When 40-year-old Zhang Ping was young, she thought that women no longer needed men when they had their own strength. However, after the divorce, she felt infinite regret. She and her ex-husband Zhang Jiaming were classmates in college, and although they were not in the same class, they often met. Zhang Jiaming pursued her for a year, and although she didn't care about this inconspicuous male classmate at first, she still gave him a chance with the help of her roommates.
As time passed, Zhang Ping found that this boy was not bad, his family conditions were better, and he respected her very much. The most important thing is that he can patiently do the things she tells him to do one by one, and treat her as the pearl of his palm. They spent a good time in college together, and after graduation, they got married and had children. However, as the marriage continued, Zhang Ping found that the man had changed. Zhang Jiaming began to have a different attitude towards her, often disliking her, thinking that he was like a broad wife, who loved to spend money and did not know how to be diligent and thrifty.
Zhang Ping felt a little aggrieved. Although he doesn't go to work, she is in charge of everything at home, and she keeps a record of every expense. However, Zhang Jiaming didn't seem to care about this, and every month Zhang Ping needed to ask Zhang Jiaming for money. And Zhang Jiaming will always ask her where the money is spentWhy are you so careless?He also doesn't want to think that his children don't need money for food and clothingThe relationship between them gradually changed from love to family affection, and from family affection to fame became weaker and weaker.
Zhang Ping has always maintained a favorable attitude towards this marriage. She doesn't want to affect her children's Xi or their physical and mental development. Now that her children are older, she mustered up the courage to file for divorce. However, her decision was strongly opposed by family and friends, including the child, who did not advise the mother to make such a decision. They think that at this age, they can endure it, and no one will want a divorce, and it is better for two people to dislike each other than to be lonely and old.
After the divorce, Zhang Ping started her own life. She started renting a house by herself, which she didn't find very convenient. So he used the property obtained from the divorce to buy a second-hand house. Life is getting better, she is living the life she wants, and she feels free. But she also feels that being at home alone seems to be the world becoming quieter and full of loneliness. This feeling becomes more pronounced with age.
After retiring, Zhang Ping found that a person's life was not as good as she imagined. She became afraid of life, and found that she couldn't carry some heavy objects to buy rice, and if it wasn't delivered to her home, she was a staircase and couldn't do it at all. I was too short to change the light bulb, and I was too embarrassed to ask my neighbors for help. So she began to frequently contact middle-aged blind dates, hoping to find a suitable partner.
However, blind dates are not as easy as imagined. Zhang Ping, who is used to being the comfortable wife of a rich family Xi, has no low requirements for the other half. Being of similar age, gentle and caring, and having a certain amount of financial strength are her basic requirements for her other half. But the reality is cruel, most of the rich and wealthy will choose to find a younger woman, and the younger, poorer girls are often not competitive.
Through Zhang Ping's story, I want to tell you: When you get older, you still need someone by your side. When people reach middle age, they should still listen to the opinions and suggestions of their families. If there is a problem in the marriage, the first thing you should do is to make up for and cherish each other. It is not easy to be together for more than ten years, and each other should cherish each other and face the challenges in life together.