The Truth About the Chips Behind Human Nature:
Don't say that others are loyal or not, there is no absolute loyalty in this world, to say something not very good, when there is no light around you, even your shadow betrays you, loyalty depends on the chips, you have enough chips, others are more inclined to you when they choose.
Previously, an original wife confided in Scarlett, saying that she had never thought about her husband cheating.
Her husband is a good man in the eyes of everyone and is very good to her and the children.
I usually go out to report, go home from drinking with friends and pack food for her and the children back, don't play games or watch TV when I get home from work, help her do housework, and take care of the children.
When she was sick and hospitalized, her husband grabbed her hand by the bed and cried bitterly, taking care of her personally, he was such a good man, he had cheated for more than three years, and he had been hiding it well.
It's because the mistress is pregnant, and the cheating man takes the mistress to the prenatal checkup, and goes to a hospital far away from the original partner's home, but it still happens to be seen by the original partner's relatives.
That's it, when the relatives and the original partner talked, they didn't say that your husband went to the hospital with another woman, but asked the original partner if her husband's sister was sick and watched him take him to the hospital.
I didn't guess that the man might be cheating, but I guessed in a good direction, which shows how good this man's usual image is.
So why can't this wife find out about the other half's extramarital affair for a long time?
It's not that the wife is too sluggish, or other factors, but that the cheating man is disguised too well, and the wives trust the cheating man enough.
I think this man is a good man, a man who really loves his wife and family, so the cheating man occasionally comes home late, saying that he went to drink with friends, and brings milk tea barbecue to his wife.
After the cheating man comes home, will his wife suspect that he is looking for a mistress?
The wife will definitely not doubt it, and will think that her husband is really good, and he will not forget his wife and children when he cheats and drinks.
If the cheating man and his wife say, I have to go on a business trip for a few days recently.
Then he and his wife reported that they went to ** on time, and came back to buy gifts for their wives.
Will the wife suspect that the man is going out to play with the mistress, or going to the mistress's house for a few days?
The wife may also care about the cheating man, whether the work is hard, whether he is tired outside, etc.
This kind of cheating man is actually the most terrible, they don't love their wives, but they can perform.
To be able to make his wife, and everyone around him who knows him, think that he is a good man.
Even if he is bumped into, no one will suspect that he is cheating, so this original partner can know by chance, because they all think that the cheating man is just a bright help.
What should wives do with an extramarital affair like this?
First of all, go and collect evidence of the cheating man's cheating
Because the cheating man did not find out that his wife suspected him, then the wife has an advantage in collecting evidence, the mistress is pregnant, the cheating man wants to buy some things for the mistress, and there is nothing in the chat records, and the wives can check some shopping records.
If a cheating man buys some maternity products for the mistress, or buys baby products for the illegitimate child.
These are not only evidence for the wife, but also from the delivery address and information to find the mistress.
Then while the cheating man said that he was working overtime and going out to drink, his wife went to that address in advance to wait, and photographed the cheating man and the mistress going in and out together, these are all evidence.
Secondly, wives need to know the weakness of cheating men.
This man cheats and doesn't forget to be good to his wife and children.
Not only to conceal the extramarital affair, but also for the praise of others for him, but also to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife, the wife found out about the extramarital affair, and it is not easy to divorce.
There must be something good that cheating men will do.
The purpose of a cheating man is actually the weakness of a cheating man.
The cheating man is afraid that his wife will find out, he is afraid that his wife will divorce, and the cheating man is also worried that others will know about it, and his reputation as a good man will be ruined.
The wife should grasp these two points to attack the weakness of the cheating man and achieve your goal.
Finally, the wife should solve it as soon as possible, especially if she does not want to divorce.
If the wife doesn't want to divorce, then she must first solve the matter of the mistress's pregnancy.
The mobile phone has good evidence, and after making a decision, it is necessary to solve it as soon as possible, first to test the attitude of the cheating man, if he is really afraid of divorce, afraid of being his wife**.
used cheating men to force the little third rate to get rid of the child, and then solve the extramarital affair.
If the cheating man is not afraid, the wife will go to the mistress to show affection, the pregnant mistress is prone to fluctuations, let the mistress go to trouble with the cheating man, and the cheating man will finally weigh the pros and cons, and there is a high probability that he will choose to break up with the mistress.
At the end of the article, Scarlett advises all the wives who have been cheated on that once a man cheats, you should not have too many illusions about him, no matter how good he usually is to you, he does not really love you.
People who really love you will not let you get hurt or hurt you by cheating.
I won't go behind your back and entangle with Xiao San for three years, and I have a child with Xiao San, so be sober, he doesn't love you, and you can only solve the extramarital affair if you don't talk about your feelings and be ruthless.
If you have any emotional confusion or marital problems, you can pay attention to Scarlett and chat about the specific situation in private messages.
I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.