Are you anxious about the future?
Are you still regretting the past?
Today I saw a highly praised answer: "Life is to see the tricks, don't advance the troubles!".”
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There will always be troubles in life, how to face them?
Let's do the math:
Before a bad thing happens, you are anxious in advance, which is equivalent to encountering two bad things.
Anxiety ahead of time + bad things happen = two bad things.
After the incident, you still can't get out, and keep thinking about it, it is equivalent to encountering three bad things or more.
It's like you've been experiencing bad things.
Bad things + bad things + bad things ......
If you are anxious in advance today, and as a result tomorrow, a good thing happens, which is equivalent to killing your today. That's more than worth the loss!
Every day for the rest of your life is very expensive, and you take yourself a little more seriously and take other people and things lightly.
As long as you don't care that much, no one can hurt you.
Because life is meant to be a trick, don't advance your worries.
You can take precautions and make some preparations, but don't be anxious in advance, chew on your troubles repeatedly, and live every day in the present, which is real.
As Zeng Guofan's sixteen-character proverb said: "Things come to conform, the future is not welcome, the time is not mixed, and there is no love." ”