Most children enter the rebellious period, which will produce some behaviors that are disgusted with learning, when the child has a psychology of disgust with learning and does not like to Xi learning. The active guidance of parents is indispensable, and we must know how to adjust to guide children in the right direction, and we should selectively correct them. What should I do if my child rebels and refuses to go to school?
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How to deal with a child's rebellion and aversion to school?
1.Understand the cause: First, try to understand the reasons why your child is rebellious and discouraged from school. There may be a variety of factors, such as academic difficulties, personal hobbies, family relationship problems, etc. Have an honest and respectful conversation with your child, listen to their thoughts and feelings, and understand the root cause of the problem.
2.Establish good communication pathways: It is important to establish good communication pathways with your child. Through regular communication, listen to their opinions and opinions, and understand their concepts and needs. Adopt emotions of openness, patience, and respect so that they feel understood and supported.
3.Set clear policies and rewards and punishments: Work with your child to develop detailed and reasonable Xi policies and ensure that these policies are in line with their talent level and hobbies. Together, establish reward and punishment mechanisms to encourage children to actively participate in Xi activities and clarify the consequences.
4.Provide support and counselling: Parents should assist their children in seeking professional help and resources. Some children may need more support to overcome school Xi or emotional problems. Parents can work with the school or professional agencies to seek appropriate assistance to ensure that their children receive the necessary support and**.
5.Establish an active Xi environment: Creating an active Xi environment is important for children's motivation Xi learning. Provide a quiet, tidy and comfortable Xi space to avoid disturbing elements. Together, we will work with our families to create an active Xi atmosphere for learning, and encourage each other Xi to learn, share and support each other.
Reasons why children are playful and tired of school:
1. Learning Xi boring. Learning Xi itself may not be as fun as playing games, Xi learning is even boring. The reason why some children don't like to learn Xi is that they like to play games and are addicted to games, which is a big reason why children don't like to learn Xi Xi and have no hobby for learning.
2. Learning Xi useless. In the process of learning Xi, sometimes they will encounter obscure failures to understand, wrong topics, poor grades, etc., and they will not get the affirmation and praise of teachers and parents, which will inevitably make children feel that learning Xi useless, so they will refuse to learn, lose their hobby for Xi learning, and cannot learn.
3. The homework is too difficult, the Xi will definitely encounter problems in the learning , the child will inevitably be frustrated and discouraged when he can't do the problem, he doesn't want to learn anymore, the progress of the learning Xi can't keep up, and there are more and more difficulties in the learning Xi, and the grades will naturally decline Xi, and the grades will decline even more unwillingly... In the long run, this cycle is formed.
4. Learning Xi has the purpose of being too rigid, we always expect the child to score better in the exam, 93 points may be more than 20 in the class, and the child will face a lot of pressure. The child got the thirtieth place, we are looking forward to whether we can enter the top 20, we are really in the top 20, we are looking forward to the top 10, we are really in the top 10, and we are looking forward to the first. But children never have such pressure when playing games, just be happy.