As a sister-in-law, in the face of her sister-in-law's remarks that giving birth to a daughter is "a loss of money", she needs to deal with it with a calm, rational and respectful attitude. Here are some of my suggestions for you to fight back:
Stay calm: Hearing such remarks from your sister-in-law, your sister-in-law may feel very angry and dissatisfied. However, in order to ensure that her rights and dignity are protected, the sister-in-law needs to remain calm. Don't let emotions control your actions and reactions.
Express your opinion: The sister-in-law can try to have an open and honest conversation with the sister-in-law to express her opinions and feelings. To put it this way: "I feel very uncomfortable when I hear you say that I lost money by giving birth to a daughter. This statement is not only disrespectful to me, but also disrespectful to women. "The sister-in-law can also explain to the sister-in-law the advantages and values of having a daughter, such as the daughter being well-behaved, careful, considerate, etc., so that the sister-in-law realizes that gender should not be the standard for evaluating a person.
Rely on the power of others: If communication with the sister-in-law is not effective, the sister-in-law can try to use the power of other family members or relatives and friends. Tell them about their troubles and ask for their help. They may deal with the issue in a more rational and objective manner and help the sister-in-law maintain her dignity and rights.
Change the subject: If possible, the sister-in-law can try to turn the conversation to other aspects, such as the child's upbringing and education, etc. This will prevent you from continuing to discuss topics that make your sister-in-law feel uncomfortable, and at the same time, you can also create a more harmonious and healthy environment for your child to grow up.
Self-affirmation: The most important thing is for the sister-in-law to affirm her worth and rights. Don't deny your own worth and status because of what others say. My sister-in-law is a dignified and entitled person, and her decisions and choices should be respected and recognized.
Finally, I hope that my sister-in-law can remember not to affect her self-esteem and confidence because of the words of others. Everyone has the right to make their own choices and decisions, regardless of the opinions of others. At the same time, I also hope that my sister-in-law will be aware of the mistakes and harms of gender discrimination and respect everyone's rights and dignity.
Of course, in addition to the methods mentioned above, there are other ways to solve this problem. Here are my other tips for my sister-in-law:
Seek professional help: If your sister-in-law's remarks have had a serious impact on her emotional and mental health, she may consider seeking professional help, such as psychological counseling or family counseling. These professionals can help your sister-in-law deal with her emotions and provide support and guidance to help her better cope with her sister-in-law's remarks.
Build a support system: Sister-in-law can actively build her own social network and support system. Build good relationships with friends, family, neighbors or co-workers, etc., and share your feelings and experiences. This will allow you to feel more supported and comforted, as well as receive more advice and help.
Develop self-confidence and self-esteem: Sister-in-law can improve her self-confidence and self-esteem by learning Xi, exercising, self-reflecting, etc. In this way, you can be more firm in your own position and opinions, and you will not be influenced by the words of others.
Avoid confrontation with your sister-in-law: While an open and honest conversation with your sister-in-law is necessary, it doesn't mean that you should have a confrontation with her head-on. The sister-in-law can try to avoid direct conflict with the sister-in-law and adopt a relaxed attitude and tone to avoid the conflict from intensifying.
Give time and space: Sometimes, the sister-in-law may just not understand the sister-in-law's views and decisions for a while. The sister-in-law can give her some time and space to think and reflect on herself. At the same time, the sister-in-law can also prove her worth and rights through her actions and performance, so that the sister-in-law can gradually change her opinion.
In conclusion, solving this problem requires patience, understanding, and communication. By actively seeking help and support, the sister-in-law can better respond to the sister-in-law's remarks and maintain her dignity and rights.