In today's social ** era, Douyin, as one of the popular platforms, has had a profound impact on people's concept of love. Especially for the younger generation, the content on Douyin often shows love in a romanticized way, causing some people to have high expectations of their partners and distort the true perception of love.
My sister-in-law is one of many women affected by this.
Recently, my sister-in-law has seen a lot of ** about husband and wife life on Douyin, many of which show her husband's meticulous care and meticulous care for his wife. She feels that the couples in these ** live happily, which makes her have more expectations for her marriage.
One day, my sister-in-law happily shared these ** with my brother. She hopes that my brother can learn from this and improve their relationship as a couple. However, my brother's reaction was not what she expected.
My brother looked at his sister-in-law and said, "These **s are all to attract attention and attract attention." In real life, how can there be so many romantic and perfect things between husband and wife?The sister-in-law was stunned, and she began to wonder if she really had unrealistic expectations for marriage.
After some deep thought, my sister-in-law realized that she should not be affected by these **, nor should she compare my brother with the husband in those **. Every couple has their own unique way of life and way of getting along, and the happiness of others is not necessarily for them.
My sister-in-law began to re-examine her marriage, and she realized that although my brother was not as romantic as the husband in **, he had been caring and loving her in his own way. My brother would take time out of his busy schedule to spend time with her, massaging her feet when she was tired, and taking care of her at the bedside when she was sick. These are all manifestations of my brother's love and care for her, and while not so romantic, they are very real.
Later, my sister-in-law began to learn to cherish these ordinary happiness, and she understood that true love is not the pursuit of superficial romance and perfection, but mutual support and common growth. She and my brother began to communicate more openly with each other about their thoughts and feelings, trying to improve their relationship as a couple.
Time flies, and my brother and sister-in-law have been married for many years. Although there is not so much romance and passion in their lives, their feelings are getting deeper and deeper. They have gone through ups and downs together, faced life's challenges and difficulties together, and mutual support and understanding have become an integral part of their lives.
We can't deny that some of the content on TikTok does have the negative effect of distorting the concept of love. Some young people attach too much importance to external material conditions, pursue romance and passion, but ignore real emotional and spiritual communication. In addition, the immediacy and fragmentation characteristics of Douyin short ** are also easy to make people form the psychological habit of "instant gratification", and lack patience and effort for long-term happiness.
In the face of the influence of social networking such as Douyin on the concept of love, we need to remain rational and vigilant, and not be swayed by unhealthy concepts. We should cherish the real and ordinary happiness with our partners, pursue real emotional and spiritual communication, and strive to pay for long-term happiness. At the same time, through the joint efforts of ** and education, we can cultivate young people to form a healthy concept of love, so that they can be happier and more contented in their future lives.
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