"When my grandson was born, my daughter-in-law ate the pumpkins I grew every day, and ended up eating a basket of pumpkins from me in a month. "The old lady said with a smile in front of the camera, it sounded like she felt sorry for her daughter-in-law's malnutrition, but in fact she felt sorry for the fruits of her labor, and felt that her daughter-in-law was too good to eat and couldn't support her.
Faced with her mother-in-law's vexatious trouble, the daughter-in-law couldn't stand it and chose to run away from home. However, when she is found, it is puzzling to find out that she is pregnant and has given birth to a child.
He Qinglin received a **, and the person on the other end told him that his wife Fang Baoqin gave birth to a baby girl and asked him to go to the hospital.
But He Qinglin was confused, because he had not heard from his wife for a year, and he couldn't find her. Ten months pregnant, Fang Baoqin has been away from home for more than a year, even if she was pregnant before running away from home, she should have given birth a long time ago, how could she not suddenly give birth to a child now.
He Qinglin suspected that he might have made a mistake, but his wife had been away from home for a long time, so when a possible clue appeared, they decided that they could not give up searching.
So, He Qinglin took his father to the hospital where Fang Baoqin was said to have given birth to a child. The hospital's ** told He Qinglin that there was indeed a pregnant woman named Fang Baoqin, who gave birth to a baby girl at that time, but she had been discharged from the hospital, and there had been a man with her in the past few days, and the man looked like he should be in his thirties.
He Qinglin was very surprised when he heard the news, how could his wife have another man accompany her to the hospital to give birth?He immediately took out his marriage certificate with Fang Baoqin, and when he saw that the two were husband and wife, he gave He Qinglin the address they left at that time.
In order to find his wife Fang Baoqin, He Qinglin found the help of reporters. According to the address, the reporter found the local village committee. According to the village committee, only one family in the village recently gave birth to a baby girl: He Dingbo's family.
He Qinglin and his entourage also immediately rushed to He Dingbo's house, and sure enough, they saw Fang Baoqin who was in confinement here. In addition to Fang Baoqin, her parents are also taking care of her and her newborn child.
Seeing He Qinglin suddenly appear, Fang Baoqin was a little surprised, but he didn't say anything, and he didn't even say a word to He Qinglin.
He Qinglin witnessed this scene and was furious, although his wife was missing, they were not divorced, and they were still husband and wife. Now, she secretly gave birth to a child for another man, which disgraced him.
He immediately began to reproach Fang Baoqin. However, Fang Baoqin remained silent, she picked up the children who were woken up and comforted them. Fang Baoqin's mother couldn't bear it, and reprimanded He Qinglin loudly: "How many grievances your daughter has suffered in your family, don't you count in your heart?"
You don't even respect her human rights, and you still have the face to come to her, get out of here!Fang Baoqin's mother's words were fierce, and He Qinglin's face was flushed and he felt ashamed. He picked up the bench on the ground and wanted to smash it at Fang Baoqin's mother, but fortunately, the person next to him reacted quickly and stopped him in time.
While a group of people were arguing, the child's father, He Dingbo, suddenly appeared. Looking at the chaotic scene in front of him, he knew that sooner or later there would be this day. He Dingbo's appearance made Fang Baoqin finally willing to speak, explaining why she ran away from home and why she gave He Dingbo a child.
These sad past events are distressing. Fang Baoqin and He Qinglin met on a blind date and got married in 2007. Although the conditions in He Qinglin's family were not good at that time, Fang Baoqin didn't care about it, and just wanted to live a good life.
After three years of marriage, He Qinglin and Fang Baoqin chose to divorce, the two had no children, and they seemed peaceful and friendly when they broke up. However, two years later, Fang Baoqin found He Qinglin again, hoping to start their married life again.
He Qinglin readily agreed, and soon after, Fang Baoqin became pregnant, and the next year, He Qinglin gave birth to a big boy, as if it was a lost happiness. However, when the child was more than a year old, Fang Baoqin suddenly disappeared.
She took only two hundred dollars, did not take the child with her, and disappeared from the home. Fang Baoqin claimed that her run away from home was entirely due to the persecution of the family.
In a marriage, the tension in the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can make a mess for the whole family. Fang Baoqin has a deep understanding of getting along with her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law is a very frugal person and resolutely does not allow a penny to be wasted at home.
Even if Fang Baoqin just added a few new clothes to herself, her mother-in-law would blame her, saying that she still had to spend money if she didn't make money at home. In terms of eating, her mother-in-law is even more picky, and she doesn't even let Fang Baoqin buy meat on weekdays.
Fang Baoqin didn't understand why her mother-in-law was so frugal, she felt that it might be because she didn't give birth to a son for the family that she was disliked. But when she finally gave birth to a son, she thought that her mother-in-law would change, and the result was the same as before.
