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In the current social phenomenon, in addition to the polarization of people's involution, there is also a wide range of young people's unmarried and infertile children. Many experts and business owners have openly persuaded young people to marry and have more children because of the disconnect in the birth of newborns.
However, whether the young people will accept this proposal or not depends on the substantive development of the situation. In other words, if the pressure of life becomes less, it is possible to promote young people to devote themselves to the one-stop process of falling in love, getting married and having children.
However, if there is no substantial positive progress in the three major areas of life pressure, severe employment and economic downturn, the phenomenon of young people not marrying and having children is likely to continue. We often hear jokes that 10 million college graduates are too much;
10 million newborns is a small number. There are more similar words, but they are all true reflections of the heavy burden on young people. In short, young people are not only burdened with an increasingly heavy burden of retirement, but also with the heavy responsibility of dedicating themselves.
In fact, when new things are just showing momentum, we must think of the negative side. In other words, to be prepared for the worst, at least have sufficient psychological expectations. However, the trend of the number of marriage registrations in China has continued to decline since the epidemic.
What does that mean?This means that the sudden outbreak of the epidemic has greatly impacted people's perceptions. Then people began to think about the meaning of life and the meaning of life. Therefore, even if there is an antidote, it must be grasped from this time.
At present, the phenomenon of unmarried infertility is common among young people, and there are factors behind the increasing pressure on the cost of living. In terms of prices, the purchasing power of 100 yuan now has changed greatly from that of 100 yuan 10 years ago.
If this change is to be shown in a more intuitive way, it is: in the past, a hundred dollars when I was a child could be spent for almost three days;And now a hundred dollars can only be spent for half a day. Not only that, but many young people who have just graduated from college are paid very lowly.
Some monthly salaries only.
Three or four thousand, and even harder friends can only get one or two thousand wages a month. In this situation, I don't dare to think much about things like falling in love, getting married, buying a car, and buying a house. What's more, ordinary people can only choose a mortgage if they want to buy a house.
But at the moment there is a loss of general confidence in the real estate sector. Therefore, many young people dare not touch the matter of housing loans anymore. The consequence of the hopelessness of buying a house or a car is that young people are completely lying flat and pessimistic everywhere.
But marriage and childbirth are not just as simple as applying for a mortgage and car loan, just take a marriage list circulating on the Internet. A wedding can't be done without a small 100,000 yuan, not to mention that marrying a wife still requires a bride price, and it is even more painful to bear the ** bride price.
When it comes to the issue of bride price, the comment section on the Internet will naturally be divided into two major factions: men and women. The general view of the men's camp is that the nature of the high bride price is a legal human trafficking. Because the money from the bride price did not return to the newlyweds in the end.
On the contrary, the phenomenon of widespread misappropriation to the woman's family for private use is extremely prominent. Many men also give a straightforward account of the status quo of marriage: the bride price of the older sister or sister is directly used as the property of the male in the family to marry and buy a house and a car**.
The woman's camp is a clear statement: the bride price is the man's sincerity and love. If you can't even get the bride price, how can you live your life and life after marriage? The implication is that the bride price is equivalent to a sincere and extremely loving expression.
The meaning of the woman's camp is extremely simple, that is, giving a bride price is an act. The man only needs to make the action of giving or not giving. As for the use of the bride price, it does not matter, it is the right and freedom of the woman, and the man has no right to interfere.
It is not difficult to see that under the game of personal interests, marriage has long gone sour. It is no longer the romantic love symbol of the past, but has become a kind of simulation training for firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in advance. It can be seen that the antagonism between men and women is intensifying.
It is not difficult to find that the current phenomenon of young people's infertility is actually affected by a combination of many factors. Aspects such as the increasing cost of living pressures and the lack of harmony between men and women are just the tip of the iceberg.
We should also see the great cycle and impact of many factors, such as the high cost of raising children, the incomplete coverage of the medical insurance system, the high overall debt ratio of the society, the current economic downturn, and the employment situation is not optimistic.
Therefore, from this point of view, the problem of young people is actually a problem of society. Fundamentally, there are many phenomena that are not conducive to the development of young people in the society that breeds young people. Many young people are powerless to resist and have no choice but to be forced to lie down.
Although there are more young people who are still trying to involute, they are all laying a sufficient foundation for future risk prevention. In other words, they have already sensed the signs of a crisis, so they are working harder to get through a possible crisis safely.
It can be said that the current group of young people is already shrouded in general pessimism. On the other hand, it can also be seen from the decline in the number of graduate students and the upward trend of the number of public entrance examinations: the mentality of young people is actually no longer young, although the age is young.
In order to solve the problem of a small number of newborns, we also need to look at the general public, because it is these ordinary people who love life that form the cornerstone of the operation of grassroots society.
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