ModernSocialMen generally mature slower than women. At a young age, they are more inclined to focus on pursuing their careers and tend to overlook the importance of their families. Uncle Yang is a 57-year-old man who has gone through a busy experiencelife, always running around outside, lacking attention to the family. He finds it boring to stay at home, with limited space, and prefers to immerse himself in the world of flowers and flowers outside in pursuit of excitement and novelty. He loved itTravelto explore the world with friends, enjoy good food and outdoor activities. For him, a busy career is more important than his family, and he hardly worries about the family, leaving all the housework and care responsibilities to his wife.
However, when he turned 50, Uncle Yang suddenly realized that he had neglected the importance of family. He found that the previous chase was excitinglifeIt's not that funny, and the person who really matters most to him is actually his daughter-in-law. He woke up and began to care about his wife's health and his own health, taking her for a physical examination every year, just in case. He began to pay attentionlifeIn the details, buy gifts for your daughter-in-law, spend holidays together, and even once a yearTravelHoliday. With his renewed focus on family, hislifeBecome more fulfilled and happy.
He and his daughter-in-law share housework together, take a walk together after dinner, and talk about everything. The smile on the daughter-in-law's face became more and she looked more energetic. He deeply realized that his children and parents could not accompany him through his old age, and only his daughter-in-law could be by his side from beginning to end. Although there may not be a strong one between themLove, butAffectionthanLoveStronger. Uncle Yang hopes to grow old with his daughter-in-law, and he realizes that family is the most important thing, so he devotes more time and attention to his family and daughter-in-law.
Uncle Gao is a 63-year-old man who has just retired. He believes that in middle age and old age, the person closest to him is his wife. He admits that when he was young, he didn't know how to cherish his wife's goodness, and he didn't treat her well enough. In front of outsiders, he is a good husband, but in front of his wife, he always loses his temper with her. In the past, they often quarreled and had conflicts over trivial matters, and even almost divorced. However, when he fell ill a few years ago, he realized that he had treated his wife badly in the past. During his stay in the hospital for half a month, his wife was busy taking care of him, buying the food he liked, and buying it from afar, without a trace of complaint. At that time, he realized that he was fortunate to have a wife, otherwise his life would be very difficult. He recalled the bad treatment he had done to his wife when he was young, and his heart was full of remorse and regret, and he vowed to be good to his wife and make amends for the suffering she had suffered.
He understands the importance of the company of his loved ones and is terrified of loneliness. He hopes that his body can recover and spend more time with his wife, and he is grateful that her took care of him regardless of his past suspicions, instead of leaving him aside to live happily on his own. He learned to cherish the people around him, treat his wife well, and thank her. He gradually changed himself, focusing more on his wife, being kind to her, and making her happy every day. For his children, he often reminds them that his wife works hard, and as she grows older, she should be kind to her, let her worry less, and let her live a happy life.
In the past, he never thought that his wife would be so important to him, but now he understands that only with a wife can he have a home, so that his heart can be comforted. He cherishes the warmth and love that his wife brings him, and he takes the initiative to help his wife share housework, cook together, go to the supermarket, and plan retirement togetherlife, participate in interest classes together, and go out togetherTravel。They begin to enjoy the world of two, rekindling their youthLoveSparkle. Faced with health problems in old age, Uncle Gao decided to actively exercise in order to spend more time with his wife. He firmly believes that the only way to stay active and healthy is to maintain a positive attitude every daylifehabits, in order to have a healthy body, continue to accompany his wife, and spend a happy old age.
In both cases, the men did not realize the importance of family at a young age, but instead prioritized their careers. However, with age andlifeThrough the accumulation of experience, they gradually realized that family is the most important support and strength**. They walked out of their past mistakes and worked hard to change themselves, to be better for their wives and to devote more time and attention to their families. They understand that the companionship and love of their families are essential to happinesslifeThe importance of being willing to work hard for it. This also reminds us that we must know how to cherish our family when we are young, because only the warmth and companionship of family will allow us to be truly happy and satisfied in our later years.