At the age of 29, he bought luxury goods with his girlfriend and spent 230,000, her husband wanted to divorce, and her mother-in-law paid 100,000
Zhang Wei, 29, is taking care of two lively children at home.
Her husband, Su Ting, 30, is a manager in the sales department of a company with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan.
The couple has a lovely pair of children, a 5-year-old son and a 3-year-old daughter. Last year, they paid off their mortgage and owned a house of their own.
Every afternoon, Zhang Wei personally picks up the children and watches them run and play on the road, and her heart is full of happiness.
Back home, Zhang Wei began to prepare dinner. However, she was in a heavy mood, and there was one thing she had never told Su Ting, fearing that one day the matter would be revealed, and he would blame her.
After examining the ingredients in the refrigerator, she made her son's favorite sour and spicy shredded potatoes, her daughter's favorite scrambled eggs with tomatoes, and prepared a portion of lettuce and rice.
After Su Ting returned home, the family sat down for dinner. He frowned and said, "Wei Wei, why are they all vegetarians lately, and I haven't eaten meat at home for a few days." ”
Zhang Wei smiled and said: "Now the weather is cold, the house is hot, and people are prone to fire, so you need to eat something light." ”
Su Ting responded: "That's true, but the children are small, so they still need to eat more nutritious." ”
That night, when she was cooking, Su Ting hurriedly went out, holding a card in her hand to save money, and told Zhang Wei: "Weiwei, my dad is sick, I have to go to the hospital, you take good care of the child at home." ”
Before Zhang Wei could respond, he had already left in a hurry, leaving her stunned in the kitchen. She wiped her hands and walked to the living room, biting her lip and pinching her chin with one hand, pacing anxiously around the room.
The phone rang, and she was a little afraid to answer, but she answered it anyway. Su Ting said anxiously: "Weiwei, what about the money in the card, why is there no money, have you saved the money in another card?"My dad needed money to be hospitalized. ”
She whispered: "Honey, I lent my family's money to a friend, and there was something wrong with her family, and I felt that the family's money could not be used for the time being, so I lent it to her first." ”
Su Ting rubbed his temples and said with some irritation, "Wei Wei, why didn't you tell me about such an important matter?"What now?You quickly contact your friend and ask her to pay us back as soon as possible. ”
After hanging up**, Su Ting went to the doctor to understand the situation, knowing that his father was fine, and he only needed to stay in the hospital for a few days, so he was a little relieved.
I thought that I would be paid in a few days, and as long as I didn't need surgery, I should be able to pay for it when I was discharged.
Dad was pale and hot, and Mom kept wiping him with a towel.
Su Ting walked to the front and said, "Mom, you go home and rest, I'll take care of Dad at night, and you will come over tomorrow morning to change shifts." ”
Mom stood up straight and said, "Tingting, let's let Mom come, you have to go to work tomorrow, and your body will be unbearable." ”
Su Ting took the towel from her mother's hand and said, "Mom, don't insist on it, hurry up and go home and take a hot shower and rest for the night." If Dad's condition improves, it's not too late for you to take care of him. ”
After his mother left, he wiped his father's body to cool down according to the advice of **, and paid attention to the dripping situation. I was busy until about ten o'clock in the evening, only to find that I was so hungry that I didn't eat dinner.
He went out and found a porridge shop and bought some vegetarian buns and two servings of porridge.
Dad's body temperature had dropped, and he was more energetic, so he set up a small dining table and let Dad drink some porridge and eat a bun.
Dad said: "Tingting, I'm causing you trouble again, alas, it's all because I'm not in good health, I can't do housework, and I have to let your mother worry about it, I really can't help." ”
He took a bite of the bun, and was surprised to find that it tasted quite good, and said, "Dad, eat it quickly." Eating a meal helps to recover physical strength and is also good for **. This bun and porridge are delicious. ”
When my father was young, he worked in a coal mine, and his long hours of physical labor led to many illnesses, but now he is getting older, his physique is very weak, and he is often prone to illness.
Normally, the illness is not serious, and it is enough to take medicine for a few days or hang a drip in the village for a few days**, unlike this time when you are sick and unconscious.
He felt sorry for his parents and considered letting them move to the city to live together, but they were reluctant and worried about causing him trouble.
