Many people were envious of Song Siming's deep affection for seaweed, providing her with a luxurious residence and extravagant furniture, and it is said that after she became pregnant, Song Siming also gave her 5 million yuan.
He helped Haiping and her husband, and when Haiping needed accommodation, he also provided shelter for her family and found a tutor for her. He also helped her find a job and took them to work in other places. He assisted Su Chun in circumventing a legal action.
Thanks to Song Siming's assistance, both Haiping and Su Chun set up their own businesses, bringing their children back from their parents and buying a property in Shanghai, marking their official settlement in the metropolis of Shanghai.
All of this was brought to them by seaweed, and it was precisely because of seaweed that Song Siming reached out many times.
Song Siming has made great efforts for seaweed. Her mind is very delicate, she knows who she is and what she is. The reason why he thinks so much that Seaweed also loves him is because he loves Seaweed deeply, but he never realizes that Seaweed is actually a ruthless person, and this girl who is innocent and immaculate on the surface is actually secretly calculating him from the beginning. She knows how to use the capital she has to achieve maximum financial benefits.
In the past, I have never been able to understand why Seaweed decided to give birth to Song Siming even though he didn't love him. The first time I saw him, I thought he was playing with his phone. It was only in the third ** "Snail House" that I understood the real motive of Seaweed's choice.
1 Due to Haiping's dissatisfaction and Xiaobei's uncooperative attitude, Haizao lost hope for marriage.
Seaweed expressed to Xiaobei many times that if it weren't for Haiping's existence, Seaweed would not exist. Haiping has a life-saving kindness to her.
Haiping tells Haiping that when Haiping was pregnant, Haiping had planned to have an abortion because her mother had a penis in her belly. Superstitious grandmothers are convinced that what their children say is true. The mother seaweed died on the third day after the seaweed was born. Only seaweed can ensure our own survival.
As a result of this incident, the whole family is convinced that it was Haiping who saved Seaweed's life, and Seaweed is deeply grateful to her sister.
Due to her mother's busy work, Haiping began to take on the responsibility of taking care of her sister at a very young age. My sister's parents work in a big city, while my sister and sister live in their hometown in the countryside. For the young seaweed, the sister's affection even exceeds that of the mother. She grew up by the sea, loved the sea and loved swimming since she was a child. So, when she decided to get into college, she had to travel to the city where her sister lived.
She had not been able to find a suitable job for half a year after graduating from university, but fortunately her sister provided her with food and lodging so that she would not wander around the metropolis.
Seaweed's affection for her sister is far more than ordinary sisterly affection. She is not only a family member and dependent, but also full of gratitude. It is precisely because of the support of these emotions that Haiping has ** her.
Haiping went to her home because of the 60,000 yuan loan provided by Su Chun and told Haizao that sentence. Despite Seaweed's efforts to persuade, we have to admit that Haiping's remarks had a profound impact on Seaweed.
Haiping wept and expressed her dissatisfaction with the unhappiness and irreparable situation in her marriage:
In the past, I had suspected that marriage might be the end of love, but years of married life have made me realize that I am actually digging my own grave. When I got married, I was a nice girl, I loved to communicate with people and also enjoyed playing with others, especially seaweed. He digs every day, and he's digging very hard. Later, I finally understood that love and marriage are both living things.
Seaweed, maybe I shouldn't share this with you to make you realize the true meaning of marriage and the trauma of life too early. I think love and marriage are a dream. It's better to know earlier than later, and it's more meaningful to know earlier than to regret later, rather than being stuck in your unrealistic love all the time.
In her anger, Haiping sees Seaweed as a vent for her emotions, and she has no idea what the consequences of what she says will have on her sister.
Originally, Seaweed just listened to her sister Seaweed's complaints, but she didn't take it to heart. She knew that her sister had a very short temper and could not bear anything. Despite this, she was adamant that she could not let her sister and brother-in-law divorce, so she chose to help her sister.
