Students from ordinary families want to change their class status, the most important.
First, the most feasible way is to study hard. However, it seems that it is becoming more and more difficult to break through the cold door nowadays, especially for rural children who want to get out of the mountains and get into prestigious schools. This is because students who grow up in different educational environments and educational resources have different starting lines.
Some students have worked hard all their lives, but in the end they can only stand on the starting line of some second-generation officials or rich second-generation. For ordinary children from poor families, if they want to obtain better educational resources and change their future, reading may be the only way out. Although it is difficult for poor students to access better educational resources, there are also many students who have been admitted to top universities with their own efforts. There are a total of 39 985 engineering universities in China, and if students can be admitted to one of them, their employment prospects after graduation will also be better. If you can be admitted to Tsinghua University, it is undoubtedly a symbol of a bright future.
However, this is often not the case. Although ordinary students are admitted to Tsinghua University, they may find that they are almost in a situation of being "hanged" compared with those students with good family conditions. The once proud results seem to be insignificant after entering Tsinghua University, and the school is full of champions from various provinces. In addition to losing the advantage in grades, they will also find more material gaps. Really outstanding students not only have a strong family background and have the identity of the second generation of officials, but also have excellent academic Xi and academic performance, and in addition to academics, other aspects of the specialty are also excellent. Because they can easily enjoy the treatment of high-quality resources, whether it is future employment or study abroad, they can easily get places. They don't even need to bother planning their lives, because the future route has already been laid out for them, just follow the path that their parents have planned for them. Even if they have objections, families will be more supportive. This situation is beyond the reach of many ordinary students, and it also makes them feel powerless. A sentence from an ordinary student lifted the fig leaf of an ordinary family: "No matter how hard you work, you can't compare to the school valve." ”
Students who have been admitted from ordinary families will inevitably have some insight into their own situation after entering universities with better development prospects. Therefore, a girl from an ordinary family shared her feelings after being admitted to Peking University. The biggest gap for her is not the material aspect, but the academic powerlessness. While she finally saw the prosperity of the world, she also saw her own insignificance and the unevenness of the world. She tried to apply for a research group, but the professor rejected her on the grounds that the group was full. But in a flash, the student who also applied for ** to join the group, but was not as good as her was accepted by the professor, just because the student's parents were reviewers of a well-known journal. It was at this moment that the student deeply felt the gap between himself and the family of scholars. She felt that she had tried her best, but she had just walked to the starting point of others.
Every student can't choose their own origin, but they can change the future through their own efforts. Being admitted to a 985 university is already a great achievement, let alone being admitted to top universities like Tsinghua University and Peking University. The future is full of possibilities for these students. I hope that the students will accept the ordinary, but still move forward, even if the ordinary students have worked so hard to get to their starting point compared to the students from better families. Compared to students from other institutions, ordinary students can also be far ahead. Graduates of well-known universities can enjoy better educational resources, and their starting point is higher, and they have an advantage in both the graduate school entrance examination and the civil service examination. In addition, such colleges and universities often have many large companies to recruit before and after the graduation season, and ordinary students have the opportunity to be poached by large factories before they officially graduate, which are their advantages.
In reality, we do have gaps in family background, social resources, etc., which is especially obvious in the field of education. Many people are born at the end of the starting line, and they have more opportunities and resources to pave the way for their future. And for students from ordinary families, they need to put in more effort to reach the starting point of others. However, while the path for the average student is difficult, it doesn't mean they can't succeed. Everyone's origin and conditions cannot be chosen, but we can choose how to face it and how to work hard to change our future. Studying hard is a viable way out, but it's not the only way. In addition to academic performance, we can also compete with other students by developing our own strengths and improving our skills. It is important that we maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, not blindly worship and envy the backgrounds of others, but strive for our own opportunities and success through our own struggles and efforts. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the issue of equitable education, and strive to improve the distribution of educational resources, so that more students have equal opportunities to pursue their dreams.