Xie Na, who looks very sunny with a smile, recently said in a variety show that after giving birth to her second child, she also suffered from severe postpartum depression.
What does that feel like?
She said she was in a very bad state during that time.
The slightest thing can break you down.
Once I prepared a gift for my daughter, I originally wanted to surprise her, but I didn't expect to be given by Zhang Jie in advance, so she cried angrily, feeling that she had worked hard to prepare, but she didn't come at her own pace, and was understated by Zhang Jie.
It looked hypocritical, but she knew she was sick.
When you wake up every morning, you feel as if you're in the dark, with no hope or a future in sight. Xie Na thought she was dying.
Later, she came back to participate in a show and found that many mothers faced challenges that were much more serious than her, some were physical health problems, some were financial problems, etc.
Although it is difficult, these ordinary mothers have not given up, but bravely faced it, solved problems, and worked hard to live.
Their tenacity and courage touched and admired Xie Na.
There is no comparison, there is no feeling, by observing the experiences of other mothers in the show, Xie Na gradually walked out of the shadow of postpartum depression and regained the happy Xie Na.
In fact, postpartum depression is really not hypocritical.
In the TV series "The First Time in This Life", Chen Lanqing, played by Tang Yixin, faces ...... tearing, milk engorgement, incontinence, and sleepingPhysically and mentally emaciated.
Drink breast milk or **powder?Can you open the window during confinement?and mother-in-law, and their own mother-in-law quarreled about the concept of scientific parenting, and had a headache.
Faced with the old man's accusation, Chen Lanqing felt guilty and aggrieved.
When her husband saw the situation at home, he didn't come out to help her, he would rather go on a business trip, and would rather hide in KTV and sing for two more hours than comfort his wife.
Chen Lanqing collapsed and said: "Mom, Mom, is there only a mother without a father?"”
She fell into the pain of postpartum depression, and her family thought she was just hypocritical and couldn't endure hardship.
is also considered hypocritical as Zhan Lu in "Female Psychologist".
Accidental second child, widowed parenting, mother-in-law with no sense of boundaries ......Let her life start to spiral out of control.
How serious is it?
Once, when she crossed the street with a stroller, she even wished that a car would come at this time and take the mother and son away, and that was the end of it all.
The thought flashed, she felt so terrible, how could she want to kill her own child?
She felt like a murderer, she felt like a madman.
Until she went to see a psychiatrist, Horton, a psychiatrist played by Yang Zi, told her that it was postpartum depression, and it was normal to have this thought and it should be treated.
Zhan Lu asked: "If I tell others about this disease, will they think I am hypocritical?"I feel like that's what my mother-in-law and husband think. ”
Actually, it's really not hypocritical, not only ordinary people will, but even stars like Xie Na and Xi Mengyao will not worry about the economy.
Xi Mengyao once said on the show that after giving birth to her first child, she was also depressed after giving birth, worried that the baby she conceived and gave birth to in October only recognized the nanny, thinking that the nanny was the mother and didn't want her.
Very confused crying at home.
Fortunately, she has a husband He Youjun who understands and cares about her, and a good friend who is willing to listen to her voice to enlighten her in time and accompany her through the most difficult time.
The word mom is really not easy!
In fact, every mother used to love to sleep lazy, and after giving birth, she never slept all night......
She doesn't like to do housework, but after giving birth, she tried her best to ...... for the baby's supplementary food
She loses her temper and willfulness when she is unhappy, and in order to give her child a good family atmosphere, she swallow......s all her emotions and unhappiness silently
So, please be kind to every mother, understand her, love her, care for her, and help her ......