After Haiping leaves, Seaweed searches around for Becky's deposit book. However, contrary to her expectations, Becky was reluctant to lend money to his sister. Seaweed is sad. Seaweed is furious, and Becky once made it clear that everything he has belongs to her, but now her sister is in dire need of funds, and Becky refuses to provide it. It turned out that what he said before about loving her was false.
Although her sister loved Su Chun deeply, after getting married, she witnessed her sister becoming thrifty in order to buy a house, plus her sister was angry many times because of Su Chun.
Seaweed is confused and doesn't understand what benefits a marriage like her sister's will end up withIsn't marriage a place that brings happiness and joy to a person?Isn't marriage a process that makes people gradually better?Seaweed's marriage was not so lucky. Isn't marriage about two people supporting and helping each other?
Due to her sister's complaints and Becky's rejection, Seaweed begins to doubt the beauty of marriage, and she no longer longs for marriage as she used to, but begins to look at each day with a casualness mentality.
2 After realizing the value of money, he tried to manipulate Song Siming's funds twice.
When Seaweed borrowed money from Song Siming, he had already foreseen the possible consequences. Because she knew that he was a very rich man, and that he knew his fortune well. Therefore, on that night, when Song Siming took her to the villa, her attitude was hesitant.
After that time, Seaweed felt deeply remorseful for her indebtedness to Becky, and vowed to sever all contact with Song Siming.
However, when she gave 60,000 yuan to her sister Haiping, she witnessed Haiping counting the money excitedly, and at that moment, she felt very innocent and proud to be able to help her sister.
In this emotional state, Seaweed once again agreed to Song Siming's invitation. Contrary to her expectations, Song Siming brought her not only wealth, but also the sublimation of thinking and knowledge. In her opinion, Seaweed is a good teacher. She also has special abilities that help her get rid of all her troubles.
Although this is clearly a borrowing incident, Song Siming can interpret it from a philosophical perspective.
The greatness of a person does not lie in how much you have contributed to society or your maturity, but in the fact that you can choose to let go wisely in the face of various **.
Song Siming contacted Haiping's tutor to help her solve problems within the company. She was shocked to realize that there was such a person, who could do anything, and who would not hesitate to lend a helping hand whenever she encountered any problem.
The combination of Xiaobei's immaturity and Song Siming's maturity made Song Siming completely overwhelm Xiaobei. He is a very special person, he likes to eat seafood, he likes to watch movies, he likes to wear suits, he likes to eat potato chips. However, he doesn't have a crush on seaweed, which he finds ordinary. Seaweed feels unable to resist when confronted by an uncle who is both rich and talented.
In fact, for a type like Song Siming, many women may find it difficult to resist. The most important thing in a woman's life is love!What do women really pursue in their lives?Is it a man's love or a woman's love?This mainly involves the freedom of money as well as the pampering of a man. When you're faced with a difficult situation, there's always someone like a hero to help you. The same goes for seaweed. In Song Siming's place, these seaweeds are fully enjoyed.
Although Song Siming has brought many shocks to Seaweed, Seaweed is not a brainless daughter. Her goal with Song Siming is very clear, since she has made a sacrifice, then she should get it from Song Siming.
She asked Song Siming to give her some money on the grounds of going to Haiping's house to change her clothes. When shopping for clothes, the clerk at first thought she had no money and reminded her that clothes were very expensive and should not be touched with her hands.
When she bought two items in a row, the clerk's perception of her changed dramatically, as if it was a 180-degree shift. It turned out that Seaweed had to spend all the money before she could get it back. The clerk's completely different face made Seaweed realize the value of money once again.
Therefore, she pretended that she wanted Song Siming to see if the clothes she bought were attractive, and subtly hinted that others ridiculed her as a person who suddenly became rich and used cash to buy clothes. Song Siming responded wittily and applied for a card for her next time.
After two attempts, Seaweed achieved its goal with ease.
3 Song Siming's strategy caused her to cut off relations with Xiaobei, and she began to harbor a desire to give up revenge.
