A male classmate once asked me: Do you know what a man wants to do most when he falls in love with a woman?I guessed that a lot of answers were incorrect, and the male classmate told me seriously that it was a physiological reaction. When a man is moved by a woman, he wants to crush the other person to the bone. In fact, there is a physiological reaction, which is only the most superficial kind of love, and it is the initial desire of human beings. 
In addition to that, if a man loves you, he will do the same. 1. Give you enough freedomIn the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers": An Jiahe likes Mei Xiangnan very much, and it is precisely because of this that he does not want to see his beloved woman and other men say a word, even if it is just a normal colleague and friend relationship, he will be extremely angry. In order to make his wife completely herself, An Jiahe doesn't want the other party to go out to work, and wants Mei Xiangnan to become a canary in a cage, accompanying her every step of the way. If Mei Xiangnan is found to have acted against him, he will use violence against her. 
Mei Xiangnan is by her husband's side, and all she can do is to constantly obey her husband, and she has no freedom of her own at all. In fact, this is not love, this is bondage in the name of love. At the end of the day, when a man asks his partner to live according to his own wishes without limits, the weight of love for himself is always greater than that of his lover. "I love you and you are free". True love should be relaxed and willing to give your partner enough respect, rather than blindly letting your partner stand on their own point of view and provide enough love that they want but their partner is not willing to provide. 
Second, they will care about your feelingsI've seen a short **: a man took a girl to a date with his girlfriend, and the three of them walked out of the restaurant after eating and drinking, and came to the car, and the atmosphere of talking and laughing suddenly became stiff. It turned out that the man volunteered to be a driver and sat in the driver's seat;The man's female hair was small, and he opened the co-pilot's door directly without any thought. At this moment, his girlfriend was unhappy, and the girl immediately realized that her girlfriend was unhappy, but she didn't take the initiative to give up the co-pilot's position, but asked the man angrily if his girlfriend was too stingy, so she would mind living in the co-pilot's seat. 
The man couldn't help but scold his girlfriend, blamed the other party for not knowing the general situation, and liked to worry about small things. The trip of the three, the two people who were supposed to be the most intimate broke up unhappily and broke up not long after. Men are not stupid, how can they not understand the entanglement in the emotional world. If a man really loves you, he will not allow other women to provoke you openly and secretly, let alone deliberately do something you mind but still have no scruples. A man who loves you will prioritize your feelings and give you the favoritism he deserves to satisfy your pleasure. 
Love and not love, it's really very obvious. When you've seen someone who doesn't love you, you know what it's like when they love you. He will hold you in the palm of his hand with the same care as the most precious treasure in the worldHe will take care of you seriously and be grateful that you are so lucky to meet you in this world. Whether a man loves you or not, the details will tell you.