The age of 24 was in 2000.
During his year at the Beijing Film Academy, he got acquainted with a man known as a "weirdo".
Although he is 18 years old, he is like an old man at heart, different from others who are cheerful and lively, only he cherishes every word.
His deepest impression was that the man was both independent and arrogant.
His beliefs are like an iron stalk, never swayed by others, and he never succumbs to the opinions of the outside world.
At that time, Zhang Songwen never thought that this person who has always been strong-willed would break his bottom line in the future because of a woman and achieve all kinds of patience.
Zhou Yiwei is Zhang Songwen's friend for 23 years, and that "weirdo" is not anyone else.
The self-proclaimed person is an unstable person, but it has brought Zhu Dan a lifetime of stability.
In an interview, Zhang Songwen mentioned his initial impression of Zhou Yiwei.
He was tall and a man, and at that time his face was not fully mature, he was introverted and not very talkative. I felt older than him, so I took care of him like a brother.
The two used to be in the same room, and Zhang Songwen was often surprised and delighted by this young man.
Zhou Wai often shows a different "weirdness" in many cases.
Zhou Yiwei had just turned 18 years old at the time, and he was in the prime of his youth, although he was full of spirit, he had a few smiles on his face and loved to recite Su Dongpo's poems.
It is normal for young people to love Su Dongpo's poems, but the reason why Zhou Yiwei likes Su Dongpo is because he feels that he has experienced similar ups and downs as Su Dongpo, and he has been displaced.
It wasn't until later that Zhang Songwen realized that Zhou Yiwei's temperament was closely related to his family environment.
His ancestral home is Zhou Wei, Xiangxi, Hunan.
He was born into an artistic family, and his parents were both engaged in literary and artistic work.
Yu Daming, my mother, is a first-class choreographer and has won the rank of colonel;And my father is proficient in ** and is the pillar of the theater.
Zhou Yiwei is naturally regarded as the "pride of the sky" because he has such a pair of excellent parents, but in reality, his childhood was not as happy and leisurely as people think.
Mother Yu Daming once revealed in an interview that Zhou Yiwei has been the kind of child who "hangs a key" around his neck since he was a child.
Because his parents had been working outside the home for a long time, Zhou Yiwei was initially sent to his uncle's house for foster care, and later moved to Beijing with his parents to settle down. Since he was a child, he has experienced "free-range" and moved to another country, and his personality has become more and more withdrawn.
Although Zhou Yiwei has settled in Beijing, what he misses most in his heart is still Xiangxi, Hunan Province, where he grew up. Therefore, he compares himself to Su Dongpo and thinks that he is also a person who has left his hometown and is displaced.
Zhang Songwen commented on Zhou Zhouwei that he was young but had an "old soul" in his heart.
For example, Zhou Yiwei has a withdrawn personality, and he is very "picky" about his friends.
When Zhang Songwen was on Nortel, he once mentioned that he had two very good friends.
Zhou Zhou Wei and Lin Jiachuan, one is him and the other is her.
As Zhang Songwen's experience continues to be enriched, he has made more and more friends.
Even now, Zhou Yiwei's closest friends are still Zhang Songwen and Lin Jiachuan, and their friendship is still strong.
Zhou Yiwei's circle of friends is not wide, not because he has few opportunities to make friends, but because he is very picky.
He said of himself: "My blood is relatively cold, and it is not easy to make friends. ”
When he was a child, Zhou Yiwei rarely made friends with others, "People who eat pencil heads can't be friends, and people who swear can't do it, and they don't want to be sloppy or talk incompatible." ”
Zhou Yiwei became an adult and adhered to principles even more, he refused to walk with people who were different from the circle and could not talk, and he would never be strong.
Zhang Songwen once advised Zhou Zhouwei not to always behave so "face-hanging", because who can guarantee that they will never meet again in their lives?
Zhou Zhouwei said: "Of course, if you meet the wrong person, you can only part ways with them in this life." "Results.
Who would have thought that for Zhu Dan, he was such a person, but he was so exceptional.
He claimed that it would take him a long time to get warm, but he fell in love with Zhu Dan at first sight.
In 2013, on Monday, he witnessed Zhu Dan crying while "practicing swords" on the filming set of "Embroidered Spring Knife".
Zhu Dan was so aggrieved that he had a handful of snot and tears, which made Zhou Yiwei instantly feel that this girl was quite "stupid", but it was a cute "stupid".
Zhou Yiwei later began to encourage Zhu Dan, but he didn't expect that this "encouragement" would make him fall into it for the rest of his life.
He doesn't easily communicate with people, let alone trust others, but he paid off nearly 20 million debts for Zhu Dan.
During the first love period, Zhu Dan was deceived by his friends of nearly 20 million, if it was an ordinary man who encountered this situation, he might have chosen to run away a long time ago.
Zhou Zhouwei did not run away, on the contrary, he also comforted Zhu Dan and expressed his willingness to repay the arrears with her.
Excuse me, what man can be willing to take on his girlfriend's tens of millions of debts when they are just starting a relationship?
He called himself "wandering", but he provided Zhu Dan with a calm and stable home.
Zhou Yiwei often refers to himself as a "wanderer", but in fact he came from a wealthy background and his parents were open-minded, just because they were busy with work and did not have time to take care of him.
Zhu Dan's father died young, and his mother later remarried. Due to his family background, Zhu Dan has always been insecure. Even if she became the "host first sister", she still can't get rid of the shadow of her childhood.
Zhou Yiwei did not dislike Zhu Dan's performance, on the contrary, he did his best to make up for Zhu Dan's past shortcomings and regrets.