Seaweed always knows what she is pursuing, and she knows that there is no clear ending between her and Song Siming, so what she pursues in Song Siming's eyes is material interests and spoiled emotions. Seaweed love is a pure love that does not require any emotional support. She was torn between the two men, and she felt very satisfied with the emotion that she felt at first, from the initial guilt for Becky, to the fact that she later lied to Becky.
Although Seaweed planned well, she underestimated the domineering and ruthlessness of a middle-aged man. Song Siming is willing to provide everything for Seaweed, not to share her with Xiaobei, he hopes to possess her alone and make her a part of him.
Therefore, on the night when Song Siming took Seaweed to the class reunion, even though he knew that Seaweed was taking a bath, he still gave Xiaobei a **.
He reveals to Becky that Seaweed is bathing in the hotel, then pushes open the door and hands the phone to Seaweed. "How do you know that seaweed will bathe in a hotel?I know, he knows, and he's playing some trick on seaweed. ”
Song Siming showed his determination, showing not only the fact that the seaweed was bathing in the hotel, but also his deep relationship with the seaweed. He asked Seaweed to say to him on ** that if he didn't agree, he would give Seaweed a fatal blow. At the same time, he also reveals the truth about Seaweed's betrayal of him to Becky.
The final outcome was that Xiaobei chose to leave, and Song Siming fulfilled his wish. After ending his relationship with Becky, Seaweed comes to look for him. Say that word of revenge.
I don't care, wherever you go, I'll follow, and if you get home, I'll go back with you. Tell me anything. When you fall asleep, I choose to sleep peacefully between you and your wife. If you don't listen to what I told you, even if you do something wrong, I will divorce you. If you ruin my feelings in the first place, I will also take revenge on your marriage.
From that moment on, Seaweed showed a kind of revenge mentality of breaking the jar and breaking it. Song Xiamen City** listed seaweed as a particularly poor household, because seaweed does not have a hukou and cannot receive subsistence allowance benefits. Song Siming planned a spacious residence for her, and although Song Siming still clearly remembered her husband's identity at first, no matter how affectionate he was here in Seaweed, he would insist on going home every night for the night.
Seaweed is an introverted and unsociable person. Haizao is dissatisfied with this lonely lifestyle, and she wants to have a fight with Mrs. Song, so she resorts to various means to spend the night at Song Siming's house, both preparing food for him and trying her best to please him.
Seaweed understands that Song Siming is looking for her well-behaved and flattering, so she does her best to show her advantages in front of Song Siming. Her mind is delicate, her body is soft, her temper is short, and her eyes are gentle. Everything about her makes people think she's so cute. She expressed her sympathy for Song Siming with a pitiful and helpless expression, which allowed Song Siming to stay overnight.
Early the next morning, Seaweed intentionally changed the shirt she bought for him, and was successfully detected by Song Siming's original partner. "She and I are good friends. As time went on, Song Siming stayed at her place for three days and a week, and after that, he even decided not to go home all day.
Normally, a lover should be clear about their true identity and should be cautious to avoid being detected by their original partner, but Seaweed takes advantage of Song's doting on her and gradually begins to hurt her original partner.
From Song Siming's initial need to return home every day, to his later choice not to go home, seaweed gradually eroded Song Siming with its well-behaved image and strategy on the surface. The purpose of seaweed is simple - to keep her husband and save herself. In this process, there is not only her strategy and scheming, but also the bottomless concession and patience of the original partner.
Seaweed's practice is to get him and his daughters out of this world first and then go back to where they came from. If the original partner made a big fuss at the beginning and was given a choice between the two, Song Siming would not be so arrogant. Seaweed is a gentle and strong woman. Seaweed struggles to gradually achieve what she is after.
As Dong Qing said: If you are too kind to have any bottom line, then the other party may become so bad that you have no scruples.
It was precisely because of Mrs. Song's bottomless concessions that Haizao and Song Siming gradually launched an offensive, and finally put her in a desperate situation.
