"I am a soldier, with affection, righteousness, love, and good thoughts......”
On the stage of "China Dream Show", soldier Lu Lei sang such a song affectionately.
The lyrics in the song describe what he went through, and Lu Lei shows what a real good person is through his real behavior.
Such a young, excellent and handsome man, but his wife was forever three years old due to a car accident.
Lu Lei did not leave coldly as everyone expected, on the contrary, he shouldered the responsibility of taking care of his wife, and showed the true definition of a Chinese ** person through his actual behavior.
What was supposed to be a happy thing turned into a sad tragedy.
January 1, 2010 is not only New Year's Day, but also a special day that soldier Lu Lei will always remember.
Lu Lei, who has been stationed in the army for a long time, is actually very lucky, because he has a very beautiful girlfriend, her name is Pan Xiaoxia.
After two years of romance, the two have decided to enter the palace of marriage together. Pan Xiaoxia's visit to the army was mainly to complete a series of procedural examination and approval work.
The two meet again after a long separation, and they decide to have dinner together at a restaurant and celebrate the first day of the new year together.
After the meal, when I walked along the road back to the troops, it was already past seven o'clock in the evening, and the sky had become dark at this moment. Suddenly, I noticed a small road in front of me, which was the only way from a small village to the county seat. This road is inaccessible in everyday life and is almost untraveled.
But disaster fell from heaven, and the accident happened at this moment.
On the street at night, the sound of a farm tractor suddenly sounded, and out of instinct, Lu Lei hurriedly pulled Pan Xiaoxia to the side to dodge, but it was too late.
The driver, who had drunk too much alcohol, failed to see the two passengers in front of him clearly in a drunken state, and when he realized this, one became very anxious and mistook the brakes for the accelerator pedal.
The agricultural tractor suddenly rushed out, causing two people to be knocked into the air.
Lu Lei suddenly lost consciousness, and when he came to his senses, he found himself lying on the hospital bed, and the doctor was carefully observing him.
In fact, Pan Xiaoxia, who was traveling with him, is now in a coma with a large amount of intracranial hemorrhage and urgently needs surgery**.
Fortunately, Lu Lei regained consciousness, and the doctor urged him to sign his name as soon as possible.
Due to the tight time, Lu Lei couldn't make a choice, so he could only sign his name with trembling hands, he never expected that this visit would bring such misfortune to Pan Xiaoxia.
Lu Lei waited for hours, but in the end he only received a regretful statement from the doctor.
Due to the extremely severe bleeding condition of Pan Xiaoxia, she may be in a vegetative state for a long time in the future, and her physical mobility will also be limited, so even if she wakes up, she can only choose to lie in bed to rest.
Pan Xiaoxia has already made a marriage contract with Lu Lei, and she is Lu Lei's future wife.
At this moment, Lu Lei looked at Pan Xiaoxia, who was lying unconscious on the hospital bed, and fell into deep thought, recalling every detail of getting along with her.
The older leftover man meets true love.
Lu Lei, who was born in 1983, has become an older single man in the eyes of his parents in the countryside.
Lu Lei's appearance is really handsome, his height is close to one meter eight, but why can't he always find a suitable partner?Because he is a teacher, not an actor, he can't have any special temperament. It's all because of the profession he is in.
As a soldier, Lu Lei must serve in the army for a long time. It is for this reason that many girls who know him shake their heads in dissatisfaction.
Although Lu Lei did not show much anxiety, his parents became very anxious because of it. Every time Lu Lei went home to visit relatives, he chose the moment of blind date.
In this family reunion in 2008, Lu Lei once again received a blind date arrangement.
Lu Lei just casually put on a casual outfit and went to the agreed place, because he didn't expect much from it, but when he met each other, both of them looked a little shocked.
This girl is not only outstanding in appearance, but what is more interesting is that her eyes are strikingly similar to Lu Lei.
The two men seemed to have an air of déjà vu at first glance, and then they both smiled shyly.
Fate always comes suddenly and cannot be stopped. This young woman not only fell in love with Lu Lei at first sight, but also did not show much reverence for the profession he was engaged in.
Pan Xiaoxia is a very frank young woman. In her first blind date, she only said this sentence: "I only care if you are good to me or not, and when you are not at home, I can also promise to take care of your parents and let you rest assured." ”
I really didn't expect such a sincere and frank young woman to emerge in this day and age.
The outstanding-looking Pan Xiaoxia and the handsome Lu Lei, their eyes met just right.
This is what people often call "love at first sight", after Lu Lei returned home, he silently vowed in his heart that he must take good care of this girl, and he will always treat her well.
Pan Xiaoxia and Pan Xiaoxia spent a very sweet time in love, and they like to go to some fly restaurants to dine the most, because Pan Xiaoxia especially likes those interesting restaurants.
