Nowadays, regardless of men, women, young and old, everyone has a mobile phone, and since the surging and sudden death, which is a small probability of medical events, is frequently posted on the Internet. Although it is a fact, it deepens the impression of the viewer.
Some elderly people, especially those with underlying diseases and the risk of sudden death, are like demons in their hearts, and they worry about whether they have won the lottery whenever there is a stir.
I think there are two factors that cause this phenomenon: the level of awareness of self-** is not high, and there is no psychological construction in this area;The mental health of these people has not attracted the attention and attention of the society, and there is a lack of relevant psychological counseling and institutions.
Let me give you an example.
Tang, I have known each other for many years, and he wants to tell me a story, of course I am pleased, so we found a place to have two drinks last night.
Tang was talking about two or three things about his mother.
When her mother was 58 years old, she had a heart attack and was implanted with a stent, and for six years, she had always been careful with the candle, did not eat meat, and took medicine on time, and never got serious.
This year's weather was very cold, and on the day of the sudden cooling, his mother called Tang Mou: You go home tonight, I don't feel very good, in case I suddenly leave, there is no one around, it doesn't seem appropriate ......
Can Tang not go back, dare not go back?
Back in the old house, at half past eleven o'clock that night, sure enough, there was a situation, his mother reported that he was a little out of breath, and his chest was faintly stuffy.
When I went to the hospital, I couldn't get a heart problem. Tang wrapped his mother tightly and helped her into the car.
On the way, his mother explained the cause of the disease: the sudden cooling stimulates the blood vessels, causing blood vessels to constrict, blood pressure to rise, sympathetic nerve excitation, heart rate to increase, and the burden on the heart to increase, which has the possibility ......of sudden death from myocardial infarction
Tang said, and his mother then told him that going to the hospital is not a trivial matter, people are very fragile, and maybe they will leave.
Tang was a little distracted, looking at his mother's mental state, he suspected that the problem was not too serious, whether she was really sick, or she was scaring herself.
His mother suddenly asked him, "It seems too early for me to leave at my age."
Tang panicked: What are you thinking, you must live forever.
I'm in a state of death, and you still have a sense of humor.
Tang shut up.
When I arrived at the hospital, I measured my body temperature, blood pressure, and blood oxygen were normal, and I did an electrocardiogram to reduce the possibility of myocardial infarction.
Examine. Tang did not hesitate.
The blood test report came out and there was no problem.
No problem, peace of mind. Mother and son went home.
On the way, his mother explained to him again: I am not afraid of death, I am not afraid of death, I am afraid of falling ill in bed, dragging myself to death, I am physically and mentally exhausted, and I have to drag my children ......
Tang didn't dare to answer.
Back at home, the air conditioner in the living room was not turned on, it was obviously cold, and his mother was just about to walk to the room, when she suddenly sat down in her chair, and her face turned pale: how did I have a premonition that something was going to happen, and her breathing was visibly short.
Tang panicked again, wrapped his mother tightly again, and came to the hospital again.
When he arrived at the hospital, everything was fine, and his mother felt better.
The doctor and Tang glanced at each other, and the meaning of the exchange was tacitly acquiesced that the old man's discomfort was not pathological, but psychological.
Tang asked the doctor loudly: Can a patient with coronary heart disease like his mother, who has been fitted with a stent, usually control blood pressure, blood sugar, and blood lipids, and the weather is cooling, can the possibility of a heart attack be ruled out?
The doctor doesn't talk a lot, it seems to be the norm. However, what the doctor said is still realistic: generally speaking, if the warmth is done well, the probability of a heart attack is relatively small, as for whether it can be ruled out, this is not something that I can answer as a doctor, this is a big scientific research topic.
Mother and son went back. The sky was cloudy and bright, and the vehicles that got up early to deliver vegetables were already on their way.
When he got home, his mother leaned on the chair and explained: I'm really not afraid of death, I can't die in front of Liu's coffin, I died early, he will die of laughter, and he will have to fight ...... life with the wicked
Tang was still silent, the coffin of Liu in his mother's mouth was a man surnamed Liu, her ex-husband, who had hurt her. Whatever he said about this matter was inappropriate.
Come back, I'm going to sleep after breakfast.
If you're like this, how can I rest assured that I'm leaving.
Let's go, it's okay. His mother said earnestly: I know it's okay, most people really want to die, it's not easy, there is always a process. After I was a stent, I often thought about the dangerous situation when I had a heart attack, and I almost said goodbye to this world, I often felt a foreign body in my chest, and I was worried that the stent was blocked, especially when I saw someone on my phone suddenly walked away ......
Speaking of this, his mother's eyes seemed to be empty, Tang didn't know how to persuade and reason, she didn't have never read, obviously couldn't be perfunctory, and he also had a sense of foreign body in his heart if he didn't persuade him, he wanted to pretend to be stupid and ask her some distant things, stir up her nostalgic emotions, and forget the confusion in front of her.
Before Tang could speak, his mother was already relieved: I know that my anxiety is a psychological problem, but I can't control it, like I have a problem, after a while, I feel serious, like I really want to leave. It was very cold last night, so I was worried that I wouldn't be able to get over this hurdle, in fact, it was a demon, you can rest assured, this process is over, and I will stay for a few days.
Tang left with peace of mind.
After Tang's story was finished, he asked me a question, what can be done to make his mother let go of the knot in her heart.
I can't answer this question, do you have an answer?