3 Seaweed decides to have a child for Song Siming, which is a helpless decision she makes when considering her existing interests and unrealistic fantasies.
After Seaweed became pregnant, she considered terminating her pregnancy, but Song Siming advised her to stay. "I don't want to live anymore!Seaweed firmly refused.
She knew very well that she and Song Siming were just Chaolu, and once she decided to break up, she didn't want to rely on a child for the rest of her life.
Song Siming tried all kinds of persuasion, but failed to convince her, and finally helplessly asked her if she wanted to get married
Seaweed wittily responded: What I'm after isn't the most critical, what really matters is what my child is able to get.
Instead of responding directly to Song's sentiments, Seaweed turned the discussion to her children, believing that what was most important to her children could get. "I want him to have a happy childhood like a little kid and not be tied to the house like a big man. She skillfully captured Song Siming's heart with just one sentence.
At this moment, Song Siming's safety is in jeopardy, and he is worried that if he **, Haizao will not take on the responsibility of raising this child, so he provided her with 5 million as her and her mother's daily expenses.
However, Seaweed has no idea about Song Siming's actual condition, and even without knowing it, she still insists on having children and has her own plans.
She had a conversation with Haiping:
Sister, you may be thinking that if that child he resolutely wants and I resolutely does not, then there will definitely be a rift in the relationship between me and him, and he may have doubts about my sincerity towards him. He's my son's father, you say, that's stupid!Also, it is often said that if you really love him, give him a baby. I don't believe it, I feel like I'm a little woman myself, how can I love a man!I really don't believe it, but given his character, he is more than capable of abandoning our mother and son?
I know that he is a very good boy, he has a very gentle temper, he is also very filial, he is always very considerate to make food for me. Even those around him who have nothing to do with him, he is able to take care of them very carefully. But he didn't listen to me, saying that I was his own son, and that he would send me to the hospital for rescue!This is still his descendant by bloodHow could he love me so much?Will he ignore it?
I thought that if one day, he would be like me and treat me well, I would treat me like a child. Also, in the back of my heart, I still long for him to marry me one day. If I don't even have a shadow between me and him, then I can be considered a complete severance of relations. If I don't even have any connection with him, then our relationship is not simply dissolved!
Seaweed wants to keep the child, first of all, because Song Siming**, she thinks that if she loves a man, she should have a child for him. The second point is that she has a fluke mentality, hoping that Song Siming can marry her, because the child will become an important bond between them. She even considered the worst-case scenario, even if Song Siming did not marry her, she was willing to marry with children in the future.
Although Seaweed didn't initially plan to have children, Song insisted that she have children because she was worried that if she forcibly refused, it could lead to a rift between them. Seaweed is seaweed, she is also seaweed, seaweed is seaweed. If there is a gap with others, then breaking up is the best option. However, Seaweed believes that following Song Siming is the wisest decision.
After Seaweed left, Haiping felt dissatisfied with her, and Su Chun's words touched her sensitive point. "Do you think seaweed will die?".Su Chun made a statement:
You may not realize that Song Siming's impact on seaweed is far greater than that of you and your parents, and the car that Haizao is currently driving is worth as much as 1.8 million BMW. She is a woman, a woman has two children, she is a woman, a woman is going to be a mother, and a woman is going to raise three children. Just immersed in enjoyment, she can't ignore her responsibilities and give for the children in her life as a matter of course.
It is what Su Chun said that reveals the true motive for the birth of seaweed. Seaweed gave birth to a son, which can be regarded as a kind of compensation for himself, right?She knows that there are no gratuitous gifts in this world, and there are no unjustified kindnesses.
Seaweed made it very clear that Song Siming now values her youth and beauty more, especially the child in her womb. Giving birth to Song Siming is not only a strategy she adopts to protect her current interests, but also an unrealistic fantasy of her spending time with him in the future.
4 When the dream dissipates, at last only nothingness remains.
Song Siming chose seaweed because of its purity and, more importantly, its striking resemblance to his first love in college. For Song Siming, the pursuit of seaweed not only satisfied his desire to conquer in college, but also his way of showing his success.
