In 2021At this time, the only wish of the two elderly people who were already suffering from cancer was to meet their daughter, who had been abroad for more than 20 years and had no contact.
As early as 2000, the old couple in order to support their daughter's dream,took out all the family's savings to send her daughter to study abroad, but what she didn't expect was that her daughter never came back
So why hasn't their daughter Cao Qian been in contact with her parents for so many years?
Cao Qian was born in 1979 in a village in Dalian, Liaoning Province, where her parents were land-facing farmers with a low level of education.
The safety of mother and child is undoubtedly a very happy thing for ordinary parentsBut for Cao Qian's parents, this is not a happy thing.
Because in those days,The patriarchal mentality is more serious, if there is no son in the family, then it is inferior in the villageCao Qian's parents could not have another child after the examination, and they had to accept this fact.
The old couple had very complicated feelings about this daughterOn the one hand, this is his own biological child after allOn the other hand, Cao Qian is not the son they have in mind, but a girl.
It is also for this reason,Cao Qian has been morbidly controlled by her parents since she was a child, her parents want her to get ahead, so that the people in the village will look up to their old couple, which can be regarded as compensation for them.
When Cao Qian was a child, she didn't have a childhood, and other children were playingCao Xi can only do her homework at home, and if her test scores do not meet her parents' expectations, she will be scolded by her parents.
Her parents often said to Cao Qian, "If a girl is no longer promising, the whole family will be laughed at", and the young Cao Qian didn't understand why she couldn't go out to play like other children.
Under the long-term control of her parents, Cao Qian has become more and more well-behaved, became a good child in the eyes of others, with good academic performance, and listened to his parents very much, only, hersThe personality has also become more and more introverted.
Cao Qian's words became less and she was reluctant to communicate with her parents anymore, will not quarrel with them, like a robot every day, eating, studying and sleeping at three o'clock, and her parents have not noticed Cao Qian's psychological changes at the moment.
At that time, Cao Qian's parents thought that it would be good to raise her, not to mention that the parents' education level was not high and they could not communicate with their childrenIn the end, Cao Qian couldn't hold back the outburst because of one thing.
After Cao Qian graduated from high school, she counted her scores and could go to a university far away from home, which was the only thing she was happy aboutBecause it is finally possible to get rid of the control of parents, but she didn't dare to tell her parents about it.
Cao Qian has imagined the happy time when she left her parents to go to collegeBut things didn't go the way she expectedThis time, the parents' approach also laid the groundwork for a series of things to happen later.
Cao Qian was overjoyed to receive her acceptance letter, as were her parentsThis admission letter represents freedom in Cao Qian's eyes and their face in the eyes of her parents.
However, something happened that made Cao Qian collapse, and after she returned to the room, she carefully tore open the envelope and took out the noticeonly to find out that it was the admission letter of Liaoning Normal University that he did not fill in.
At first, she thought she was dazzled, but after checking again, it was indeed Liaoning Normal University, and she reactedIt was her parents who changed her wishes, Cao Qian ran out and asked her parents: "Why do you want to modify my will?".Why should I change my wishes?”
Seeing this, Cao Qian's parents scolded their daughter: "You are a girl, we can't change our volunteers, we can still take care of you if you are close to home, run so far, who will help you if something happens!."”，Cao Qian completely collapsed at this moment.
She returned to her room, knowing that this could not be changed, didn't sleep all night, she stared at the acceptance letter,At this moment, the resentment towards his parents is at its peak, she vowed to get rid of her parents.
When Cao Qian was in college,It was 2000 when she learned about studying abroad at schoolShe thinks that if she can go abroad, she can completely get rid of the control of her parents, and since then Cao Qian has a goal.
She began to study hard, and eventually a school in Germany sent her a notice, and Cao Qian thought that she could finally get rid of her parents' controlHowever, the tuition, travel expenses, and living expenses of going abroad are all a lot of expenses.
Cao Qian had no choice but to ask her parents for help, and under her persuasion, she tried every possible means to persuade herThe parents scraped together 70,000 yuan for herYou know, that was in 2000, and 70,000 yuan was not a small amount.
Daily consumption in Germany is much higher than at homeAfter paying the tuition fee and other necessary expenses, there is not much money left, she saves money every day, but she still can't last longI can only call ** to ask my parents for help.
The parents learned that Cao Qian was here to ask for money, her parents have been farmers all her life, how do they know Cao Qian's situation abroadis a scolding to Cao Qian, Then, Cao Qian hung up ** and never contacted her parents again.
After a long time, the parents did not receive contact from their daughter, and they called ** to their daughter, and the number displayed was also empty, and the old couple was also very helplessI don't know what happened to my daughter, and I don't know how to find Cao Qian.
In order for Cao Qian to study abroad,They owe a lot of foreign debts, and they work hard to repay them during the day, and at night they can only silently hold tears when they think of their daughterAs the days passed, the old couple slowly paid off their foreign debts.
But a big joke was made on the old coupleThey were diagnosed with cancer one after anotherBut he had no savings left to heal his illness, can only rely on the monthly subsistence allowance to survive.
After the situation of Cao Qian and her parents spread on the Internet, with the help of netizens,The old couple learned that Cao Qian is now married in Germany, is a university professor, and has two children, and her life is very good.
But no one knows that behind Cao Qian's beautiful family, she abandoned her parents in China, and many netizens informed Cao Qian of her parents' situationCao Qian said that she did not want to have any contact with them, let alone meet them.
In the end, in 2021, Cao Qian's parents passed away one after another, and they still couldn't see their daughter in the end.
The old couple has worked hard all their lives to provide for their daughter to go to school, and the daughter also lacks communication with her parents, and it is not easy for both parties to go abroad alone.