Su Ting said: "Dad, don't go back after you are discharged from the hospital this time." It's easy to see a doctor in the city, and now that both children are in kindergarten, Wei Wei can also help take care of you. ”
Dad shook his head and said, "No need, your mother and I are fine in the village." You can raise chickens and feed pigs, and the yard at home is so big, it is much more comfortable than living in a building. ”
Su Ting was a little helpless, although their family was in the countryside, they belonged to the suburbs of the town, the environment was beautiful, and the yard was very tidy, no wonder his parents were reluctant to leave.
After staying in the hospital for a week, Wei Wei and her mother took care of her in the hospital during the day, and it was Su Ting's turn at night, and finally her father's health improved and he could be discharged home.
Su Ting went to deal with the discharge procedures, but fortunately, he reimbursed most of the expenses, only paid 8,000 yuan, and the rest was enough for the family, which made him breathe a sigh of relief.
He plans to let his parents rest at home for a few days, and when the children are on vacation, he will take leave to drive them back to the village and stay at home for a few more days.
Su Ting was at work when he received a strange **, and after looking at it for a while, he realized that he didn't know him, and he wanted to hang up, but he still connected it out of curiosity.
A woman asked calmly, "Are you Mr. Su Ting?"Do you know Ms. Zhang Wei?”
He replied strangely, "She is my wife, who are you?"What is the matter with me?”
A woman said calmly: "Here's the thing, your wife borrowed 80,000 yuan on our platform, but this month's repayment has not been carried out, and she has not been able to contact her. I wonder what's going on?Can you reach her?”
Su Ting felt a little stunned and said, "This is impossible, are you mistaken?."”
The woman said firmly: "There is absolutely no mistake, we have a loan contract here." You'd better contact her as soon as possible, as not paying the loan may have some adverse effects on her. ”
Su Ting sent her email address to the woman and asked her to send the loan contract. When he saw the contract with his own eyes, his anger caused him to punch him the table.
He never expected that Zhang Wei would borrow so much money at home. At the same time, he recalled the 150,000 yuan in the original card, and it seemed that it was not borrowed by others at all, but she spent it. He wondered what she had done.
Suddenly, he remembered that Zhang Wei suddenly had a lot of luxury goods in the past six months. Usually when he goes to work, she often gets together with her girlfriends, and she says that those bags and clothes are all given by her girlfriends, are they all lies?
Su Ting was trembling with anger, he worked hard outside, and finally paid off the house payment and saved 150,000 yuan. Now that she has spent it all and borrowed 80,000 yuan, how should she live?
He drove home and found that his parents were not in the living room, and asked coldly: "Zhang Wei, is there anything you are hiding from me?"”
Zhang Wei bit her lip and said, "Su Ting, what do you mean by this?"I didn't do anything, what's wrong with you?”
Su Ting walked straight into the bedroom, took out the bag, coat and jewelry she bought from the closet, and asked, "Are these ** from?."You'd better be able to explain it clearly. ”
He rummaged through the bedside table again and found several payment slips, and a meal cost more than 4,000 yuan. He closed his eyes in pain, and couldn't help but raise his hand and slap himself twice.
He is in sales and has seen all kinds of things, how can he easily believe her words?Who would give her so many expensive luxuries?Alas, he was so naïve.
Zhang Wei looked at the items scattered on the bed, and his face instantly turned pale. She realized that he already knew, but how did he know?Who exactly told him?
Her lips trembled slightly and said, "Su Ting, listen to my explanation, these are all given to me by Ling Ling. She's my college classmate, you know her, she's married to a big boss, and those things don't matter to her. ”
Su Ting said with red eyes: "Zhang Wei, it's come to this point, you still don't want to tell the truth." Do you think you can act as if nothing happened without admitting it?Even the platform for borrowing money called me **. ”
Zhang Wei's face really changed when he heard this, and he muttered in his mouth: "Impossible, it may just be two days late, how could they say that?"It's too much. ”
She hurriedly said again: "Su Ting, you must believe me, what they said is not true, it is definitely a fraud." Don't be fooled by them. ”
Yes, it must be a scam**, husband, don't be fooled, husband, you have to believe me.
Su Ting couldn't bear it any longer, stood up and slapped her twice, and said, "Zhang Wei, your loan contract has been sent to me, and you are still quibbling here?"Do you think I'm really a fool?”
