She is the first woman in the Hong Kong entertainment industry to take back the trophies of "Queen" and "Actress" together.
She is the person called "wife" by Fa Ge, and she is also the smartest woman in Hong Kong in Fa Ge's mind, she once said that "if you are not Fa Ge, you will not marry".
However, this joking arrangement of fate doomed Zheng Yuling to a lifelong love.
She has only been in love twice in her life, lasting 10 and 16 years, each one surprisingly long.
She is so affectionate, but holds an idea that many men can't accept: a platonic relationship.
Her emotional tragedy was largely of her own making, from a secular point of view. But what makes her rather lose her love than stick to this "truth" in her heart?
Cheng Yuling was born in 1957 in Hong Kong at the time. She has a small wall clock in her home, which chimes the time every hour.
Xiao Zheng Yuling was very excited when she heard the news, so her parents simply changed her nickname to "Dudu".
However, before she could immerse herself in a happy family life, everything was shattered with the breakdown of her parents' marriage.
After his mother's divorce, his father soon began a new love life. She didn't want to stay in this home that was no longer entirely hers, so she was determined to become stronger from an early age and leave this "cage full of complex emotional entanglements" early.
Therefore, it can be inferred that the disintegration of marriage has caused a huge psychological shadow on the children.
The breakdown of her parents' marriage may have prompted Zheng Yuling to become independent early, which is a good thingHowever, on the downside, she may not be able to overcome the estrangement of love for the rest of her life, and eventually die alone.
In order to gain the opportunity and ability to live independently as soon as possible, Cheng Yuling did not continue her studies after graduating from secondary school, but chose to apply for the artist training course.
Her innermost desire to leave her family motivates her and pushes her to work desperately.
She successfully entered "Jia TV" and served as the host of a comprehensive program, which was after graduating from the artist training class in 1975.
When she was a young girl, although she was in a TV station full of beautiful women, she was not eye-catching.
In 1978, director Tsui Hark invited her to participate in "Golden Knife Love", and her acting skills have been recognized since then.
Zheng Yuling officially started her career and signed a contract with TVB, which marked the beginning of the decline of "Jiashi".
Her acting skills are top-notch among today's actresses, and it's no exaggeration to say that.
Maybe it's an exaggeration to use the word "the most popular", but in the Hong Kong film industry, she is definitely the top five actresses.
Wang Mingquan and Zheng Shaoqiu worked together in the TV series "Rainbow", which was released in 1979, when Wang Mingquan played the heroine, and she was known as "the hottest actress in the 70s".
It was in this collaboration that she learned a lot from Wang Mingquan. As a senior, Wang Mingquan took good care of her and often helped her run in the script.
She and Fa Ge collaborated for the first time in the same year, starring in the movie "People in the Net", so the two were hailed as "the best screen couple".
Although the characters played by the two in the play did not finally come together, the audience angrily wrote to the director and screenwriter, saying that they would see the two together no matter what.
As a last resort, the director was forced to revise the ending, so that the characters of the two actors in the play finally came together, and added a 45-second kiss scene to the finale.
Later, the two collaborated on a lot of works one after another, and Fa Ge also publicly said: She is the smartest woman I have ever seen, but she is not suitable for being together.
The audience is always difficult to let go, but both have found their own love.
The combination of Zheng Yuling and screenwriter Gan Guoliang is unexpected, and Gan Guoliang enjoys the reputation of "talent" in Hong Kong, which can be regarded as complementing each other.
In the 10 years that she has been with Gan Guoying, Zheng Yuling has flourished both professionally and emotionally.
During this time, she created many representative works such as "Family Affection" and "Fire Phoenix", so she is considered a well-deserved Hua Dan of TVB.
Just when her career was at its peak, Gan Guoliang chose to break up with her.
In the interview, it was revealed that the two have maintained a pure "platonic" relationship in the 10 years they have been in love.
Cheng Yuling said she was not in favour of having premarital sex.
After listening to these words, everyone expressed sympathy for Gan Guoliang.
However, I personally think that if Gan Guoliang had proposed and married Zheng Yuling at that time, he might not have fallen into such a predicament. Therefore, it is really difficult to determine who is right and who is wrong.
But what is certain is that this feeling occupies an irreplaceable place in their hearts.
In 2017, he recalled his relationship more than 20 years ago, and still said solemnly: "I have been persistent in my love for Miss Zheng for 42 consecutive weeks. ”
He called that relationship the most beautiful in the world, and that it will live forever no matter how time passes.
Zheng Yuling responded that the two are actually extremely close beings on the soul level, and because of this, they can't bring different happiness to each other.
Soon after she broke up with Gan Guoliang in 1991, she met the second and possibly last man in her life: Lu Fang.
Zheng Yuling is 7 years older than Lu Fang, and their relationship has not been blessed much, but has received a lot of ridicule because of the age difference, such as "the love of long legs and short legs", "forcibly maintained relationship", "one likes freshness, the other pursues money".
Although their ears are filled with the sound of doubts from the outside world, they seem to have no scruples, and as long as they have love, they can become a paradise of their own, blocking out all unpleasant noises.
Lu Fang likes children very much, but Zheng Yuling never thought of having children of her own.
For 16 years, Lu Fang has been accompanying Zheng Yuling. During this time, Lu Fang proposed to Zheng Yuling, but she never responded. Because she was deeply affected by the shadow of her parents' divorce as a child, she had doubts about marriage and was unwilling and afraid to take this step.
