Just as Zhao Mingming was immersed in the joy of becoming a first-time mother, her husband Yingning suddenly dropped a bombshell. That day, Yingning said hesitantly: "Mingming, I'm sorry, let's get a divorce, I'm in love with someone else." This sentence was like a sharp knife, piercing directly into Zhao Mingming's heart.
Zhao Mingming's eyes widened, and he couldn't believe his ears. She looked down at her sleeping daughter in her arms and thought, how is this possible?I just gave birth to a child for Yingning, and they are still in confinement, how could they suddenly hear such news?
She tried to stabilize her emotions and asked Yingning rhetorically, "What did you just say?"Ying Ning repeated with guilt on her face: "I'm sorry, Mingming, I'm in love with someone else, let's divorce." ”
Zhao Mingming's tears couldn't stop flowing, and she choked up and asked, "How long have you been, you?"Ying Ning hesitated for a moment and replied, "It's been more than a year." Zhao Mingming wiped away his tears, hugged his daughter tightly, and said firmly: "Okay, I agree." ”
What kind of life story does she have?Let's find out.
From a small beauty to a big one, Zhao Mingming's "beautiful" life path.
In 1970, a warm little family in Shenyang City, Liaoning Province welcomed their youngest daughter - Zhao Mingming. His father is a rain of ink in the magazine, and his mother is an angel in white.
There are two sisters in the family, and Zhao Mingming is the youngest in the family and the most favored one. She is naturally beautiful and often becomes the focus of praise among neighbors.
Perhaps because he often heard the praise of "you are so beautiful", Zhao Mingming in elementary school had an inexplicable sense of superiority in his heart. In her opinion, those female classmates who are not as good as her are "ugly ducklings", and even sometimes make fun of and bully them.
Until one day, the bullied classmate cried and found Zhao's family and complained to her parents.
Zhao Mingming's father has always doted on his daughter, but this time he was really angry. He glared at Zhao Mingming and asked sternly, "Do you think that because you are beautiful, you can bully others casually?"”
Zhao Mingming held his head high, didn't seem to feel that he was wrong, and replied loudly: "Because I am beautiful." ”
The father took a deep breath and said earnestly: "The beauty of the appearance is temporary, but the beauty of the heart is eternal. If you bully others just because you are pretty, can others bully you when you meet someone who is more beautiful than you?Can you guarantee that you will always be the prettiest?”
These words made Zhao Mingming fall into deep thought, and for the first time she realized that appearance is not everything. She apologized to her classmates who were bullied in shame and promised to be friendly with every classmate in the future.
On the road to chasing dreams, Zhao Mingming's tenacity and perseverance.
Whenever the light and shadow in the TV reflect Gong Li's elegant figure, Zhao Mingming always stays in front of the TV, obsessively imitating every subtle movement and line of the idol.
For her, Gong Li is not only a star far away in the world, but also the embodiment of her love and yearning for performance in her heart.
The young Zhao Mingming has clear expectations for the future: she wants to shine in the spotlight and become a real actor.
When she mustered up the courage to express this idea to her father, he did not oppose it as she expected, but gave her the greatest support and encouragement.
But her father also reminded her that the road of being an actor is not easy, in addition to appearance, it also requires inner cultivation and diversified talents.
Zhao Mingming was well aware of her father's worries, but she was full of confidence in her choice. Since then, after school, she no longer frolicks with her peers, but devotes herself to learning dance and piano, rain or shine.
All these efforts are for the dream in my heart, in order to be able to stand on the stage and interpret life in my own way.
Time pays off. In 1988, 18-year-old Zhao Mingming was successfully admitted to the performance major of Jilin University of the Arts with her own efforts and persistence, which was one step closer to her dream.
After entering the university, Zhao Mingming has no shortage of suitors around him. In order to pursue her, some boys even invited her to dinner with her classmates in the dormitory to help create opportunities to meet.
But Zhao Mingming was never moved, because in her heart, there was already a person living in her-Yingning. For her, Yingning's existence is the driving force for her efforts and the direction in which she is moving forward.
A romantic encounter on campus.
Yingning, there are many leaders in the art world in his family, such as his grandfather was one of the founders of "Ta Kung Pao", and his father Ying Ruozhi was a graduate of the ** Academy of Fine Arts and taught at the Jilin Academy of Arts.
And his two cousins, Yingda and Yingzhuang, also have excellent performances in the field of art.
Growing up in such an environment, Yingning naturally became the favorite object of many girls on campus. He has received a lot of love letters and autumn waves.