He took a deep breath and said, "Zhang Wei, this kind of life can't go on, let's divorce." ”
Zhang Wei was frightened, shook his head frantically and said, "No, I can't get a divorce, I don't want a divorce." ”
Husband, I was wrong, I really know I was wrong, please forgive me this time for the sake of the two children. ”
Su Ting shook her off and walked to the living room and kept rubbing his forehead, he really felt that he was about to be angry.
Zhang Wei was still in the bedroom, and when she reacted, she hurried to the living room, grabbed his hand, and said, "Su Ting, please, give me a chance." I'm going to look for a job tomorrow and I'm going to work hard to earn money to pay off my debts. ”
Husband, we can't get a divorce, my parents are old, and they definitely can't accept it. Not to mention that we have two children. ”
Mom helped Dad out and asked anxiously, "Tingting, what's wrong with you?"Are you bullying Wei Wei again? ”
Tingting, I want to be fair, although Wei Wei doesn't go to work, she has to pick up and drop off her two children, buy groceries, cook, wash clothes and clean, and she is very tired. You have to be more considerate of her and bring more children when you go home at night. ”
Su Ting said bitterly: "Mom, I don't know what's going on. Today, I learned that in half a year, she spent all the 150,000 yuan saved by her family and borrowed 80,000 yuan online. I didn't pay back the money this month, and I didn't know until the platform called ** to me. ”
Mom looked at Zhang Wei in disbelief and said, "Wei Wei, is what Tingting said true?"Is there something going on in your family?No matter what happens to you, you should discuss with each other, otherwise how will you live this day?Do you say?”
Zhang Wei lowered his head, not knowing how to answer. At this time, she also regretted it, but it had already happened, and she didn't know what to do.
Su Ting sneered and said, "Mom, you're wrong. She didn't spend a penny on her family at all, but invited people to dinner, bought high-end bags, expensive clothes, and jewelry. ”
Mom, it's all my fault. If I were a big boss, she would be perfectly fine with spending it like this. But I'm just a part-time worker, and I can't afford her to spend so much. ”
Haha, Zhang Wei, I'll help you realize your dream, let's get a divorce. You can be like your best friend, find a big boss, and spend as much as you want in the future.
Zhang Wei cried and said, "Su Ting, I really know it's wrong. I'm going to go out and look for a job, you know I'm very professional, I'm sure I'll be able to pay it off quickly. ”
Su Ting said coldly: "No need, I really don't dare to live with you anymore." Wei Wei, I'm just an ordinary person, I really can't satisfy you. ”
Mom also said bitterly: "Weiwei, you can tell your mother well, what's going on?".I don't think you're such an ignorant person. ”
Zhang Wei squatted beside her mother, took her hand, and said, "Mom, I was really wrong. At that time, I didn't know what was wrong, seeing that they could spend as much money as they wanted every day, I felt very aggrieved for a while, and then I followed them and couldn't control myself. ”
Mom, my best friend Ling Ling came back half a year ago. Her husband used to develop in Shenzhen, earned a lot of money, and built a factory here after returning. ”
She contacted me as soon as she came back and brought me a very expensive bag, which I heard was worth at least 50,000 yuan. ”
At that time, I was both surprised and delighted, and I felt that the gift was too expensive to accept it. I said to Ling Ling, 'Ling Ling, thank you, but this bag is too expensive, I can't accept it. Besides, I'm a housewife, and I don't have a chance to carry such an expensive bag, so it's a waste to give it to me. ”
Haha, Ling Ling, I'm not like you, I only do hair maintenance every day, and I'm responsible for being as beautiful as a flower. I have to take care of the kids, cook and do the housework, I'm very busy. ”
Ling Ling put the bag in my hand and said, 'Wei Wei, you can't think like that. Although you are a little tired now, you think about how carefree you were in college. ”
Wei Wei, it's just a bag, there's no need to be so careful. Let me tell you, every day when you send your child to kindergarten and carry this bag on your back, others will look at you differently.
Over the years, I have seen a lot, and I am particular about what car I drive, what clothes I wear, and what bag I carry. You, don't take it seriously, even if you are a housewife, you have to dress up every day.
Mom, I was a little ashamed at the time, looking at my gray clothes and stained shoes, I felt that I was far from her.