When I mention this, I also feel quite strange. When she insists on "no sex before marriage" and "no marriage", don't you feel that there is a contradiction in this?
Despite this, Lu Fang accepted it. He is deeply in love with Zheng Yuling, so he decides to accept everything from her, including those requests that are difficult for ordinary people to understand.
In the past 16 years, under the nourishment of love, Zheng Yuling's career has once again reached new heights, and she has achieved great success in many fields such as hosting, film and television dramas.
She hosted "Starry Night Love" in 1992 and exposed many revelations about big stars such as Jackie Chan and Anita Mui.
In the turn of the millennium, the launch of the TVB sitcom "Male and Female Love" made her the first artist in Hong Kong to join the ranks of "double actresses".
The heroine Zheng Yuling was in the limelight that day, while the male protagonist Huang Zihua had a bad time. When he saw Zheng Yuling winning the "Queen" award and not winning the "Emperor of Vision", his heart was like a knife and tears were pouring out.
This cooperation led to the two being involved in scandals, with some claiming that Huang Zihua had always liked to quarrel with female artists, but he had never said anything negative about Zheng Yuling, so everyone speculated that there must be something unusual between the two.
In order to find possible emotional clues between the two, people are looking for clues.
This reasoning is truly humbling.
Despite these rumors, Zheng Yuling was not affected, and she even rehearsed the stage play of the series out of her own pocket because of her love for "Men and Women Love".
Subsequently, some unscrupulous ** became more and more outrageous, and it was revealed that the reason for Huang Zihua's girlfriend's suicide had a lot to do with Zheng Yuling.
Huang Zihua's girlfriend tried to commit suicide by taking medicine on February 24, 2001, but fortunately was found in time and taken to the hospital and out of danger.
* They waited for a long time and finally caught the big news, so they began to hype up the misdeeds of Zheng Yuling and Huang Zihua, and their emotions were high.
Zheng Yuling's life is chaotic, and every day when she goes out, she will find countless reporters with long guns and short cannons, waiting tirelessly at her door.
Zheng Yuling didn't plan to pay attention to it, but because this situation was too hindering her life, she decided to personally state to **: I will never enter into marriage for the rest of my life, nor will I have children, let alone involve a third party, please rest assured.
The rescued girl finally broke up with Huang Zihua, and the next year she hurriedly threw herself into the arms of another man, and even entered the palace of marriage.
Zheng Yuling and Huang Zihua are still deeply affected by this incident, but no one can know what the truth is.
Huang Zihua had a love affair with his stylist in 2002, which also led to the end of his cooperation with Zheng Yuling.
With the passage of time, Zheng Yuling's glorious moment in the film and television industry has faded away. Even more regrettable, it wasn't long before she had problems with her relationship.
Lu Fang had a strong interest in **, although he did not have much savings.
In view of this, he persuaded Zheng Yuling to invest in ** together. However, due to Zheng Yuling's lack of investment experience, he was coaxed by Lu Fang's rhetoric to be a little ignorant, and finally took out more than one billion funds to support him.
There is no doubt that the money was all down the drain in the end. Zheng Yuling was so angry that she actually punched Lu Fang.
She may be going through menopause at the moment, and although Lu Fang understands that menopause can make women emotionally unstable, he can't accept that his lover has become like this.
His most important realization was that through this incident, he realized that his dignity as a man had been violated.
Lu Fang finally proposed to break up, and the two stayed at home for half their lives, but left empty-handed.
When they said goodbye, Lu Fang originally wanted to keep the BMW he had driven for many years, but Zheng Yuling ruthlessly said the words that hurt him the most.
Don't think about it, even if it's your underwear, you didn't buy it yourself!
At this moment, the relationship and companionship over the years suddenly collapsed, and even made them wonder if the companionship of these years was mixed with hypocrisy.
Those sixteen years, looking back now, were a period of suffering. Lu Fang told reporters after the breakup.
Subsequently, Lu Fang experienced many romances one after another, but most of them did not have a happy ending.
It wasn't until 3 years ago, when his little girlfriend became pregnant, that the two decided to enter the palace of marriage.
Zheng Yuling never mentioned her feelings again in her life, and her experience made many people deeply regretful, and many people expressed deep sympathy for her experience. Although she has reached the top of her career again and again in her life, she has never had a confidant by her side.
Perhaps she had wondered in her heart why she couldn't get the love she really longed for in her life.
Even so, when asked if she regretted not getting married and not having children.
She still firmly said: I don't regret it!
In the dim environment, I always recall the frustrating experiences of my childhood, and whenever this emotion hits, I am glad that I did not fall into the quagmire of marriage.
Throughout her life, she was completely disappointed in her marriage by witnessing the breakdown of her parents' marriage, and ended up living alone and lonely.
Her independent personality is shaped by loneliness, and her shrewd mind is well known throughout Hong Kong, and even the gangsters never dare to default on her salary.
Since she was able to be independent, she has left the house, rarely in contact with her family, and all the happiness and misfortune are borne by her alone.
She had planned her funeral in advance, and she said that she had lived too much of her life and hoped that she would be quiet and peaceful when she died.
Despite her family's wealth, she lacks the company of a confidant. If she claims to be happy, I am afraid that no one will believe her.
We live in a world full of tragedy and misfortune, and in the face of these possible sad endings, what we have to do is not to run away, but to face them squarely.
The French writer Romain Rolland once said, "The only true heroism in this world is to love life even if you know it for what it is." ”