This is a true story about a husband and wife because of familyDistribution of propertyproblems and get caught up in divorce disputes. Mr. Zhaoand Ms. Zhang were introduced to husband and wife, and at first theirsMarriageare attracted to each other:Mr. ZhaoAlthough her appearance is mediocre, her family conditions are superior, and Ms. Zhang is a person with herHighly educatedAnd a little beauty with a good job. However, as time went on, Ms. Zhang began to test and trampleMr. ZhaoThe bottom line of the family, causedMr. ZhaoDecided to file for divorce. This article will analyze this case in depth and provide a review of:Marriageand familyDistribution of propertyreflections and insights.
Mr. Zhaoand Ms. Zhang were introduced to each otherIn loveMarried. Mr. ZhaoComing from a family with relatively good conditions, although the personal appearance is mediocre, but it has been very stablelife。And Ms. Zhang is a person who hasHighly educatedand a little beauty with a good job, with relatively poor family conditions. theirsMarriageIt seems to be the right thing, but after a series of disputes and disagreementsMr. ZhaoFiled for divorce.
Mr. ZhaoThe family conditions are very good, the father is a small business, and the mother is a middle-level leader in a public institution. Ms. Zhang's family is poor, she comes from a rural family and has many siblings. However, it is precisely because of the difference in their family backgrounds that they are attracted to each other. Mr. ZhaoTo Ms. ZhangHighly educatedAnd good work was fascinated, while Ms. Zhang wasMr. Zhaostabilitylifeattracted. With the support of their families, they soon got married.
Shortly after the marriage, Ms. ZhangPregnancyup, let's makeMr. ZhaoThe family was very happy. In order to care for and comfort his wife,Mr. Zhaotook a long vacation to accompany her to travel, and the cost of the tour was all funded by her in-laws. However, some problems are gradually emerging. After marriage, Ms. Zhang obtainedMr. Zhaoand manage the family's finances, a move that was meant to give her more security. However, Ms. Zhang used the opportunity to send money to her family to buy things and even subsidize her siblings. Mr. ZhaoAlthough he knew about the situation, he chose to turn a blind eye, after all, Ms. Zhang came from a difficult family, and he couldn't bear to let her be troubled in any way.
Mr. Zhaoand Ms. Zhang'sMarriageAt first it was a happy one, and they were looking forward to the birth of their child. However, soon they faced the miscarriage of their biological child. Mr. ZhaoDeeply sad and guilty, he decided to take a long leave to accompany his wife so that she could recover from her loss and pain. They traveled to many beautiful places together, and it was all thereMr. ZhaoEfforts to bring joy and relief to Ms. Zhang. However, the contradictions after marriage also began to manifest themselves.
Everything is thereMr. ZhaoA sudden change in the family began. Mr. Zhao's in-laws realized that several sets of old family homes that had been idle for many years could be demolished, and divided the proceeds of the demolition into three setsCommercial housingand $2 million in cash. The in-laws decided to divide these properties among their children and sons-in-law, one of which was given to their daughter, one house to their son, and the last house was used as a rental property, and in the future, according to which child was more filial, 500,000 yuan of the 2 million yuan was used as an emergency backup, and the rest of the property was divided equally between the two siblings.
ThisDistribution of propertyScenarios forMr. ZhaoHe has no objections to his sister and brother-in-law, who are well aware of their parents' hard work and sacrifices for the family. However, Ms. Zhang expressed dissatisfaction with the distribution plan. She thinks that her sister has already married, how can she get a share of her mother's property?Moreover, the in-laws own the property, so why should they divide the property among their children?Ms. Zhang also saidMarriageThe property should be divided equally between the spouses and not by one person. She insisted that if her in-laws gave her sister property, she would be with herMr. ZhaoDivorce. This decision letsMr. ZhaoFeeling unbearable, he no longer coaxed and tolerated her as before, but calmly responded: "Then leave". This time, his determination was evident.
Fourth, the divorce is finalMr. ZhaoOffered a firm attitude towards divorce and left directly. Although Ms. Zhang did not want to divorce in the first place, she received itCourt subpoenaAfter that, she suddenly felt overwhelmed and overwhelmed. She realized that the house she lived in and the car she drove were the sameMr. ZhaoofPre-marital property, after the divorce, she has almost no assets to share. At the same time, she has used almost all of the joint property of the husband and wife for the relocation of her mother's family. In the overused superiorlifeAfter that, she was reluctant to go back to the pastlifeManner. However,Mr. ZhaoHaving firmly chosen to divorce, Ms. Zhang can only accept this reality.
This case shows that inMarriageRegardless of whether the family conditions are relatively poor or rich, the quality of character and the original family is a very important factor. The right doorMarriageWhile it is important, it is more important to grow each other, support each other, give to each other and tolerate each other. Help the other person, not take it from the other person's family. Long-term wealth imbalances will be causedMarriageA factor in the disintegration. Therefore, both husband and wife should communicate and negotiate the distribution of family property frankly and fairly, both before and after marriage, so as to avoid unnecessary disputes and disputes.