Caigen Tan, a collection of proverbs that brings together the wisdom of the ancients, expounds the true meaning of life in simple language. One of the sentences:"You must be chivalrous when making friends, and you must be a little plain"It is an accurate summary of interpersonal communication and attitude towards life.
First, let's unpack"Friendship must be chivalrous"。Chivalry refers to a temperament of integrity, boldness, and daring. In interpersonal interactions, people who possess chivalrous spirit are often able to earn the respect and trust of others. They dare to take responsibility, are not afraid of power, are helpful, and have a strong sense of justice. Interacting with such a person is like getting a trustworthy sword in the sky, which makes people feel extremely relieved and down-to-earth.
However, chivalry does not mean blind impulsiveness. In three points of chivalry, there are also seven points of reason. Reason is the conciliator of chivalry, so that chivalry is not overly publicized, but manifested in stability. Therefore, the real chivalrous man is a person who coexists with chivalry and reason.
Secondly,"Be a man with a little plain heart"。Suxin refers to a pure, simple, and innocent state of mind. In a complex society, people often lose their hearts because of all kinds of ** and pressure. At this time, it is particularly important to maintain a plain heart. A plain-minded person is able to keep a clear head in a materialistic society and not follow the crowd;They pursue inner peace and truth, and are not fooled by the glitz and glitz of the outside world.
However, plain mind does not mean passive avoidance. On the contrary, people with no heart tend to love life more, they know how to find beauty in the ordinary, and find hope in the midst of difficulties. They feel the world with a pure heart and treat others with a sincere love.
In summary,"You must be chivalrous when making friends, and you must be a little plain"This sentence tells us that in interpersonal communication, we need to show integrity, boldness, and courage to act chivalrous, and at the same time maintain a sense of sanity;In terms of being a human being, we need to maintain a pure, simple and innocent heart, not to follow the crowd, and to pursue inner peace and truth. Only in this way can we gain a foothold in this complex and ever-changing society and become a trustworthy person.
Let us remember the wisdom of this sentence and strive to be a person with chivalry and plain heart. In this world, there is nothing more touching than a sincere heart. No matter where we go, as long as we have chivalrous spirit and plain heart, we can exude a unique light and illuminate our own life path.