There are many old sayings circulating among the people, these old sayings contain all aspects of life, are the experience of the older generation over the years, some old sayings are very reasonable even today, but also worthy of our descendants to learn and Xi, just as "money has three do not borrow, etiquette has three do not follow, the road has three do not go" This saying is to warn us to pay attention to the world, saying that it is reasonable, so what are the specific three do not borrow?Which three are not easy-going and which three are not leaving?Let's take a look.
1.People who don't talk about credibility don't borrow: this kind of person can be said to be a scoundrel, his skin is thicker than the Great Wall, he said that he would pay it back in two months, and when he repaid the money, it was not this reason or that reason, anyway, all kinds of excuses, just not to repay the money, so he would rather offend them than borrow money when he encounters this kind of person in life, and even stay away from him, this kind of person is not only untrustworthy, but also has problems with character, and working with them will only make him suffer, and he must refuse.
2.Don't borrow from those who don't want to be motivated: don't lend money to such people who are lazy and lazy, because such people are blindly greedy for comfort and enjoyment, even if you lend them money, they won't be able to pay it back to you. As the old saying goes, "Helping the emergency does not help the poor", like a lazy person who relies on borrowing money to make a living, I think that it will only be me who will suffer when the time comes, so I must remember.
3.People who don't know each other don't borrow: I have a deep understanding of this, I am a friend of my eldest brother, and I have eaten together a few times, and I feel very good. Suddenly one day asked me to borrow 30,000 yuan, said that it would be returned to me in three months, and now more than two years have passed, let alone repaying, I haven't seen a dime, the key is now ** don't answer, don't reply to the message, just play with me missing, so remind everyone not to lend money to people who are not very familiar with it, in the end it may be empty.
1.Etiquette that is too shallow: Nowadays, some people may only meet once or twice at the wine table or have a meal or dinner, and start to invite you to participate, if you feel that your relationship is general, it is best not to go to such a ceremony, it may be simply for money. When you really get into trouble, I guess you can't find anyone else with the dog, so there's no need to follow such a courtesy.
2.Don't follow the invitation courtesy: Don't follow the invitation without accepting the invitation, or forget the notice, or don't expect to invite you at all, I think it's best not to go for any reason (like our neighbors generally have contacts, and they don't notice, so you can go in this case) It's boring to go, so don't follow the money of this kind of part, it's not interesting.
3.Only the gift that cannot be returned is not followed: everyone knows that the Chinese pay attention to courtesy and exchanges, but my family has a relative who does not play cards according to common sense, and now I have broken off contact with his family, and we will be present as long as we receive a notice when his family encounters an accident, and when our own family encounters an accident, we can't contact it at all, if you want to say it once or twice, every time, I think you know that people go to his house to follow the gift but he does not follow the gift of other people's family, which is a bit unreasonable, so such exchanges do not follow.
1.Don't take the "downhill" road: The downhill road here refers to the wrong road, the crooked road, the road of no return, etc., now many young people can't afford it, and always want to get rich overnight, so it's easy to embark on a road of no return. Remember, wealth depends on the hard work of the hands, do not go "downhill", because this is a dead end, and what awaits you in the end is the punishment of the law.
2.It is recommended that no matter what you do, you should determine whether you are competent or not, and consider everything to reduce unnecessary happening.
3.Don't take unfamiliar paths: Don't take unfamiliar roads or roads that you know are dangerous, because such roads can be dangerous, and once the danger occurs, it is already too late. In addition, life is like a road, although there are various challenges and difficulties to face, as long as you move forward bravely and keep exploring, you will overcome them. If you spend a lot of time on an unfamiliar thing and don't get the desired result, it means that you have lost, after all, there is no turning back on the road of life.
The above is a personal understanding of "money has three do not borrow, etiquette has three do not follow, and the road has three do not go", regardless of whether the analysis is reasonable or not, but I think that life should be honest, principled, right, and sit upright, so as to create their own life value.
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