But love will not be once and for all, getting and cherishing are always two propositions.
If you want to be together for a long time, it is not enough to rely on the arrangement of fate, and it is also important to manage the time you spend together.
Between men and women, insist on taking the initiative to do three things in order to live up to the fate of the encounter.
First, if there is a conflict, take the initiative to communicate.
Some people say: Those who are unwilling to say it will not gradually disappear with the passage of time, but will only form a bigger and uglier tumor under the accumulation of time, until one day, it will completely break out.
Just like in "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng couldn't adapt to his wife for a long time.
He doesn't like his wife's idleness, and he only knows how to spend his hard-earned money to eat, drink and have fun every day, which is completely a matter of assumption, but he can't give himself the emotional value he wants.
Many people say that the marriage between the two of them in the first half of their lives could not go on because of Luo Zijun's stagnation, but Chen Junsheng's lack of communication in the face of problems is also the reason why the relationship between husband and wife cannot go on.
In any relationship, there can be no conflict, disagreements and disputes are common.
Couples who can be together for a long time will realize the importance of communication, and when misunderstandings occur, give each other a chance to relax their marriage, and such feelings will get better and better in the process of getting along.
When you are together, give to each other.
The most feared feeling is that when people are together, their hearts are cold.
Just like in "The Wind Blows in the Summer", Feng Yu's wife especially wants to manage her marriage well, she knows that she can't get the love of her husband Feng Yu in appearance, so she tries her best to maximize her business ability, devote herself to business, and strive to make money so that her family can live a better life.
But Feng Yu did not cherish his wife's contribution, he enjoyed the results of his wife's fatigue, but gave the gentleness and thoughtfulness that should have been given to his wife to his lover outside of marriage.
In exchange for her husband's detachment, Feng Yu's wife saw this and accompanied Feng Yu through the last business difficulties and filed for divorce.
When the two came together, neither of them had the original intention of separating in the future, but just walked away with regret.
The pay is mutual, you take out a heart, I also take out a heart, the two hearts are close to each other, not one heart keeps moving away, let the other heart follow the scarred pursuit, otherwise, people who pay too much will get tired sooner or later.
3. Believe in feelings and firm beliefs.
To be honest, there is a long distance between marriage and husband.
When I was about to take it anymore, he suddenly wanted to be with me because he felt safe with me and wouldn't worry about me leaving.
He told me a lot of what he really thought in his heart, nothing more than insecurity about love, his past family experiences and friends around him were all going to the end of divorce one after another, so much so that he thought that the end of marriage was divorce, rather than having the determination to carry out the marriage with one person to the end.
However, my courage and companionship touched him, and my attachment and trust in my feelings let him know that I was sincere, not a spur of the moment of joke, not a challenge of conquest to satisfy desires.
I have always felt that the relationship between men and women requires trust.
With the support of faith, believing that two people's lives can be better, they will work hard in both directions;I believe that each other will overcome all kinds of difficulties encountered, and only then will we really take various ways to get along with difficulties.