There are several brothers and sisters in the father's generation, and the life is not rich, and the children grow up safely and healthily. The old man often puts a sentence on his lips: "It's delicious and delicious, what's not to be satisfied with?"Therefore, at that time, not only the goal of raising a baby was to be fed and clothed, but adults also worked hard to be fed and clothed.
And now?Generally, families can be fed and clothed, so everyone's requirements for raising babies have increased from material life to spiritual requirements.
For example, hobbies.
Parents have no hobbies and expect their children to be versatile, so they can only send them to interest classes. This incurs an expense.
In addition to learning to draw, some children also need to learn piano and dance, which is a lot of expenses.
I only cultivate my interest, and I have to keep up with my studies!I also enrolled my children in English enlightenment, mathematics enlightenment, picture book reading, and then learned the "Rubik's Cube" to exercise their thinking. Expenses have increased again.
Only with a good body can you learn well, and you have to exercise to enhance your physique!Let's sign up for roller skating, skipping rope, and swimming for your child!
That's a lot of money. If you are the parent of a working family, can you not be tired?
How to make children happy and parents less stressed?
1.Rational "learning".
2.Lower expectations for your child.
Everyone wants their son to become a dragon, but the dragon and the phoenix are 20% of the 20%. Why did Wenqu Xing fall on his own children?
Sometimes there is nothing wrong with accepting the mediocrity of children and recognizing the reality early.
Let's talk about it from a learning perspective.
When my parents were young, it was a luxury to study. When we were young, our parents were busy with themselves, and it was up to us to learn to what extent. Now that I think about it, sometimes it seems like it's really IQ.
What about today's children?
Because we have endured the hardships of life, we hope that children will stand in the fast lane of learning and change their destiny through learning.
And then what?After finishing my homework at school, I went home and had homework left by my mother.
After doing one exercise, there are 5 books next to it.
The child is tired, and it takes a lot of thought for the mother to collect these questions after work.
The main thing is that children don't like to do ......
Turn the page in 2023
I'm a mother, and I have two treasures at home. Full-time with a baby, insist on writing. Study hard and make progress with your child.