I went to my aunt's house today as a guest, and my aunt's son Liangliang is 9 years old this year. When Liangliang was born, he made his aunt's family happy, and finally had a big fat son. So in the past few years when Liangliang grew up, the whole family did their best to pamper him, and the aunt's family has also become a well-known favorite child of our relatives.
It's just that this time I went to my aunt's house as a guest, and I was really surprised to see Liangliang's current stateWhen I first arrived at my aunt's house, Liang Liang sat on the sofa watching TV, and Liang Liang didn't know how to say hello when he saw us, which made my aunt very embarrassed. Auntie said: Liangliang hurry up and call someone. At this time, Liangliang continued to ignore us without raising his eyelids, and we quickly said forget it, let the child watch TV
Inability to adapt to an environment outside of the home. Children can be completely dependent on their parents at home, but they can only rely on their own abilities when they leave the family to enter school and enter society. Children who lack the ability to be independent will lose their family members to rely on, or they will collapse and completely lose confidence in social life, and refuse to enter society through escaping methodsEither they will spend more effort than others to integrate into the collective. But because the latter is much harder than the former, most children who lack independence choose to escape. 
Insecurity. Children who are not independent tend to like to hide behind stronger people, which can make them feel more secure. But if they are asked to face the problem on their own, they will behave very badly, and even they themselves will not believe that they can do something on their own. 
Cultivate a sense of independence
If a child subconsciously thinks of relying on his parents when he encounters difficulties, then it means that the child's sense of independence is not enough, and the child without the sense of independence will also lose his ability to be independent. Therefore, parents should give their children the opportunity to deal with problems themselves, and if their children can deal with them well, then they will not rely on their parents when they encounter similar problems in the future, which cultivates a sense of independenceIf the child is not able to handle the problem, then parents can pass on the experience to the child instead of directly helping the child solve the problem.
Give children more correct guidance in the process of learning Xi independence
If the child washes his own socks, at first the child must not be clean, or even wet the whole body, it doesn't matter, the socks are not clean Parents wash again, clothes wet change, in short, as long as the child has this will, parents can be satisfied, and then give correct guidance, teach the child how to wash socks, try a few more times, the child can easily complete this matter, not only cultivate the child's independence, but also let the child develop a good Xi of loving labor.
Let go and let your child do what he can
Parents should let their children exercise, don't be afraid that they can't do well, and they can't blame them for everything, let alone do it instead.
This sense of self is important and it is the motivation for the development of a child's independence. In this case, parents should encourage their children to do it again, and never say "I say you can't do it, you will do it", let alone see that the child is not doing well and do it for him.
When they insist on doing difficult things, parents should encourage and help them. This will increase their motivation, boost their self-confidence, increase their opportunities to exercise, and develop independent behaviors.
Exercise your child with educational toys
Educational toys are a very good way to train, not only canExercise children's concentration, observation, hand-eye coordination, help children with brain training, and improve children's IQ and logical thinking ability!
Let's play with the baby, we can also establish a good parent-child relationship, let the child reduce the time to watch TV and play with electronic products, and let the child play more and more, such as the one recommended to you todayMagnetic bar building blocks
Magnetic rods, also known as magnetic rods. Cheap and easy to use, flexible and changeable, it can be said to be a magnetic building block, withExtremely high degree of freedomYou can let your baby's imagination play to create a variety of combinations.
The magnetic rod has a very high appearance and bright and soft colors, which can not only let children know the colors, but also improve the children's pairsInterest and sensitivity to colorto make the game more interesting.
Most magnetic blocks are made by drilling holes in wood (putting magnets in them) and then painting them. It not only affects the appearance texture and feel, but also makes it easy to peel off the paint.
The magnetic rod itself is made of ABS plastic, embedded with magnets and covered with TPE materialSafe and environmentally friendlyThe raw materials can be used by children with confidence. A quick search, rave reviews.
It's in a child's nature to playPlaying games is not just a matter for children alone, parents need to be especiallyParents are involved together
Efficient companionship is to let children feel loved at all times through words, expressions, movements, and eyes!And the love between parents and children is to put down their mobile phones, eat many, many meals together, talk a lot of "nonsense", and do a lot of games and ...... togetherParents play with their children, that's itThe childhood that children need most
The magnetic bar is oneAdults and children love to playToys can not only help children enlighten wisdom, but also help parents in parent-child playGet back to innocence and fun!
Parents can tell their children more about it, such as letting them feel it by building blocks"Opposites attract, opposites repel".The scientific principles of magnetism.
Different toys have a completely different impact on children, and after testing, it was found that after playing with the magnetic rod for a period of time, the childMental development, creativity and social skillshave been dramatically improved!It's a rare toy!
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