But there is only one person in Yingning's heart, and that is Zhao Mingming. However, seeing so many boys around Zhao Mingming, Yingning felt a little inferior and didn't dare to express her emotions.
But love is always so wonderful. One day, Zhao Mingming took the initiative to find Yingning. After rehearsing the show, Zhao Mingming stopped Yingning and asked him for a favor.
Yingning naturally agreed, and then Zhao Mingming said the heartwarming words: "A lot of boys pursue me, but I don't like them, you." Can you block it for me?”
Ying Ning was stunned for a moment, then understood what Zhao Mingming meant, and he replied excitedly: "I understand, let me be your boyfriend."
I agree, but I'm going to be a real boyfriend. Zhao Mingming nodded shyly, and the relationship between the two began.
Despite the school's rules forbidding students from falling in love, Zhao Mingming and Ying Ning started their underground romance. Of course, this relationship was eventually discovered by the teacher.
But when teachers and parents asked them, they frankly admitted their romance and said they would get married after graduation. Parents and teachers are also very open-minded and do not interfere too much.
During college, Zhao Mingming also took over three film and television works: "Iron Man", "Love Rhyme" and "Iron Heroes". Although the audience's response was mediocre, it did not affect the relationship between her and Yingning. The two continue to be happily in love and look forward to a bright future.
How will this campus romance eventually develop?Can Zhao Mingming and Ying Ning go to the end?
A double highlight moment of love and career.
1992, for most people, may just be another ordinary year. But for Zhao Mingming, this year is like a bright starry sky, illuminating her future path.
When director Pan Xia was very troubled for the heroine of "A Woman Is Not the Moon", and none of the actresses interviewed were suitable, fate seemed to have arranged a role for Zhao Mingming.
A recommendation from a friend, a bright spot, and then a satisfaction with the audition – everything went so smoothly.
It's her, she's exactly the same as I imagined it to be. Director Pan Xia's words seem to have opened the door for Zhao Mingming's acting career.
And the appearance without makeup during the filming process highlights Zhao Mingming's natural beauty. Without the embellishment of cosmetics, she is so natural and moving in close-ups.
After the TV series was broadcast in ** one program, Zhao Mingming's name quickly spread all over the streets and alleys. At that time, she was like the brightest star in the night sky, everyone knew it, and no one knew it.
Some people even said that when the TV series was broadcast, people all over the country were watching the buckle, and even the dogs in the village stopped barking - what kind of popularity and influence is this!
In the same year, the love between Zhao Mingming and Yingning also ushered in a consummation. After graduating, they did not forget the oath they had made. On the sixth day after graduation, they walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau hand in hand and became a legal husband and wife.
There is no wedding house, no car, and no grand wedding, but they have the most sincere love and the strongest determination.
After marriage, Zhao Mingming and Yingning chose to develop in Beijing. For this loving couple, there is still a long way to go. But no matter what, they will walk hand in hand to face every challenge and opportunity in the future.
So, what kind of wind and rain and rainbow will they experience in Beijing?
The transformation from the years of the coal shed to the glory of the screen.
When they first arrived in Beijing, the coal shed was their first home, with no air on all sides, no glass and no water pipes – but none of this seemed to be able to resist the two burning hearts.
Yingning, the future film and television boss, was just Zhao Mingming's assistant and agent at the time, and he did his best to find every possible performance opportunity for her.
In 1993, Yingning and Yingda joined hands to prepare the TV series "I Love My Home". In this drama, Yingning and Yingda's wives - Zhao Mingming and Song Dandan - played important roles respectively.
Song Dandan is the eldest daughter-in-law of the Jia family, and Zhao Mingming is the beautiful college student Jia Xiaofan.
As soon as the TV series was broadcast, it immediately aroused a warm response from the audience. But as the saying goes, there are many people who are popular. Yingda had feelings with Liang Huan because of this drama, and finally filed for divorce from Song Dandan, ignoring his son Yingbatu.
Zhao Mingming, who was a bystander, was upset for Song Dandan, but she never expected that she would suffer the same fate a few years later.
Over time, the living conditions of Zhao Mingming and Yingning gradually improved. In 1994, they moved to a semi-basement near Donghua Gate, and although only half of it was on the ground, the two felt very warm.
A few months later, they moved again, this time in a building near Xizhimen, with a separate bathroom and kitchen, and life was getting better and better.
But the stage of life is always full of variables, how will Yingning's emotional changes affect their lives?And can Zhao Mingming continue to move forward in his acting career and create more brilliance?
Breakthroughs and challenges.
