In the bustling metropolis, everyone has their own role and stage. In the drama "Thirty Only", the friendship and growth of Zhong Xiaoqin and Gu Jia are like a mirror, reflecting the multifaceted nature of urban women. And the difference between them is not only their identity and status, but also their attitude and pursuit of life.
In Zhong Xiaoqin's heart, Gu Jia seems to be the unattainable goddess. Not only does he have an enviable career and family, but he is also comfortable in interpersonal communication. But the goddess also has the troubles of mortals, and there are times when she needs to bow her head. When Zhong Xiaoqin inadvertently saw the scene of Gu Jia groveling for the relationship, the shock in her heart can be imagined.
Zhong Xiaoqin, a typical post-it note girl. At work, she is always willing to help and does not care about personal gains and losses. Whenever the photocopier broke down or a colleague asked to bring milk tea, she always smiled and agreed. For her, it is an honor to be needed, to prove that she is still worthy. But one day, when no one asked her to do these trivial things anymore, she suddenly felt an inexplicable loss. It turns out that those so-called "needs" are nothing more than habit.
Unlike Zhong Xiaoqin's easy-going, Gu Jia is a goal-oriented person. In order for her son to go to an international kindergarten, she did not hesitate to lower her figure and talk to Mrs. Wang. When it was inconvenient for Mrs. Wang to go downstairs in high heels, she decisively exchanged shoes. For Gu Jia, in order to achieve the goal, this grievance is nothing at all. Her tenacity and courage are what Zhong Xiaoqin lacks.
It was this scene that made Zhong Xiaoqin realize that Gu Jia, who was originally high-minded, would also wronged herself for some purposes. This not only broke Zhong Xiaoqin's perfect impression of Gu Jia, but also made her begin to reflect on her own values. There is actually no insurmountable gap between the little man and the goddess. Everyone has their own difficulties and last resorts.
Of course, the play also shows the deep friendship between these two women through some details. For example, Zhong Xiaoqin offered to help after knowing Gu Jia's predicament;And Gu Jia also gave warm support and help to Zhong Xiaoqin when she was facing a marriage crisis. This kind of sincere friendship is a beautiful scenery in the play.
In general, "Thirty Only" successfully presents the challenges and confusions faced by modern urban women through the two characters of Zhong Xiaoqin and Gu Jia. Their stories tell us that no matter what the situation is, we must be brave enough to face our inner needs and pursuits. Only in this way can we shine the brightest light on the stage of life.
Each character in the story has their own growth trajectory and mental journey, and these experiences are closely related to our lives. Therefore, we should not easily judge who is right and who is wrong, but should learn some wisdom and experience in life. "Thirty Only" is not only a TV series that reflects the life of urban women, but also a masterpiece that makes us think about life and feel growth.
Finally, I would like to ask everyone: If you were Zhong Xiaoqin or Gu Jia, how would you choose in the face of various challenges and dilemmas in life?Do you go with the flow or go with the flow?Welcome to leave a message and correction in the comment area, thank you for reading, and let**More in-depth topics!