I'm telling you: don't you think!
Why can't you take the money and send a third party?
You must have heard of it: meat buns beat dogs and there is no return.
When she saw that there was a profit to be made, she asked for a second meat bun.
This thinking of yours is a very intellectually degrading act.
You listen to every word I say next, otherwise you will always be the "meat bun" with the hook, and you will be bullied by your husband and the women outside, not necessarily just this, this is over and there will be a lifetime of bullying for the fourth, the fifth and so on!
This woman is digging into the corner of your house, she violates your interests and hurts you, right?
Maybe I swallowed your family's money before.
So such a woman who hurt you first.
As a result, you made a decision to give her money and let her go!
You think it's spending money to buy peace, but in fact?
At this time, when you do this, you are sending two messages to a third person:
FirstI don't have the power to use it for youMoneywayKick you outGo
In other words, I have no way to deal with you, and you are actually surrendering at this time.
Once you sell your own interests in exchange for "tranquility", then you are giving the other party a chance.
If you give someone the choice, then the other party will be emboldened.
Originally, this third party wanted to leave, but when I saw you kneeling, I was so cowardly. Then she will be relieved to be bold.
You are so soft, she was the one who was at fault, she hurt you, but you gave her money.
You are "begging for mercy"!
This is the attitude of a weak person towards a robber.
So such a mindset of yours is a weak mindset.
If you are a weakling.
Then you will definitely be bullied to the point of desperation in your marriage.
First of all, you have to figure out one thing: there must be righteousness in marriage.
If there is no righteousness, there is no way for this marriage to be maintained.
The second point is that if you don't know how to get rid of itThird PartiesIt doesn't matter
With so many teachers available to help you, there's absolutely no need for you to shell out this unjust money to a marriage robber.
Also, you have to figure out what the nature of the relationship is.
It is necessary to raise your status in marriage and take back your influence on your husband.
If you can't handle these two things, the third party will never leave.
You have to know that the "third party" does not specifically refer to this woman, if you don't stand up yourself, there will be another one after this is dismissed.
Got it?So the most important thing for you now is that your mentality is too weak, and if you are weak to this extent, you will have no resistance at all.
So now we're going to change the way of living.
If you don't change this way of living, it will be useless to give you any theories and methods.
Now you have to give yourself a shot in the arm, stop kneeling, you have to stand up.
Whether it's this woman outside or your husband, if you let them suffer a little loss, or even see some blood in their interests, they won't stop.
So you need four words at this time: the dog jumps off the wall.
When you don't have a way to live, you have to die!
Because it has reached this point, your husband is actually a persimmon picking up soft pinch.
He also wanted to send that woman away at first, and seeing that woman was too powerful, he wanted to send you away.
So if you are not strong, if you are not strong, this marriage will be over.
Once we have the problem of betrayal in our family, all the answers are three words: change the way of life.
If you don't change your way of life, betrayal will drag you to death.
If you don't know what to do, come to me with a private message, and I will teach you how to solve it.