That day she invited me to a seafood feast, lobster, hairy crab, sea cucumber, each dish is particularly delicate and tastes very good. It was like a good dream for me.
When I got home at night, I carried that bag in front of the mirror and admired it, and I felt that carrying it on my back made the whole person different.
A few days later, Ling Ling asked me to do beauty together, she looked at the clothes I was wearing, frowned and said, "Wei Wei, do you want to buy a set of clothes, the place we went to today is a bit formal, and everyone is dressed exquisitely, I'm afraid you will feel uncomfortable." ”
Mom, what can I do?He had already come out, and he was embarrassed to refuse, so he could only smile and say, "Okay, Ling Ling, you can take me to buy a set of clothes." You're right, when I pick up and drop off my children, I wear beautiful clothes, and other parents can look up to me, which just matches the bag you sent. ”
Ling Ling took me to a store she frequented, where clothes were expensive. I was so nervous that I didn't dare try it on.
But Ling Ling kept picking out clothes for me and urging me to go to the fitting room. In the end, I chose the cheapest skirt set, which also cost 12,000.
Mom, I know I shouldn't be like this, but Ling Ling said, "Wei Wei, you were the flower of our department when you were in college. At that time, how many male classmates liked you, and you lived a radiant life all day long, which was completely different from now. ”
Feeling embarrassed, I ended up gritting my teeth and buying the outfit, even though the money was painfully spent. When I arrived at the high-end club she had made an appointment, I was glad that I didn't hesitate at that time.
The people there were all dressed very tastefully, and mine was considered the worst. Fortunately, there was no rudeness.
I did a facial care with Ling Ling and had a good massage. When I left the store, I felt refreshed and felt very comfortable.
I thought that I couldn't always let Ling Ling take advantage, so I proposed to invite her to dinner, but she had something to do that day, so I had to go home.
I have always been anxious about Ling Ling's future dates, and she said that she would introduce a few friends to me. I was afraid that they would look down on me.
After thinking about it for a few days, I decided to take the card from the family deposit and go out to buy myself two more sets of clothes.
After dropping my kids off at school, I put on my newly bought clothes at home. I thought it was very beautiful to look at, but I frowned. Because the clothes I bought this time didn't match the previous bag at all, and the shoes on my feet were not of the same grade.
I had to go out again to buy two bags and two pairs of shoes.
When I got my clothes, shoes and bag together, I felt relieved, but at the same time worried. In such a short period of time, I have already spent almost 50 thousand, which is an unimaginable number for me.
However, when Ling Ling invited me to tea, I was wearing my newly bought clothes and carrying my newly bought bag, and my whole body was radiant.
Ling Ling brought two friends with her, and when she saw me, she smiled and said, "Ling Ling, you should wear it like this, it's really beautiful today." ”
We had a great chat together and went to dinner together in the afternoon. Ling Ling saw that I was sincere and took us to a private restaurant. I asked them to order what they liked, and finally Ling Ling ordered a bottle of red wine, which I didn't pay much attention to at the time.
It was very pleasant to eat, we women were drinking and chatting, and with them, I felt different about myself and suddenly I had confidence.
However, when I checked out, I found out that the meal actually cost 4,650 yuan, and I was stunned and asked the waiter if he had miscalculated.
Ling Ling walked over and said, "Wei Wei, I'm sorry, I patronize it when I order wine, I didn't pay attention to **, I'll invite this meal." ”
At that time, how could I ask Ling Ling to pay, and hurriedly swiped the card.
After that, Ling Ling often asked me out and had an occasional meal, which cost at least about 2,000 per meal. Although it was very expensive, I felt that I especially enjoyed being with them, which made me feel that life should be lived like this, otherwise there would be no meaning.
Once we went to a leisure tea garden, Ling Ling whispered to me: "Wei Wei, why are you wearing a gold necklace today, who of us wear this kind of jewelry, you should take it off quickly, it doesn't match your clothes at all." ”
Wei Wei, Jingjing is very particular about this aspect, you see that she is cold to you. Hey, why didn't you ask me in advance. Forget it, let's pick it up quickly. ”
I was so embarrassed that I quickly took off my gold necklace and put it in my bag. Seeing Jingjing glancing at me, I felt very uncomfortable.
