We can see through the surrounding situation that most men are basically reluctant to remarry after divorceAccording to the reality of online data, in China, nearly 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. However, after a few years, or even just a few months, many divorced women want to remarry.
The vast majority of men disagree. Why is this happening?
Under normal circumstances, at the time before the divorce, many men have already used eighteen kinds of martial arts, trying all means to save this marriage, or to maintain the family, he also asked for what he should beg, he gave in when he should give in, and even suffered a lot of losses that should not be beared, especially for middle-aged men. 
Most men, in fact, don't want to end this marriage in their hearts, one is emotionally can't give up, the other is that divorce will hurt children a lot, and then it will have a great impact on parents, after all, the concept of the elderly is still relatively conservative.
There are a couple of post-80s couples who divorced, and a son was awarded to the man, and the woman soon remarried and gave birth to a daughter, so when the son came over, he was basically with his grandfather and grandmother. After a few years, the man also remarried and gave birth to a daughter, who now lives with his aunt most of the time.
I don't know what kind of shadow is inside this boy?Do you feel that your parents have abandoned him?
Moreover, in the eyes of secular people, most of the fingers of divorce between husband and wife are pointed at men, and they feel that it is because men have no ability that they can't even keep their wives.
But will this be the case?In fact, more reasons are not like this, mainly because women are more emotional, feel that they are not happy, uncomfortable, and romantic, and at the same time are bewitched by poisonous chicken soup and poisonous girlfriends, and they file for divorce on impulse.
She didn't know how dangerous the outside world was, and she felt that she would definitely be able to find a better one if she left, but when she went out, she suffered a lot of setbacks, only to find that there were not so many people who spoiled her at all, especially if she still had a child after divorce, especially if she had a son after divorce. 
At this time, many women found out that their ex-husbands were actually the best choice, so they thought about turning back.
But most of the men at this time were unwilling, because the time when they wanted him to stay had already passed, and this confession seemed out of place. Even if some men agree, but the real reason is that they can still accept the relationship, or because of the children?
Therefore, I really hope that everyone will not easily mention divorce, let alone be bewitched by poisonous chicken soup, some peopleOnce lost, it is forever, and some love cannot be regained once it is lost