Pan Xiaoxia does not pursue a material life like other girls, she is neither dissatisfied with Lu Lei's poor family, nor dissatisfied with his low salary.
On the contrary, Pan Xiaoxia often used the funds he earned through his part-time job to support Lu Lei and buy all kinds of high-quality clothes for him, which deeply touched Lu Lei.
Even though the two didn't spend much time together, every nuance between them touched people's hearts deeply.
When Lu Lei recalled the continuous scene, and then saw Pan Xiaoxia lying silent on the hospital bed, he couldn't help but shed tears.
Under tremendous pressure, he chose to marry a girlfriend with a disability.
The truth is ruthless, after Pan Xiaoxia's parents arrived at the scene, they couldn't help crying loudly when they saw their daughter, and Lu Lei's eyes were also flushed after comforting them.
However, at this critical moment, Lu Lei's parents called him outside.
Although at this moment, Lu Lei has submitted all the wedding documents to the army, and they have been approved.
Despite this, Lu Lei's parents couldn't help but warn their son that Pan Xiaoxia's current situation would be unrealistic if they continued to enter into marriage.
Lu Lei's parents are not bad people, but a pair of very honest old men.
However, it is precisely because of this reality that they have to make such a choice. After Lu Lei heard this decision, he didn't say anything, turned around and returned to the ward.
The doctor told Lu Lei that in order for Pan Xiaoxia to regain consciousness, she must keep knocking on the door of her memory.
That is, by describing to her in detail about their past experiences, day by day, it is finally possible to find a solution to the problem.
Lu Lei ignored his parents' advice, but he seriously implemented the doctor's advice.
Pan Xiaoxia especially likes to listen to songs, which is why Lu Lei likes to sing softly for him every time he visits. In addition, Lu Lei always prepares all kinds of delicacies for Pan Xiaoxia, because Pan Xiaoxia's love for all kinds of delicacies is incomparable.
Lu Lei specially described this situation to the troops for Pan Xiaoxia, and considering the actual situation, the troops approved several months of vacation for him.
Therefore, during this period, Lu Lei devoted all his time to the company of his girlfriend.
It may be that Providence was moved by Lu Lei, but surprisingly, Pan Xiaoxia suddenly woke up with a slight blink of his eyelids after losing consciousness for more than 20 days.
At that particular moment, Lu Lei's mood was high, and he immediately called a doctor. Although Pan Xiaoxia has woken up, his consciousness has not yet fully recovered.
At this time, her IQ is equivalent to that of a three-year-old child. After the doctor tested, he told Lu Lei about it, Lu Lei did not give up, he thought that as long as people woke up, there was hope for everything.
He will give Pan Xiaoxia a massage every day, half of Pan Xiaoxia's body can't move, he will give her ** every day, and Pan Xiaoxia will get up one day.
Sure enough, as time passed, Pan Xiaoxia's legs gradually regained consciousness and began to move slightly. Lu Lei used his body to support Pan Xiaoxia, and the two marched forward together.
Under Lu Lei's careful care, Pan Xiaoxia gradually began to walk.
Even though she still limped, at least she wasn't the vegetative person she was sentenced to death.
Pan Xiaoxia gained weight, while Lu Lei lost a full ten pounds. After that, he made a bold choice and held a grand wedding ceremony with Pan Xiaoxia without obtaining a marriage certificate.
The day was October 7, 2010, an unforgettable day.
In other words, not long after Pan Xiaoxia woke up, Lu Lei did not hesitate to marry her back home, he used practical actions to fulfill his promise, he wanted to take care of Pan Xiaoxia for the rest of his life.
However, the medical conditions are limited, and the county hospital is not able to fully recover Pan Xiaoxia.
After getting married, Lu Lei, a young man who doesn't like to appear in public and has an introverted personality, finally mustered up the courage to step onto the stage of China's dream show.
He is not pursuing money, nor is it to win the pity of others, nor is it to become famous, what he pursues is only a goal.
Our goal is to let more doctors know through this program that he is eager to provide better medical resources for his wife.
The story between Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia deeply touched everyone present, many doctors provided them with valuable medical resources, and Pan Xiaoxia's health gradually improved.
Although the two have gone through more than ten years of married life, Lu Lei still has not given up his care and love for his wife, and firmly prepares meals for her every day and helps her recover her health.
The two had a boy and a daughter, and lived extremely happily.
At present, Pan Xiaoxia's mood has stabilized. Whenever Lu Lei has free time, he likes to accompany Pan Xiaoxia to go out for a walk, enjoy the beautiful scenery outside, and take her to taste food.
Although Pan Xiaoxia is now gaining weight and getting older, in Lu Lei's mind, she is still the woman who is as beautiful as a flower, and the future of the two of them will last for a long time.