Rural people live a simple life and advocate an innocent and sincere attitude. In everyday life, some people may feel self-resentment and show regret after making a mistake or saying the wrong thing. Rural people, however, as bystanders, do not like to listen to such words of self-resentment. Such words have no practical problem-solving benefits and only bring negativity and negative energy. Rural people know how to face their mistakes positively and correct them instead of blaming themselves and others. Therefore, the words of the people in the countryside who resented themselves were considered to be contrary to the will of heaven, and no one would say them.
Rural people pay attention to a positive attitude in life, and they are more willing to solve problems with actions rather than blaming themselves or others. They believe that only by facing the mistakes of the past positively and with kindness can they truly grow and progress. Therefore, in rural communities, people often encourage and support each other to solve problems and build a harmonious social atmosphere.
Rural people have a psychological belief that words have some power. In their belief that unlucky words invite bad luck and disaster, rural people are very averse to hearing negative statements that do not correspond to the actual situation, which are often referred to as unlucky words. No matter what the occasion or situation, rural people will not say bad luck words, because they will only attract the displeasure and disgust of others.
The beliefs of rural people are deeply embedded in their daily lives and social customs. There is a tradition of avoiding unlucky words in some of the solar terms customs related to agriculture and the customs of weddings and funerals. For example, in the case of rural funerals, the deceased relatives are referred to as "unfortunate deaths" rather than "dead". For farmers, avoiding unlucky words is a way to respect and protect themselves and others.
Rural people pay attention to the attitude of friendliness and kindness. In daily life, even if some people or things are not good for them, rural people will not deliberately curse others. As a result, the words of vicious curses are frowned upon in rural communities, and no one wants to hear them. Malicious curses only invite resentment and opposition from others, and worse, such curses show the speaker's lack of morality and reason.
Rural communities emphasize the values of good-neighbourliness and mutual help. When faced with difficulties or conflicts, they are more inclined to adopt a peaceful and conciliatory way to solve the problem. After all, cursing others does not change reality, but rather hurts relationships and destroys the harmony of the community. Rural people are more inclined to treat others with kindness and understanding, so that together they can create a warm and livable community environment.
In rural communities, people are used to facing problems directly and honestly. When there is an objection or dissent, it can be raised directly to the other person, rather than saying something very targeted in front of everyone. Such blatant language hurts the personality and self-esteem of others and violates the principles of mutual respect and care. Therefore, in rural life, highly targeted and sharp words are not liked by rural people.
Rural people value peaceful communication and a friendly way of getting along. They know that treating others with respect and being rational and calm in communication is an effective way to resolve conflicts and contradictions. In rural communities, people are generally sincere and frank and communicate with a calm attitude, so that stable interpersonal relationships and a harmonious community environment can be established.
Some people often humble themselves excessively and degrade themselves excessively in front of others. While this may be out of a humble state of mind, in the eyes of others, these words are just a reflection of your own true words, believing that you are not capable. Rural people do not like to hear these vain words. Such words will affect yourself, reduce your self-confidence, and make others feel that you are not confident and capable. If you first express a bunch of incompetence about yourself when someone asks you to do something, they may withdraw the invitation and not let you do it. Therefore, the rural people are very sensibly aware that self-indulgent words are not beneficial, but only have negative consequences.
Rural people emphasize positive self-perception and self-confidence, believing that only by believing in themselves and showing their practical abilities can they better accomplish their tasks. Rural people pursue a pragmatic attitude, they encourage themselves to dare to face challenges, be brave to try, and believe that their own strength can overcome difficulties. In rural communities, they often encourage and support each other, inspire positive confidence in each other, and create opportunities and successes together.
Rural people attach importance to practical ability and the quality of being down-to-earth and willing to work. They don't appreciate people who like to show off themselves and show arrogance. Such people usually boast of having very high abilities on the surface, but in reality they are not as capable as others. Rural people firmly believe that only those who are truly capable and capable are worthy of being called powerful people, not people who talk about the sky but do nothing. Therefore, rural people do not like to listen to arrogant words, they value practical ability and practical results.
In rural communities, there is a focus on practical and pragmatic qualities. They believe that true success can only be achieved if they put in the hard work and work hard. In rural life, an attitude of pride and arrogance is seen as a sign of vanity and unreality, which in turn invites resentment and distrust from others. Rural people are more inclined to work hard, low-key and pragmatic, so that they can truly make substantial progress and achievements.
To sum up, rural people live in a simple environment and pay attention to the character traits of sincerity, friendliness, humility and practicality. They don't like to listen to words that are resentful of themselves, unlucky, vicious curses, targeted words, self-indulgent words, and arrogant words. These words that are contrary to the will of God are not only regarded as taboo in rural communities, but also reflect the civilized, friendly and simple attitude of rural people. Rural people hope to maintain a positive attitude in their daily lives, to be more happy and joyful, and less sad and complaining. Therefore, we should pay attention to choosing appropriate words in our communication, live in harmony with others, and jointly create a harmonious and livable community environment.