There are three things not to borrow money, three things to do not follow the courtesy, and three things not to go to the road
There are many ancient proverbs in the folk, these ancient proverbs contain all aspects of life, they are the experience of the older generation over the years, some ancient proverbs still seem to be very reasonable today, worthy of our future generations to learn and Xi, for example"There are three ways not to borrow money, three things to follow, and three ways not to go"This proverb is to warn us what to pay attention to when dealing with the world, what is a reasonable statement, that is, what are the specific three not to borrow?Which three do not follow, which three do not go?Let's find out.
i.There are three ways to not borrow money.
1.Unreliable people don't borrow: it can be said that this person is a scoundrel, his skin is thicker than the Great Wall, two months ago he said that repaying the money is not this reason or that reason, anyway, all kinds of excuses, is not to pay back, so in life found this kind of person who likes to offend himself, he can't borrow money, and even stay away from him, this kind of person not only speaks unreliable, but also has problems with character, and being with them will only make you suffer, and the first thing you should do is to refuse.
2) Don't think about people who don't lend money: This kind of people won't do this, don't lend them money, this kind of people are greedy for comfort and pleasure, even if you lend money to them, they can't afford to pay you back. As the saying goes"Saving the emergency is not helping the poor"Like those lazy people who live by borrowing money, I think that when it comes to their losses, it will only be them, so don't forget.
Second, there are three methods that don't meet the requirements.
1) The relationship is too superficial, and gifts should not be followed up: Now, some people may only meet once or twice at the dinner table, or have eaten one or two meals, and start inviting you to join, if you feel that your relationship is too general, it is best not to give gifts, it may be just for the sake of sharing money. In fact, when you understand it clearly, I don't think it's possible for dogs to know other people, so there's no need to give that kind of gift.
2) Don't follow the trend of treats and gifts: Don't accept treats and gifts and don't follow the trend, or forget to notify, or simply don't wait for them to invite, I think it's best not to go for any reason (because our neighbors here generally have dealings and don't notify, so you can not go in this case) to go but make a fool of yourself, so this kind of money does not follow the money, it is not interesting.
3.It is not common sense to only accept gifts and not return gifts: everyone knows that Chinese pay attention to courtesy and exchanges, and my family has a relative who does not conform to common sense, I have now cut off contact with his family, his family is in trouble as long as we receive a notice will be there, and we have to wait until our own family is in difficulty, we can't contact each other at all, forget it once or twice, it's always like this, I think I know that people go to his house to give gifts and he doesn't go to give gifts to other people's families, which is a bit too much to say. It's a bit unreasonable, so I don't exchange it this way.
Third, there are three ways not to go.
1.Don't go"Downhill road": The downhill road here refers to the wrong road, the crooked road, the road of no return, etc., now many young people can't afford it, and always want to get rich overnight, so it's easy to embark on a road of no return. Remember, wealth depends on your hands, don't go"Downhill road", because that's a dead end, and in the end, what awaits you is the sanction of the law.
2.Do not take the road of publicity: people must have the ability to do greater things, do not take the road that is not fully certain, otherwise it will be a mistake, it is recommended that no matter what you do, you must determine your ability, think carefully, and reduce the occurrence of unnecessary things.
3) Don't take the path of the unknown: Don't take the path of the unknown, and don't take the path of knowing that is dangerous, because those roads can be dangerous, and when danger arises, it is too late. In addition, life is like a road, although we will encounter various challenges and difficulties, as long as we move forward bravely and keep exploring, we will definitely be able to overcome them. If we spend a lot of time on the unknown and don't get the results we want, it means that we have lost, after all, there is no turning back on the road of life.
The above is a personal pair"There are three things not to borrow money, three things to do not follow the courtesy, and three things not to go to the road"The understanding of this sentence, regardless of whether it is unreasonable or not, but I think that only by being honest, principled, acting right, and sitting up straight can we create our own life value.
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