There is a topic on Zhihu: "What kind of love can make two people accompany each other until they grow old?"One respondent replied: "I have tasted the romance and sweetness of love, and I enjoy the fireworks and passing years after marriage." ”I think so.
After the two faced up to the differences and imperfections after the filter was removed, they were still able to accept it calmly and support each other.
As long as two people understand each other, understand each other, tolerate and cherish each other, they will naturally build an unbreakable emotional fortress.
Then, the relationship between men and women that can last for a long time is nothing more than these four words.
First, we are in harmony with each other.
I don't know if anyone has heard the story of Zhan Kaitang and Chen Caixia, it is very touching.
Chen Caixia was unable to walk due to polio since she was a child, and when she grew up, she relied on a grocery store to make a living.
Zhan Kaitang was moved by Chen Caixia's cheerful optimism, and insisted on marrying her despite the opposition of his family.
After marriage, Zhan Kaitang often pushed Chen Caixia to the square to blow the wind, Chen Caixia went to learn handicraft classes, and Zhan Kaitang picked up and dropped off back and forth, in order to fulfill Chen Caixia's wish to climb the Great Wall.
Zhan Kaitang pushed her wheelchair all the way to the highest point, and even carried her up Jingshan, and even foreigners gave them a thumbs up.
Later, Zhan Kaitang was injured in his left eye by a nail while working, and Chen Caixia has been accompanying him for four surgeries.
No matter what difficulties they face, the two of them will never give up and choose to face them with an optimistic attitude.
It is the two people who are in love with each other, not afraid of difficulties, and their hearts are working together, and finally ushered in their eternal happiness.
Second, know each other and cherish each other.
When it comes to knowing and cherishing each other, the first thing I think of is Deng Chao and Sun Li, a model couple.
The two became acquainted with each other because of the filming of "Happiness Like Flowers", Sun Li was young and beautiful at the time, with a relatively quiet personality, while Deng Chao was handsome and confident.
He liked Sun Li's quiet appearance very much, and often made her laugh, and the two slowly came together like this.
Both of them come from single-parent families and have the same fate, Deng Chao knows that Sun Li lacks love and a sense of security in marriage, so Deng Chao always takes into account Sun Li's feelings.
No matter where she goes, she misses Sun Li, and doesn't forget to buy her the specialties and gifts she loves to eat.
Sun Li is also very grateful for Deng Chao's dedication, the two have been married for more than 10 years, have two children, and still love each other as before.
There is a saying that goes like this: love is not the end, companionship is the end.
It is precisely because the two of them have the same experience when they grow up that they know how to cherish each other more, avoid repeating their original family, and keep their love fresh and lasting.
Third, work together.
Dawa Quzhen and Gong Huaijun met when they were working in a paint factory in Lhasa, and Dawa Quzhen had seven brothers and sisters in a difficult living condition.
In order to subsidize the family, after graduating from high school, he came to Lhasa to work, did all kinds of hard work, and was taken by Gong Huaijun after coming to the paint factory, and began to pursue.
In the beginning, their marriage was not recognized, but they worked hard and worked hand in hand to make life better.
Dawa Quzhen worked hard to become a hired teacher in the kindergarten.
Later, Gong Huaijun had a traffic accident and couldn't do heavy work, and Dawa Quzhen reported to the leaders and asked him to cook and clean up for the kindergarten children.
The two have been working hard together, even if Gong Huaijun is in logistics, he is also serious and responsible, and has been rated as an excellent logistics employee for two consecutive years.
It's really "husband and wife work together, and its benefits are broken." "As long as the husband and wife go hand in hand and have the courage to face difficulties, they will definitely love each other and have a smooth life.
Husband and wife are like chopsticks, no one can do without each other, and they must taste the ups and downs of life together, and only by working together can they make progress together and the relationship can be more intimate.Therefore, the secret to maintaining a long-term relationship must be to get to know each other, cherish each other, and work together to build a good time.