When parents are old, the performance of filial piety is far from simply giving material support, but more importantly, it reflects respect and love for them in behavior.
This article will delve into the qualities that truly filial children should have, and this quality is reflected in the "three don'ts".
Don't interfere too much and respect parents' choices
A truly filial child knows how to keep a reasonable distance in respecting their parents' choices.
It's not about being indifferent, it's about being sensible about parental decisions.
They know how to respect the independence and wisdom of their parents, and do not easily interfere in trivial matters of life, let alone quarrel because of differences of opinion.
Instead, they will work with them to find the most appropriate solution by listening patiently, understanding their parents' considerations and needs.
Establishing a tacit understanding of parent-child relationship in respect is a manifestation of true filial piety.
This relationship is not based on blind obedience or coercion, but on the basis of understanding.
Parents feel respected by their children and are more willing to listen to their children's advice when needed.
Don't deliberately cater and keep honest communication
Children who are truly filial know how to be authentic in parent-child communication, rather than deliberately pandering.
They understand that deliberately pandering will not establish a real parent-child relationship, but may create communication barriers.
As a result, they will be honest about their opinions and feelings, and have in-depth communication with their parents.
In authentic communication, children can better understand their parents' expectations and concerns, and they are better able to communicate their own ideas.
This interaction leads to a closer parent-child bond because both partners are able to get to know each other more fully.
The true expression of children can enable parents to better understand their inner world, so as to build a deeper family bond.
Don't complain, don't complain, and actively accompany
Filial piety is not only expressed in words, but also needs to be reflected in action.
Children who are truly filial know how not to complain and complain when facing the pressures and difficulties in life, but to choose to face them positively.
This positive attitude inspires optimism in parents to get through the ups and downs of life together.
In addition, active companionship is also a manifestation of true filial piety.
Whether it's when parents are facing health issues or on ordinary days, children are able to devote more time and energy to their time.
Spend family time together, share the laughter and tears in life, and enrich the emotions between parents and children.
True filial piety is not simply giving material things, but embodying respect, understanding and companionship for parents in behavior.
By not intervening excessively, maintaining true communication, not complaining or complaining, and combining their own situation, truly filial children can express their deep feelings for their parents with practical actions.
May every family thrive in the warmth of family affection and achieve true filial piety.