Marriage is always a very important event in life.
That means that life enters a whole new phase from then on, and after that, the days will be completely different.
When you are with one person and two people live together, when you are alone is completely different after all.
In this life, for most people, marriage is a process that needs to be experienced after all, perhaps in order to fulfill the expectations of their parents, perhaps because they really desire, or maybe they just want to feel it well.
No matter from which point of view, to love, to get married, to start a family, that's actually good.
When you reach a certain age, both men and women are the same, and you should look for a good partner.
Especially if you have entered the marriageable period, in the more critical years, you must not mess up when you want to find it at this time.
Calm down and don't be too anxious.
In this world, where we can't see it, there is often a world clock.
Seeing that everyone else is married, I will be anxious, and I will be very anxious when I hear others say that it will be difficult to find after not getting married at the age of thirty.
It's easy for us to be like that, because we're falling behind and we're messing up.
Every day I am very unhappy, very worried, whenever others ask, talk about this problem, once I am still single, I will feel more ashamed, as if I am so useless, lost to someone else.
It is easy to be affected by the mentality, be delayed in life, let yourself live a bad life at all, and even often have a kind of idea that you must get married immediately, and you can't wait to catch someone as soon as possible and get married first.
It's very easy for us to get into that situation, and we don't really have to.
Not everyone has to get married at what age, people who get married earlier, that's those people who are lucky, just met their love, compared with those people, even if we are not so lucky, a little later, it doesn't matter.
When there is no love, you are free enough to be alone, it is also a very good time, you might as well enjoy this time by yourself first, and then talk about it later, even if it will be a little later, even if it is several years late, as long as the result is good, it is the best.
If it doesn't feel right, don't force it.
Around us, our parents, our relatives, and even our friends, sometimes do persuade us to get married quickly, even if we meet someone who we don't feel is suitable and doesn't get along well, those people don't take it seriously.
They don't care what we think at all, they just tell us that no one is perfect, and that it's the same as who they marry.
There will be a lot of such exhortations, considering the age, there are times when we don't need to be persuaded by others, and we obviously feel bad, and we may also want to give in directly, and feel that we simply accept our fate.
There will be a thought in my heart that even so, it is better than being single.
It's true that you won't be firm enough, but no matter how much you persuade yourself, no matter what others say, you still can't clearly dislike it, get along very tired, don't feel the sincerity of the other party, feel that it's not like that, or go to marry someone.
Don't lie to yourself, in fact, we can't force ourselves at all. You may regret it at any time, it is difficult to really get to that point with the other party, and in all the hesitation, you will only be tormented all the time and embarrassed by each other.
Even if you can be reluctant to get married, it doesn't mean anything at all, and you will probably only regret it every day.
I still have to find someone who feels good, is willing to be close to the other party, and really wants to live with the other party.
Looking at the conditions, the most important thing is to look at the people.
Finding a job requires consideration of all aspects, and you can't be hasty, and of course finding a partner is too.
There is no need to always want to climb anyone, but it is also necessary to look at the specific situation of the other party in all aspects.
Basically, it's the best to be evenly matched, a little better, that's okay, of course, on this basis, if the other party's conditions are much better, but they are really sincere, of course, there is no need to refuse.
It is necessary to have a certain material foundation, and on this basis, character, character, and life must be well referenced.
For these things, at the beginning, you can have a minimum judgment through the other party's conversation, and after that, you need to get along well and observe yourself in the relationship.
Details see character, and when encountering some things, it is also the best way to see the essence of the other party.
Anyway, appearance is really not so important, just be able to accept it, you must pass the whole person comparison, there are no very flaws on the body, and there are no situations that are not suitable for marriage at all.
People are looking for a good job, they can get by now, they can look forward to it in the future, the days will be comfortable, the more they move forward, the more they will gradually get better, and it is not easy to have some major problems, and it will directly make the marriage go to a bad one, and even the ending that has been foreseen a long time ago.
When you reach marriageable age, it's good to hurry up and look for it.
To fulfill your expectations, so that you can feel love.
Look for it with your heart, but always sift through it.
In the process, you don't always have to reject everyone at once, always feel inappropriate because of a little thing, but there is no need to touch the person who is really inappropriate, waste time, and don't accept the other party's contribution.
The right people, and then go to get to know each other well, go forward together, and see what it will be like in the future.
Try it and you'll find it.
If you can't find it, it's not a big deal, and there's still a lot of time.
Text: Tan Meng.
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