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Chatting on WeChat and sending moments has become something that most people in China have to do every day, but friends who are a little more careful will find that the content of the circle of friends is getting less and less. And the degree of randomness of the circle of friends is getting narrower and narrower.
What does that mean?It means that many people will not set all kinds of restrictions before posting on Moments. In other words, people used to think that their intention was to let others see it and then increase the amount of interaction with various people.
This is actually the expansion and extension of online communication. Its basis is the WeChat chat platform, but the circle of friends is the form of expression. It is not difficult to see that the previous circle of friends culture is mixed with the purpose of communication. As a result, a new form of micro-business has been derived.
However, the recent situation has become less and less optimistic: many people have automatically added a big lock of secrecy to the dynamics of WeChat Moments, which can only be seen in the last three days;There are even those who stop the update directly, obviously not pretending, and the showdown is over. I don't care about other people's dynamics anymore.
At the same time, I don't post dynamics anymore. There are also people who are still social animals, working for companies and bosses, and the content of the circle of friends is all related to the content of work. At the end of the day, you can often brush three or four. People can't help but ask: why is there no more friends in the circle of friends?
In fact, it is mainly related to three factors: first, the protection of personal privacy awareness has been strengthened;The second is that people are starting to delete and clean up ineffective social interactions;The third is to become more and more focused on one's own personal life, without getting involved in the dynamics of others.
Some of my friends feel that everyone has started to advocate for the protection of personal privacy, which is a good thing. However, respecting the privacy of others is the proper meaning of social rules. In other words, privacy must be respected when engaging in interpersonal interactions.
This was something that didn't need to be said, but now it has become something that everyone is talking about. This means that people's communication has entered a dilemma: people who want to share are afraid of revealing their personal privacy and gradually stop speaking out.
People who don't have the desire to share are more determined and simply don't look at other people's dynamics. Thus completely detaching from interpersonal communication with others. In fact, this kind of signal is very dangerous, because people are social animals, and people's lives are inseparable from daily communication.
However, some friends also disagree: the reason is that the communication in daily life is basically related to interests, or involves the equal exchange of quasi-interests. So there's no need to waste so much time playing the emotional card. But this is China, after all.
We are a humane society, and sometimes you may not be able to invite people when you have money. This actually reflects the old saying: the rivers and lakes are not fighting and killing, but human feelings. A humane society must be able to connect regularly.
After experiencing the emergency of the epidemic, people's communication has become a crisis of trust. This kind of manifestation is that in the purchase of anti-epidemic materials or food and medicine products, some frequently contacted personal cards are found to be useless.
In other words, the previous brothers and sisters were useless fox friends and dog friends. When it comes to a time of crisis, no one can be relied on. After three years of emergencies, it became clear that some ineffective social interactions had to be cleaned up and removed.
Otherwise, I won't be able to pass this level psychologically. Obviously, the acquaintances who greeted each other before and went to greet them warmly during the New Year's holidays, why did they turn their faces and deny people at the critical moment?Where has the mutual trust and kindness factor in people's communication gone?
It can only be said that this situation has always existed, but the epidemic has pushed it directly to the surface. Then people are no longer immersed in virtual emotions under self-satisfaction. To put it simply, people are actually deceiving themselves when it comes to ineffective socializing.
The reason is that there are only two kinds of value exchange in interpersonal relationships: one is the exchange of economic value;One is the exchange of emotional value. If you don't have these two values in you, then whatever actions and efforts you make will be ineffective and will not get good results.
In the past, we could often hear such a sentence: My daughter, I know there all day long to chat about WeChat and swipe the circle of friends. But now fewer and fewer people say so. Why is this happening?The main reason is that there has been a big change in personal concepts.
Before the emergency, everyone felt that the years were quiet, and it was understandable to waste life and time once in a while. But after the experience, it was as if people had enlightened themselves overnight, and they raised what they had to do to the top of their minds.
This change is undoubtedly very welcome, as people realize that virtual networks can be addictive and detached from reality. And the real conditions are the basis for wandering in cyberspace. If you even live a mess of your own life, what face do you have to look at others.
What mood and time do you have to pay attention to the dynamics of other people's lives?Do you have to say that you look like a clown before you really realize it?As a result, people are more focused on their lives and focus on improving their quality of life.
Of course, there is also a more important point that the pressure of real life has increased sharply, and who is still in the mood to post this and that on the Internet every day. Hurry up and pick up yourself, decide what you want to do, and what you want to do in the future is the real royal road.
To sum up, there are both advantages and disadvantages to the fact that people don't post on Moments. The advantage is that people are living their lives seriously, and the disadvantage is that the real and the false in the online virtual space are even more difficult to distinguish. Because there are already many considerations for people's posts.
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