Song Siming knew that money was essential in order to protect his lover. Therefore, he decided to take a risk and committed a lawbreaker, which ended up leading to the destruction of his own life and future.
With the appearance of Song Siming, Seaweed was able to enjoy a luxurious life and Song Siming's pampering, which also benefited her family a lot. In the eyes of Seaweed, Song Siming is an omnipotent existence. She felt that it was better to follow Song Siming than to follow Xiaobei, because she was immersed in a girl's most charming dream.
In order to pursue everything she had, she gave up her deep affection for Xiaobei, as well as her dignity and reputation as a girl. In order to find someone she likes in the entertainment industry, she does not hesitate to abandon everything, and even betrays the man who loves her the most. He tried all kinds of methods to try to frame Song Siming, but when Da Meng woke up, he realized that everything was in vain.
In the play, there are two small details to pay attention to: the first is that Seaweed has not seen Song Siming for a long time, and her ** has also been hung up, and she realizes that leaving the child is the most wrong choice. Therefore, she ran through the streets, trying to take the child away from there. She saw a little girl eating chestnuts, and she wanted to buy her some to eat. Eventually, when Becky is with a girl, Becky shares her favorite chestnuts with the girl.
Seaweed's eyes filled with tears.
Another small detail is that the seaweed has not spoken for three months after the miscarriage. That day, Haiping accompanied her out, and it rained heavily. Seaweed recalls the scene when she was with Xiaobei when it rained before, and couldn't help but smile and say, "It's so good!".
At this moment, Seaweed finally realized that she had lost that incomparably precious happiness before. She didn't know how she lost, she only knew that her whole life was tightly embraced by happiness. Sadly, she lost the happy time she spent with Becky. In her life, there was only him, alone. Regrets will always be with her throughout her life.
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Everyone aspires to live a good life. She is a girl and also has a boyfriend, and in her mind, her boyfriend is the man who can grow up with her. Seaweed does want to find a man who is both mature and wealthy. However, she forgot the fact that most of those who were mature and wealthy were middle-aged men.
It was their original partner who used their young years to shape this man who was as immature as Xiaobei, making him more mature and wise. It is their original match, under their guidance, who went from nothing to the end.
Song Siming, who is observed from the perspective of seaweed, can only be regarded as one of the many migrant workers without the existence of Mrs. Song. It was Mrs. Song who helped him complete the leap of social class.
If a man is able to stand in the position of his original partner, but betrays his original partner after becoming famous, then the moral character of such a person is questionable. He was a good woman, but he didn't get the happiness she wanted. Although he eventually chose Seaweed as his wife, their lives are still unsatisfactory if they do go down the path of marriage.
Seaweed is a young graduate from a well-known university, and if she can work wholeheartedly, then she and Becky will definitely have a bright future. So she worked very hard and lived hard. Sadly, she doesn't want to keep her feet on the ground, she prefers to look for shortcuts to get everything she desires.
Lu Yao once pointed out: "For young people, it is very important to have a correct view of their ideals and practical life. Even if the goal you pursue is reasonable, it cannot be achieved through improper means. Once you fall, it can bring more pain and may even ruin your entire life. ”
Everyone aspires to have a good life, but certain behaviors are taboo, such as not touching other people's cakes, destroying other people's homes, or harming others.
There are fundamental moral values and basic principles of life. In the face of unfairness and unexpected good fortune in life, we should maintain a positive attitude.
With a positive mindset, you will not lose confidence because of difficult situations, nor will you lose yourself because of unexpected good things.
Many years ago, I still remember the advertising slogan: be pure and flawless, and do things with integrity and integrity.
A person, as long as he has morality, abides by principles, and has a bottom line, he will not have a bad life. In this society, those who have a conscience and a conscience can face life in the most simple way. A person's true way of life should be true to one's heart and not be disturbed by emotions.
May each and every one of us become such an existence!