During confinement, the new mother is very weak and needs to breastfeed her child, so it is important to take adequate nutrition. However, Fang Baoqin's mother-in-law didn't even buy meat, and only cooked her rice with clear soup and little water every day.
Fang Baoqin knew her mother-in-law's temperament, so she could only ask her mother-in-law to cook pumpkin soup for her. The mother-in-law planted pumpkins in the small yard by herself, and she treated them as treasures on weekdays, and she picked them off and preserved them as soon as they were ripe.
Therefore, after Fang Baoqin made this request, her mother-in-law looked reluctant. However, what people didn't expect was that pumpkin turned out to be the most nutritious thing Fang Baoqin had eaten during her confinement. After being confined for so long, she ate 12 pumpkins from her mother-in-law. This made the mother-in-law very angry.
You eat too much, you actually ate 12 pumpkins by yourself, who can afford to raise a foodie daughter-in-law like you!The mother-in-law couldn't get used to He Qinglin's "delicious and lazy work", and forced her to wash her clothes in cold water.
Fang Baoqin felt that her mother-in-law's behavior was very unreasonable, but she had never done confinement, and she was very puzzled by her mother-in-law's accusation. While chatting with the neighbors, Fang Baoqin brought up the incident, saying that he was scolded for eating twelve pumpkins.
The neighbor was very surprised when she heard this, she knew what kind of person Fang Baoqin's mother-in-law was usually, but she didn't expect that her daughter-in-law had just given birth to a child, so it didn't matter if she didn't eat meat, and even eating a few pumpkins would have to be taught a lesson.
Fang Baoqin knew that he was in a bad situation, but He Qinglin was always indifferent, and even blamed himself with his mother-in-law. What hurt Fang Baoqin even more was that He Qinglin's married sister still went back to her parents' house from time to time to trouble her.
He Qinglin's attitude deeply hurt Fang Baoqin, her mother-in-law's meanness was bearable, but as a husband, he stood by. Although Fang Baoqin filed for divorce many times, He Qinglin's family used the child as an excuse to forcibly keep her.
Fang Baoqin tried to escape, but was quickly recovered by them. In order to prevent her from escaping again, her father-in-law even set nails in the yard to try to puncture her feet to dispel her thoughts. All this made Fang Baoqin disheartened, but she couldn't change the status quo.
In the unbearable situation, Fang Baoqin confided in her mother about her hardships. The mother was also deeply saddened to hear that her daughter was treated like this, so she decided to secretly send Fang Baoqin to the train station and let her leave the house.
This rift could not be repaired, and Fang Baoqin, with the help of her mother, bravely escaped from the "demon cave". In the days of working in other places, Fang Baoqin met He Dingbo.
Although He Dingbo is not tall and looks ordinary, he cares for Fang Baoqin meticulously. His love for Wu and Wu is not only good to Fang Baoqin, but also regards her mother as his own.
Fang Baoqin's mother saw that her daughter had finally met a good person, so she agreed to let them be together. Although Fang Baoqin has not yet divorced, and they have not received a marriage certificate, they already have the reality of husband and wife and the existence of children.
Although the two have a deep relationship, Fang Baoqin and He Qinglin still maintain a married relationship. Fang Baoqin and He Dingbo were married and had a son, which was not legally allowed.
In this regard, He Qinglin said that he would sue Fang Baoqin. Fang Baoqin didn't care about He Qinglin's remarks, she firmly said that even if she was imprisoned for this, she would not return to He Qinglin.
He Qinglin's family has never treated her as a human being, and she is resolutely unwilling to live that kind of hard life again. In this tense atmosphere, the village committee and the reporter tried to ease the emotions of both sides, saying that they would go to the village committee to mediate and find a suitable solution.
When He Dingbo was confined in Fang Baoqin, he specially prepared thick clothes for her to prevent her from catching a cold. After hearing that Fang Baoqin might not go with him, He Qinglin planned to let her pay 1,500 yuan a month in child support before the child became an adult.
However, just as the agreement was about to be reached, He Qinglin's father objected and threatened to file a lawsuit to resolve the matter. In this case, He Qinglin finally chose to follow his father's advice and solve the problem through the court.
Although Fang Baoqin's behavior may constitute the crime of bigamy, from the perspective of human feelings, we can consider that the circumstances of her crime are minor and justified, and she is still breastfeeding, so she can be dealt with lightly or even not at all.
In addition, He Qinglin's family asked for 1,500 yuan per month in child support, but the court may not support it, because the maintenance should be based on the local standard of living, generally 20% or 30% of the monthly income, so it is likely that it will not meet the standard of 1,500 yuan.
In the end, Fang Baoqin reluctantly said that no matter what He Qinglin did, she would stick to her decision, and even if she went to jail, she would not regret it.
He Qinglin was puzzled, and didn't understand why He Dingbo, who was better than him in terms of conditions and appearance, was able to get Fang Baoqin's favor, but he couldn't. He realized that true love is not only based on external conditions, but also on inner feelings.