In China, the matter of giving gifts is an indispensable part of people's lives. Gifts are not only a manifestation of care for relatives and friends, but also a form of socialization, which can promote affection, retain human affection, and have a profound impact on the social relationships of future generations. There are many ways and Xi to follow the ceremony, and the elderly especially need to understand and be familiar with the ancient precepts and etiquette. The right way to give a gift is not only warm, but also leaves a lasting impression on relatives and friends. Relationships between people can often last for many generations. Uncle Liu, a friend made by grandpa when he was young, is still in contact with each other, and this friendship can help his children and grandchildren retain reliable network resources. The interaction and interaction between relatives and friends can be expressed through gifts and daily communication.
When facing the happy events of relatives and friends, such as wedding banquets, birthday banquets and other red joys, we should take the initiative to give gifts and come to the scene to congratulate in person. In the event of a white event, such as the death of a loved one, it is more important to pay the salute in time and be present at the scene, because it means that someone is needed to help with the work and arrange the funeral. In addition, the elderly should also visit their relatives and friends who are sick or poor and give them some help, which can not only solve some practical difficulties, but also bring them closer together. It is important to understand the local Xi and etiquette before following the ceremony. Different customs and Xi vary from place to place, so understand clearly to avoid offending others. Before attending the banquet, ask questions, avoid foreign appearances, and respect local customs and Xi. We should be moderately indifferent to some greedy people, not all relatives and friends are worthy of deep friendship.
When encountering people who only know how to ask and give back little, it is necessary to remind them appropriately. For those with poor qualities, they should be moderately indifferent or even break off diplomatic relations so as not to be taken advantage of. Learn to be courteous to the weak and help those who really need help. Instead of making friends with the laity in the city, it is better to make friends with old men. Relatives and friends who are in difficulty but have ideals should also be given appropriate help. Finally, the gift requires two-way interaction and avoids one-sided giving. If there are no relatives and friends who have not interacted with each other for a long time, then the casual gift will seem redundant. The original intention of the gift is to promote affection, and it should not become an act of exchange. Favors cannot be bought by money, but money can promote the development of favors. Therefore, it is necessary to be clear about the purpose of the ritual and not to get lost in the material exchange.
In short, the elderly should have a deep understanding of the way of courtesy, and through the correct way of courtesy, they can not only retain people's affection, but also help relatives and friends, and also affect the social relationships of future generations. So, what are your experiences and stories of casual gifts?Welcome to leave a message to share and communicate!