Our family Zihan made a fuss on the Internet, which caused heated discussions and ridicule from many people. This is not a good sign, this is Zihan's mother's performance in the WeChat group. She questioned why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes, while the other children were unharmed. Such an unreasonable move caused netizens to be angry and ridiculed, so there was a joke like "My Family Zihan" to be used for sarcasm. Don't look at these jokes, in fact, they also reflect the "overprotection" of parents for their children and the dilemma faced by teachers.
My family Zihan"It is a very popular title, especially in universities, and there are not a few first-year students with the name "Zihan". It can be seen that the three words Zihan are so popular among students in major schools. Both men and women, their names carry a noble flavor. However, no one expected that this incident would cause heated discussions on the Internet, and a series of ridicule and ridicule followed. The root of the matter is Zihan's mother's performance at a parent-teacher meeting, where she asked the teacher a lot of bizarre and ridiculous questions, which made people laugh and cry.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with parents loving their children, but over-indulgence and indulgence will hinder their healthy development. Parents want their children to grow up without being hurt or troubled. However, this is not the case, and in the process of development, there will always be various difficulties and ups and downs. Parents exaggerate and blame teachers for all their faults, which not only creates a bad problem, but also dislikes teachers. Excessive care of parents for their children is not only harmful to their healthy development, but also brings adverse consequences to their healthy development.
The sarcastic comments on "My Family Zihan" on the Internet actually reflect the dilemma and tension of the teachers. As ridiculous as these words may sound, we can't ignore them. In the process of growing up, teenagers will inevitably encounter various difficulties and setbacks, that is, the so-called"Frustration"education. But there are also some parents who see this as a sign of indifference and indifference from the teacher, especially in kindergarten, because the teacher takes on a lot of the parents' responsibility"Nameless rage"。However, kindergarten teachers are not wet nurses for their parents, they just need to do their job. When parents go to the teacher about their children's diet, they are not satisfied. Parents overly defend their children, which is also the most troublesome thing for teachers, rather than this, it is better to take their children home to teach themselves, so as not to cause negative effects on both parties.
How can a teacher skillfully solve a conflict with a parent?First of all, the teacher should keep the evidence and write down their words and actions so that they can be used when necessary. When faced with parental doubts, teachers should give good reasons instead of dealing with criticism from others. At the same time, teachers should have a stable mind, truly love their teaching work, and be friendly and cheerful to their children. Although the teacher's salary is not high, he is very happy with the child, and the teacher's mood should also be pleasant, only in this way can the teacher better integrate into the child's life. In addition, teachers should also pay attention to their words and deeds, and establish a certain prestige in the minds of their classmates, so as to win the respect of their parents and no longer see them as a "nanny". Especially in kindergartens, it is generally a class led by several teachers, and at this time, teachers should pay attention to their words and deeds, not to their own disadvantage, and not to punish students with corporal punishment. This will not only have a negative impact on your job prospects, but also damage your reputation.
For parents, there is nothing wrong with paying attention to their children's development, but paying too much attention will cause others to worry and disgust, and may not be accepted by their children. Therefore, parents should conduct self-reflection to find the root cause of the problem, and at the same time learn better teaching methods. Parents should know that their children have to go through difficulties and setbacks, which is the only way for a person to grow. They should learn to Xi handle things on their own and not rely too much on their parents. In order for parents to achieve healthy development, in addition to providing necessary assistance and guidance, they should also let them deal with problems on their own.
At the same time, it is also necessary to recognize the hardships and hardships of the teachers. Not only do they have to deal with the pressure of education, but they also have to deal with doubts and doubts from their parents. Teachers should be treated with respect and dignity as a profession. At the same time, as an English teacher majoring in English, I must also improve my own quality and keep up with the pace of development of the times, so as to better meet the requirements of social development.
In short, parents should pay due attention to their children's development and avoid excessive protection and pamperingIn the work, it is necessary to correctly deal with conflicts between students and parents and maintain the good image of the school. Schools and families should create a favorable educational environment and conditions for the healthy development of young children.