In the entertainment industry, there are many celebrity husband and wife, and Yingning and Zhao Mingming are one of them. They met in Weiwei, went through ups and downs together, and finally came together.
As time went on, their relationship grew. Today, let's walk into their lives together and learn about their growth process and love story.
One day in 1996, Zhao Mingming received a ** that changed her fate. At that time, she was studying the script with Yingning, and suddenly received an invitation from her to star in "Han Palace Feiyan".
Zhao Mingming was a little hesitant, because a director had told her before that she was only suitable for playing a woman from a good family, and she couldn't play a bad woman and comedy.
This made her full of unconfidence in whether she could play this role well. Seeing that his wife was so hesitant, Yingning encouraged her and said: "As an actor, you must break through the limitations and try all kinds of roles, so that you can make progress and have a wide acting path."
I'm optimistic about you, you're the best. Hearing her husband's encouragement, Zhao Mingming decided to try bravely.
* became a big challenge for her. In order to conform to the character image, Zhao Mingming must be quick in a short period of time.
Every day, she spends her days starving and dealing with a lot of dancing shots. On several occasions, she almost fainted on set. However, she did not give up, but gritted her teeth and persevered.
In the end, "Han Palace Feiyan" became a huge hit as soon as it was broadcast, and the audience praised Zhao Mingming as "the most beautiful Zhao Feiyan" and praised her as the first beauty in ancient costumes.
The hardships behind success are only known to Zhao Mingming himself. She once said that she didn't like the character because the feeling of being hungry and not being able to eat was so painful.
Moreover, as her fame rises, her work is getting busier and busier, and the husband and wife get together less and leave more. Even on such an important festival as the Spring Festival, Zhao Mingming could not accompany Yingning.
This separation and hectic life led to estrangement and quarrels between the two. Yingning was dissatisfied because she was caricatured as a little white face who ate soft rice, and Zhao Mingming was also too busy to take care of her family.
They didn't let this contradiction continue. Zhao Mingming realized the problem and began to consciously change himself.
She tries to spend time with her husband and spend more time together. And, because of their age, they decided to have a child to strengthen the family bonds.
After a period of hard work and adjustment, the relationship between the two gradually returned to the harmony and happiness of the past.
The transformation from a screen goddess to a single mother.
Zhao Mingming, in the 90s of the last century, her name was closely associated with many film and television works, and she became the goddess in the hearts of countless audiences. But life is like a play, and drama is like life, and Zhao Mingming's life has also experienced many twists and turns.
In 1998, when Zhao Mingming was immersed in the joy of pregnancy, her husband Yingning did not show the same excitement. On the contrary, his brow is furrowed, as if to foreshadow the coming storm.
At that time, Zhao Mingming didn't speculate too much, she thought it was just Yingning's momentary mood. But as time went on, Yingning spent more and more time out, and there was less and less communication between the two.
The birth of her daughter was supposed to be a happy moment for a family, but it brought Yingning's desperate departure. At that moment, Zhao Mingming's world seemed to collapse.
She couldn't believe that the person she once loved would treat her so cruelly. But the truth is cruel, Yingning's heart is no longer in Zhao Mingming. A few days later, Zhao Mingming signed the divorce agreement, and since then he has drawn a line with Yingning.
After divorcing Yingning, Zhao Mingming completely withdrew from the film and television industry. She chose to raise her daughter alone and has not remarried.
For the sake of her daughter's growth, she never mentioned Yingning's faults, nor did she prevent father and daughter from seeing each other. With her efforts, her daughter has grown into a lively, lovely, sunny and cheerful child.
At the same time, Yingda's ex-wife Song Dandan lives a completely different life from Zhao Mingming. Soon after divorcing Yingda, Song Dandan got married to her current husband in a flash and was spoiled like a little princess.
Her acting career has also been smooth sailing and she has become the focus of the circle. Although the two have been married for many years, they are still in love, and they still interlock their fingers and kiss me when they walk.
The years are ruthless, and Zhao Mingming, who is now 52 years old, has long lost his former demeanor. Because she has been out of the entertainment industry for too long, many young people don't know her anymore.
In 2016, when the crew of "I Love My Home" reunited, even Yang Lixin didn't recognize who she was. It can be said that except for Zhao Mingming, the other actors of "I Love My Home" are all popular.
But Zhao Mingming doesn't care about these fame and fortune, she just wants to live her life well. She said: "Fame and fortune are not the goal I pursue, love life, and live happily is my belief in life." ”
Some people think she is stupid, but she doesn't care about the evaluation of the outside world, she only adheres to her own principles: "Self-interested, but not harmful." ”