Zhu Dan was worried that her in-laws would question her "remarriage" status, but she didn't expect Zhou Yiwei to directly move her parents, so that Zhu Dan could successfully meet Zhou Yiwei's parents for the first time, and be able to call them "Mom and Dad" naturally.
Who doesn't like such a man?
never bowed to the outside world, but crossed the bottom line for Zhu Dan.
Zhang Songwen and Zhou Yiwei have known each other for more than 20 years, and he has always thought that Zhou Yiwei is a very principled person.
Zhou Zhouwei has some social phobia, and he feels very awkward to strangers, so he doesn't like to participate in social interactions.
For example, even after becoming an actor, Zhou Yiwei is still low-key and doesn't like to show his head.
For example, Zhou Zhouwei has his own set of "rules of doing things" and does not care about the opinions of the outside world.
Zhou Yiwei also expressed a similar opinion in an interview:
I don't have the energy and ability to please everyone, so I never care about some dissent or things that don't agree with me.
Zhou Zhouwei's biggest wish is to be able to become an actor quietly.
He is looking for a noble emotional experience, a refined artistic taste, and a superior technique.
He declared that the rivers and lakes are like water and there are many dangers, but I will stick to my heart, love whoever I love, and black whoever is black, never lose my dignity, and never retreat!
He only wants to be alone in his own world, not to be involved in the world, nor to cater to the hustle and bustle of the environment.
As we all know, the profession of an actor must be shown in person.
In addition to this, you also need to build various relationships and fight for various resources in order to create opportunities for yourself to perform. Otherwise, no matter how good your acting skills are, you won't be noticed.
Zhang Songwen once tried to persuade, enlighten, and even force Zhou Yiwei to let go of himself to cope with his irritability.
He told Zhou Zhouwei not to be self-righteous, not to get caught up in the minutiae, if you don't adapt to this era, you will be abandoned. In this busy world, fame and fortune are all about satisfying one's inner needs.
At that time, Zhang Songwen may not have imagined that he tried his best to reluctantly let Zhou Yiwei open his heart, but Zhu Dan could make Zhou Yiwei willing to walk towards the "cliff", even if he knew that there was a desperate situation ahead, he did not hesitate.
2023 will be the year of what Zhou Yiwei calls a "turning point in his life".
During this year, he appeared in the public eye with his wife Zhu Dan, participated in reality shows, and publicly showed his private life to the audience.
He simply couldn't imagine this before.
From his debut to the present, Zhou Yiwei has always adhered to one principle - no matter what the outside world is, he will never deliberately show himself. After all, that's what he's always done.
Even in 2019, he was jokingly called "PUA Zhu Dan" by the whole network, and he never gave any explanation.
He once said: "The evaluation of others belongs to others, and whether we see sixpence or moonshine is up to us, and we don't have to pay attention to outside voices." ”
No one expected that he would appear for Zhu Dan.
He absolutely can't tolerate a situation like "there is no light on Zhu Dan"!
In order to let Zhu Dan revive his career and realize his dream, even if he is reluctant, even if there seems to be a "cliff" ahead, he said that he will definitely "jump down"!
The audience can actually feel from the show that Zhou Yiwei is not used to this kind of reality show.
According to netizens, when they were on the show on Monday, they either "shrunk their heads", or hid behind Zhu Dan and snickered, or concentrated on work, behaving like a typical "social phobia".
Some people may think that Zhou Yiwei's behavior violates principles, but more people see a man's responsibility and responsibility for a woman.
Perhaps for this reason, Zhu Dan said such a paragraph when he confessed to Zhou Zhouwei.
You may have been quietly an actor, but because of me, you went on the show and violated a lot of principles. So I feel guilty and feel like I should apologize to you, I'm sorry.
But you told me that in love, we don't need to be thankful, we don't need to apologize, because once we hold hands, we have already decided everything, bear it together, experience it together, after all, we are husband and wife, this is a matter of course.
Zhu Dan's sincere words are moving, in the face of such a week, which woman can not be infected?
Zhou Zhouwei's achievements are by no means limited to this, he has many more outstanding performances.
He is not a man who is eloquent, but he always carries a thermos cup with him, and from time to time he shoots ** from various angles for his wife.
He claimed that he was not romantic at all, but even if Zhu Dan wrote a note casually, he would secretly frame it.
He claimed that he never gave Zhu Dan gifts and did not like to celebrate holidays, but whenever he was at home, he would help Zhu Dan dry his hair.
He claimed that his blood was cold and he didn't like to put certain things on the table, but when he faced Zhu Dan, the pampering in his eyes really couldn't be hidden.
The pattern of the week is also the most admirable and commendable.
Excuse me, what man would not blame or complain when his girlfriend was cheated of tens of millions, but did his best to help her repay the arrears?
Even if Zhu Dan once fell into an uncontrollable emotion, do you still remember what Zhou Zhouwei said?
I was very impressed by this man at the time, he said that things in the world are always endless, and in the end, they can only end it.
Ask what man can pamper his wife and children calmly and carelessly after years of being misunderstood and reprimanded?
If it weren't for the show on Monday to "clarify grievances", netizens said that everyone might still think that Zhu Dan was "low-voiced"!
I understood at once that I saw such a week around:
Zhang Songwen has been friends with him for 23 years, but the friendship between the two is still the same, what is the reason?
Although Zhu Dan was under the pressure of "ridicule and humbleness" on the whole network, she still firmly supported Mr. Zhou's bold and responsible behavior.
He knew it, because Zhou Yiwei was a good person in his own right.
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