That day, I was uneasy, and Jingjing suddenly said, "Weiwei, I think you have a good personality." Maybe you have too many children to study these things. I'll take you to buy some jewelry in a moment. ”
I could only smile and nod, so a large group of us walked into a jewelry store and I bought a few bracelets, necklaces, and rings to match with different clothes.
Mom, with them like this, I started to have jewelry, and in order to match clothes, I bought clothes, and in order to match clothes, I had to buy new shoes, and I fell into a vicious circle.
Mom, I'm sorry I didn't control myself. Later, I spent more and more, and eventually I spent all my savings. I had no choice but to borrow money from the Internet little by little, and ended up borrowing a total of 80,000 yuan.
Zhang Wei kept crying, sobbing and said, "Mom, I don't have anything to do with them anymore, I really know it's wrong." ”
She cried so much that her voice was choked, and Chen Ting looked out the window silently, he really didn't want to spend the rest of his life with her.
Mom sighed and said, "Weiwei, why are you so stupid, how much ability you have to live a good life." Tingting is right, you are just ordinary people, it is enough to buy some luxury goods occasionally, how can you borrow money. ”
Su Ting: Mom, don't say it again, she's crazy, I'm going to divorce her, she wants to live a luxurious life, then let her go.
Mother: Alas, Tingting, don't be impulsive, you have to think about the two children, they are too young to live without their mother.
Dad suddenly said, "Su Ting, Zhang Wei, you all go back and rest, you should think about this matter." ”
Su Ting went straight back to the bedroom, he was really disappointed, he didn't expect such a thing to happen, which made him unacceptable for a while.
Zhang Wei felt desperate, she was really afraid of divorce, she and Su Ting were college classmates, the two had a deep relationship, they also had two lovely children, she was really reluctant to give up this marriage.
The next day, after Zhang Wei sent her two children to kindergarten, she began to look for work. Although she graduated from a bachelor's degree, she didn't know what kind of job to look for because her children had not worked for many years.
But considering her own debt problem, she must work hard to make money, otherwise how will she face her children and Su Ting.
Walking aimlessly on the street, Zhang Wei felt very lost. Seeing that a coffee shop was hiring, she hesitated for a moment and finally walked in. To become a waiter, the monthly salary is only 4,000 yuan.
When she got home, she said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, I have found a job and I have to go to work every day, so you and Dad don't go home, help me pick up the children." ”
The mother-in-law hesitated a little and said, "Weiwei, you are a college student, and it would be too bad for you to be a waiter, so let's consider finding a formal job slowly." ”
Zhang Wei responded: "Mom, it's okay, I will work and study at the same time." Since I was a child, I have dreamed of becoming a teacher, and I intend to try to get into the establishment. ”
That night, when Su Ting went home and learned that she was going to work as a waiter, she was also stunned.
Mom handed Zhang Wei a card and said, "Weiwei, this is what my father and I deposited, there is 100,000 yuan in it, you should repay the borrowed money first." I checked it and the interest rate for borrowing money online is very high. ”
Zhang Wei felt a little moved: "Mom, no, I already plan to sell those things, and I can recover most of the money, which is enough to pay off the debt." ”
Mom said, "Wei Wei, take it, don't sell what you like, second-hand things are not worth much." ”
Su Ting sighed: "Zhang Wei, my mother gave it to you, so you can repay the loan." Keep those things if you think they're worth keeping, and sell them if you don't need them in the future. ”
Weiwei, I forgive you this time, and I hope there won't be another time. Don't do the job of a waiter, since you want to take the teacher exam, study hard at home. ”
Zhang Wei shook his head: "No, my parents are at home, they can help me pick up and drop off the children, and I have no problem studying while working." ”
Most of those luxury goods will be sold, and I won't need them in the future, I just want to live a down-to-earth life. ”
Su Ting sighed: "Wei Wei, I am also responsible for this matter, I didn't even inquire deeply, it was my negligence." I'm sorry. ”
Let's work together in the future to live a good life. ”
Final Statement:
Zhang Wei made the mistake of blindly following her girlfriend to buy luxury goods, without taking into account her family situation, and almost destroyed the happy family.
She is lucky, there is a good mother-in-law who is willing to help her, so that after she sincerely repents, her husband and in-laws choose to forgive her, and everyone works together to make money and live a down-to-earth life.
Zhang Wei is lucky, what do you think?Feel free to leave your comments.