We've got into oneGreatAn era of pressure, an era of brutal competitionWhether it is time pressure, work pressure, interpersonal pressure, environmental, economic, goal and many other pressures, it will have a negative impact on the body and mind through neuroendocrine, which will reduce the immune system, and as a result, it will cause insomnia, stomach pain, high blood pressure, allergies, depression, and in severe cases, myocardial infarction, anxiety, depression and so on.
We have entered a fast-paced era, which is certainly the result of cutthroat competition. Fast-paced work can improve work efficiency, but once something is excessive, there will inevitably be problems.
In thisIn the era of rapid change, work efficiency is fast, travel speed is fast, there is fast food to eat, love and marriage also have a new "flash marriage", go to work in a hurry with a trot, and wait for the car to come upset...... upset
As the old Chinese saying goes: "If you want to hurry, you can't reach it", which means to remind people not to be busy and make mistakes, or even backfire. Such as:AuthorI once heard a story about a patient who had a myocardial infarction, his husband was a taxi driver, and when he heard that his wife was sick, he drove home like crazy, but because the speed was too fast, he hit and injured someone on the road, and the lawsuit was settled, and his wife died because the rescue was not timely!
The so-called degree of Xu illness is actually a kind of flexible life.
European and American countries have found through objective indicators that there are large groups of "working poor" in their societies. In addition, with the increasingly obvious development of globalization in recent years, Japan and Taiwan, China, have also threaded more and more "poor busy people".
Globalization and the development of flexible labor markets have led to an increase in the number of atypical and marginal workers, in addition to the massive growth of high-skilled and core personnel, and the latter is far inferior to the former in terms of labor rights and social security. The emergence of "busy people" has become a common problem in post-industrial society.
Although the division of "busy people" has a strong supervisory color, in today's people pay more and more attention to CPI, income distribution, and personal finance, the emergence of "busy people" has its inevitability. In the eyes of the "poor and busy" themselves, the main reason for the lack of rewards and lack of hope is that the social pressure is too high and the competition is fierceThere are also a considerable number of people who believe that "poor busyness" is due to a lack of reasonable life and career planning;Others believe that it is due to the low starting point and too few opportunities.
A netizen named "The Return of the King" believes that the reason for the emergence of "poor and busy people" is the expansion of personal desires: "Some people, when they have no money, buying a second-hand mobile phone is their biggest wish, in the monthly salary."When I was 500 yuan, I wanted to buy a computer and wait for my salary000 yuan, I was thinking about buying a high-end IBM. As my salary increases, so do my personal expectations, so I am constantly busy and running around to fulfill my wishes. ”
Ivy is slightly greenyearsAn early death is a pain in the coffin. With nearly 10 years of catwalk experience, 22-year-old Jiangsu model Ai Weiwei "died of overwork".Finish. herIt is also small in Shanghai and other placesYesFame. I choose it in multiple waysBeautyThe competition has achieved good results, but due to long-term fatigueSuddenlyDied.
It doesn't matter if it's daylightAlsoIt's morning, and you have to stay up late before the show: if it's a daytime show, you usually have to rehearse until one or two o'clock in the night, and on the second day, you have to get up four or five hours early to put on makeup, and every link in the spotlight is notCan be sloppy, every smiling face and every action, must be practiced and trained in advance until it is complete. Ai Weiwei's matter is quite regrettable, it is rumored that she always shouted 'too tired' before her death, lumbar spine and ankle damage, stomach problems, etcherOur occupational diseases. How can they not die untimely if they have overdrawn their lives?
The following story is enough to show that impetuousness can lead to the loss of previous achievements. For example, Jack London, one of the world's four major short films, was forced to drop out of college due to family embarrassment, and went to Alaska to pan for gold with his brother-in-law, but his ** dream was soon shattered, and he contracted a serious illness and returned home. Lying in bed, he developed a desire to write. At this time, his rich life experience forged his first ** - To the Hunter.
After the first article was published, he was unstoppable, and two years later, he published his first short film episode, "Son of the Wolf". So far, this young man, who has struggled with life for more than 20 thoughts, has finally opened a small door to life for himself. By the time he was 33 years old, he had written his masterpiece, Martin Eden. This autobiographical ** is written about the story of the protagonist Eden's success through personal struggle, but after becoming famous, what he got was not joy, but a terrible emptiness, and he had to end his life by suicide.
Why would he commit suicide when he became famous?Because he has publicly stated that he writes for money. Jack London, in order to get more money, shoddidly wrote many shoddy works that deviated from his beliefs, and sank into the abyss of extreme individualism. By the time he was 40 years old, he, like the protagonist of his masterpiece, ended his life by suicide. Over the past ten years, he has left behind a mixed collection of 49 works.
From his experience, we realized that creating for the sake of literature and art can lead to fame and happiness, on the contrary, for the sake of money, it will lead to depravity, which is what the famous American motivational master Chopra said, if a person cannot have a detached attitude towards the things he loves, he will not be happy and happy in the end.
In order to achieve success at work, to be excellent in some aspects of life, and to achieve goals and success in life, the necessary pressure is the driving force, which is what pressure researchers consider "benign pressure", which can also be called "elastic pressure" and "flexible life".
Resilient people, is more adaptable people, flexible life, is both struggle and know how to enjoy the wise, elasticity is not equal to weakness, elasticity is not equal to cowardice, folding iron steel knife shape like soft, but it can sharpen iron like mud, although the stone is hard, but it is the water singing and dancing into a pebble, if you work day and night, study, work, how long can you last?If Mr. Lu Xun had taken it easy, stayed up less late, and smoked less, he would have left us more masterpieces. If Chen Jingrun lives for another 10 years, he may solve the "1+1" problem, and another crown of mathematics may also be worn on Chinese's head.......
The fast-paced pace of work and life has made people more and more stressful, some people have become overwhelmed, and the "old age syndrome" has gradually increased, and leisure has become a luxury.
In calligraphy, there are basic brushstrokes such as stationing, lifting, frustration, pause, light, heavy, Xu, and disease.
The so-called Xu Ji is the slow speed of the pen, that is, the speed of the pen. Don't write too fast. It's too fast, it's easy to lose control, lose the rules, lose the situation;But don't be too slow, either. If it's too slow, it will appear reserved, sluggish, and intimidating. Therefore, the severity of the pen should be just right.
Ni Houzhan of the late Qing Dynasty and early Ming Dynasty said that among the many brushstrokes, the most critical is "Xu". "Xu" means slow, that is, to be able to stay. If you can stay, you can stop, turn, frustrate, fold, and you can lift and press lightly. There are countless kinds of pens, and they can only change when they can be stopped. If you can't stop (you can't stop), it will be slippery and frivolous, and no amount of brushwork will be used. Therefore, in the process of learning, do not easily let go of the word "stop".
The true meaning of Xu Ji is that the speed is moderate, that is, the degree of busyness, only in this way can your life be longer and you can complete your greater goal in life. We want too much, never-ending, never satisfied, when you understand the Zen machine of life, life really needs not much, if you can meet the needs, strive for a little more, almost everyone is a success, happy, happy!Sadly, people use their limited lives, variable lives, and limited energy to sacrifice unlimited wealth, power, and fame, and eventually become the laughing stock and pitiful worms of history.