In this era of mobile phones, connecting people has become very simple, just tap the screen, and you can easily contact each other.
When a person no longer wants to connect with you, no matter how hard you try, no matter how many messages you send, or how many ** you call, you don't get a single response.
When a person takes the initiative to contact you, it means that he thinks of you at some point, or he cares about you, maybe he needs something, or maybe he really cares about you.
And when a person no longer takes the initiative to contact you, it means that he no longer cares about you as much as he used to, and there is no reason to keep in touch with you anymore. Maybe he has put you in his memories and will not contact you in the future.
Here are three things you might want to know.
1. The other party doesn't care about you anymore.
When a person no longer takes the initiative to get in touch with you and does not delete you, in his mind, your existence may have become insignificant, and he will no longer think of you from time to time. Even if you instantly pop into his mind at a certain moment, he doesn't feel the urge to contact you, which only means that he has completely put you down.
In this case, while it may be sad, we should accept this reality. When we face this indifference, don't dwell on it, the silence of the other party has given the best answer. We must not allow ourselves to sink deeper into pain and disappointment, we should learn to let go and look forward.
We can choose to focus our attention on those who genuinely care about us and are worth our giving.
2. The other party attributes you to the sea of people.
If a person no longer takes the initiative to get in touch with you, and does not remove you from the address book, and keeps your ***, it may be that he thinks that the relationship between you has become weaker and weaker, and there is little intersection. He chose to return to the sea of people, so he decided to put you back in the middle of nowhere.
Life is so vast, parting and reunion are the norm. At every stage of life, we meet all kinds of people. Some people are destined to accompany us only through one part of life's journey, while others are just a passing guest in our lives.
We've all had the experience of flipping through our address books, and we may find that some of them we can't remember their names, some of them we've never even added notes to, and some of us used to be classmates or colleagues, and they were like strangers, lying quietly in the corner of the address book, and they were like grains of sand that flowed back into the vast sea of people.
No longer contacting doesn't mean you need to delete the other person completely, and sometimes maintaining the status quo is also an option.
We met in a sea of people, and we ended up getting separated in a sea of people
3. Time will always help you leave important people.
The estrangement of relationships between people often stems from the importance of the other person in their hearts.
For those who are important in their hearts, they will naturally maintain a long-term contact, and for those who are not important, the contact will gradually decrease over time, and even no longer take the initiative to contact or bother to delete.
Perhaps we have also wondered why people who used to be in the same college dormitory have less and less contact after graduation, or even no intersection at all.
When a person no longer contacts you and does not delete you, from the once nothing to the current stranger, the truth behind it, time will slowly tell you.
In a person's life, only one or two true friends are sufficient. People's energy and time are limited, and the pressure of life, the busyness of work, and the management of the family all require a lot of time and energy. The people who can always be by your side, time will eventually be screened.
For those who have been cut off, we don't need to resent or hold on to them, but just respect their departure and live their lives.