"
Looking at Zhou Yiwei's evil smile, Zhu Dan realized that there was a coincidence, it turned out that Zhou Yiwei's "careful opportunity" contributed to their meeting.
This love is never a one-sided effort, but a mutual rush. Zhou Zhouwei's heart is stable, and he can always grasp Zhu Dan's emotions. And Zhu Dan's enthusiasm can also make Zhou Yiwei feel the fireworks in the world.
Although they are different, they are very well matched because they complement each other. They are just like what netizens said, they are a tight "pressure cooker couple", and they are a perfect match!
In 2017, Zhu Dan was strict with herself, so that she was often in a state of anxiety and collapse, she wanted to say to her past self: "I miss you at that time, but I also want to thank you for your stubbornness and refusal to admit defeat, because these qualities make you who you are today."
After finding the person who can tolerate her bad moods, she finally begins to enjoy her ordinary life and feels satisfied. Life is like you watching the scenery from the bridge, but the people watching the scenery are watching you from upstairs.
We are always intoxicated by the scenery in our own eyes, not in the eyes of others. Although to outsiders, Zhu Dan still seems small in this admiring love, but for her, the happiness she experiences is the most important thing, isn't it?